Feeling pressured about the future, and now that I have nothing, should I continue to work hard or f

1.It seems that everyone is talking about pressure again, which is normal, and the current society without pressure seems to be an outlier.

2.I haven't found it myself.,Why do you want to find a wife.,Don't harm others.。。。

Now you have nothing to work hard to make yourself stronger, and you can't give her a happy life if you find a wife who is poor and white, of course, if you meet the right person, it would be great to fight with you for the reason.

There is pressure all the time, if the age is enough, you can get married first, and then have a family and the motivation to struggle, maybe it can be better.

You can grasp it with both hands, find a wife to work together, in fact, it's nothing, my husband and I graduated with nothing, and now it's not the same life.

If you have a good marriage partner, you can consider getting married first, if not, you can continue to start a business without conflict, and at the same time take care of finding a partner.

If you find the right one, you will find it, and if you don't find the right one, you will work hard. It is difficult for a man to find a good girl without his own skills.

I don't think it's contradictory to work hard and find a wife, you can do it at the same time, and sometimes fate comes in the process of hard work.

In fact, work and family can be both without delay, talk about good people when you meet them, and of course work hard when you have a good opportunity.

Whether it's a job or a partner, you pay attention to fate, and you naturally have everything when you get it, so don't be too demanding.

Let's do a good job first, the economy is a little stable, and then it's easy to find a wife, it's hard to find someone who has nothing to do.

A stable job, if you have a wife, you will have it, or who dares to follow you, there is no security.

You can find a wife while working, and then you will have a bumper harvest.

You can discuss with your lover, make a plan for the future together, and then discuss the struggle together, which will be better than thinking about it alone.

No, I think it's normal, because your own life is up to you to decide.

In fact, if there is a suitable one, let's talk about it! When you have everything, you will be old.

Eternal love is in your heart, just as many people often ask whether there is true love in this world, in fact, true love is in your heart, as long as you sincerely pay, persistent pursuit, brave sacrifice, true love will happen in your body, and eternal love is your love. We know that love is a kind of selfless giving and sacrifice, and the reward of love is the eternal happiness and happiness of the other person, if you love each other, then you will be happy because the other person is happy, and you will be happy because the other person is happy. Whether it is in love before marriage or in the ordinary life after marriage, as long as you really love each other, as long as you work hard for your happy life, then eternal love is by your side, not that you have eternal love, but that you have created eternal love.

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist

There is pressure to be motivated, and the fact that you have nothing now does not represent your future. Now that you are young, you can still struggle and struggle, and success is always given to those who are prepared. Put down your baggage, work hard, and everything will be fine. You can do it.

What should be faced is still to face and accept the reality.

If you think like that, your wife will understand.

First of all, salute to the People's Liberation Army.

I want to say, this society now gives us infinite possibilities, big city.

There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great, but the problem you said does exist.

If you don't mind using the "cheat" method, it is recommended that you go a little further away from home. For example: I want to talk to you today about what I really think.

I want our family to settle down wherever in the future, and for this reason, I want to find a local daughter-in-law in **, so that the children's education will be good in the future (list all kinds of good). As for going out to find it, on the one hand, it will not delay the work, on the other hand, it will not delay the marriage of the partner, if you find it and the right one, you will definitely tie it immediately, and if you can't find it, you will definitely listen to you go home and get married. Besides, who doesn't want to find a partner they like, arranged marriage, in case the two of them don't get along in the future under unfamiliar circumstances, and they have to get divorced, you old couple don't want to see this situation, right?

If it's fast, you may even get married at that time, as long as you don't object to this kind of thing. If you have to let me get married here, at least I'm not happy right now—you see, it's been months, and my work has been delayed, and I've been delayed in finding a partner. After a while, a few years have passed, and we are still sitting here like today, and I hope that when the time comes, you will think, if you don't stop me today, you won't be able to hug your grandson sooner.

As long as your tirade can be clear and focused, "the two do not delay or conflict." "And it's good for your future development, they have no reason to stop you.

I've seen a lot of people who come back from the army and really can't even tell a lie, so it's best to numb yourself first and take this as your real goal for the time being. When you really go out, the sky is high and the emperor is far away, can they control you? At most, I will harass you from time to time, and even use all kinds of tricks to trick you back.

But it's hard to say at that time, maybe you can really bring them back a daughter-in-law.

As for whether your choice is correct, I dare not assert. But as a man, if you decide to do a good thing, you have to go to the end, even if you find out that everything is wrong in the end, don't regret it, otherwise you don't do it in the first place. If you are convinced that you are on the right path, then think about what might happen and the consequences beforehand, think about whether you can accept them, and if you can, go for it, because it's your own choice.

If you can't, or can't bear it, then listen to your parents.

People live for the rest of their lives, whether they live for their own ideas or according to other people's ideas, sometimes we should really think clearly.

As a soldier, I think you still have to have at least the courage to do so. You said that you are afraid that nothing will be achieved in the future, and it will be difficult to find a partner, so why should the husband have no wife?

I think what I am afraid of is not difficulties, but lack of direction, motivation and perseverance.

You have all of these, so even if you don't mix well, it is estimated that you will not be far behind.

The soldiers I have come into contact with are still very good in practice, and I believe you can do it too.

I don't think it's useful to communicate with my family because they are the ideal killers.

Do it boldly, dare to do it, dare to fight those who dare to fight, only have a chance to win!

It's not a conflict, it's okay, the key depends on how you think and how to do it, get married first and then struggle and then get married, there is this idea, it means that you have misunderstood, do you have to divide the struggle into periods, life is in the struggle in the world, and it starts from birth. It's just that the goals and methods are different, and we must believe that there are always more ways than difficulties.

You should seriously think about how to handle your career before marriage, and how to handle your career after marriage, instead of staying in the wandering after being afraid of wolves and tigers. Everyone's road is different, the specific situation is also different, their own road is their own, everything must first think of a solution, all roads lead to Beijing. Many people dig a pit in front of starting a family and starting a business, and then jump into it by themselves, things that are not conflicting, but they imagine a threshold, and they think about how to cross this hurdle as if they have to make a very important decision, you say tired or not.

Your situation is similar to that of my comrade-in-arms. But he's still in the army, and he's worse than you. My opinion is that you follow your own train of thought, and you don't get so tired and you don't have that much mental pressure when you walk with your own heart.

Marriage can't be said overnight, you can only talk about marriage on the basis of feelings, after all, it's a lifelong thing. I don't know if you're **, only 25 years old, why would you be in a hurry to get married, I'm from Weihai, Shandong, our man is 289 years old before he starts to find a partner in a hurry, you are quite qualified to study for a year or two and then start a business or something. The thoughts of the family belong to the thoughts of the older generation, and they want to live a peaceful and stable life, in fact, this kind of life will come sooner or later, so why not fight according to the path you want to take.

I support thinking men. Good luck.

There is an idiom called starting a family, why start a family first, a wife can make you worry-free (taking care of the family, housework, etc.) version, so that you have more time to struggle, the wife of a man who becomes a man is great, starting a family, you can't spend money casually, you have to think of home all the time, so that you will develop a thrifty character, it is a good start for the future, starting a family, it does not mean that you can't study, it doesn't mean wasting youth, many Ph.D., master's students, are married and then go to study.

25 is not old, if you have the will, of course it is best to have money, but only the problem of society, poor and lowly husband and wife for 100 days, blind date introduction to the main appearance also depends on your family conditions and people, I am also learning cars, the development of cars is really fast, car beauty liquid is good, if there are funds at home, it is best to open a store yourself, the early car wash praises popularity, after a period of time the business is okay, the money is full of more, 10w a year is not nothing, the last four words of the material society ,,, understand by yourself,

I think it's a lot about the attitude of the person you're looking for, you can talk to the other person very directly, as long as the relationship between the two parties is good, things will be easily resolved.

Dude, bai

Men want to struggle and then get married, and think that after getting married, it depends on what kind of person the fiancée you are looking for is. If it is right.

In fact, there will be no conflict between struggle and marriage, depending on what you think.