We are about to break up, what kind of attitude should I use to face this love that is not about to

No matter how much you fail, no matter how desperate you are, you must live with dignity!

After a few years, you will definitely laugh when you look at you now, come on, come on, get through, I don't think he is a good man, to live happily for himself, Chen Anzhi said: The past is not equal to the future, If you don't get what you want, you are about to get better!

His extramarital affair itself is a very unrighteous act, but there is an old Chinese saying about it.

You are unkind, I cannot be unjust", since you have loved him, forgive him once, but don't contact him in the future, if he has the intention of repenting. If he doesn't, you don't care, he's not a good guy anyway!!

The girl asked me what I thought about extramarital affairs. I think it is:

Borrowed time, borrowed men, borrowed women, borrowed pleasures.

He is married, no matter how good it is, it belongs to someone else. You just borrowed him for use without asking the owner's permission.

She is already someone's wife, no matter how cute she is, she belongs to someone else. You just borrowed her back. What is borrowed, is never yours.

What you borrow, you have to return to someone else after all. Those who have borrowed it, when the time comes, will go home.

You ask him, "Can you not go back tonight?" 」

When asked, you know he can't nod.

You ask him: Will we have a future? 」

Borrowed time, ** will there be a future?

You ask him: Will you ever love me? 」

How can you have borrowed something forever?

Both men and women who borrowed money have a time limit. No matter how happy and difficult it was to leave during those days, when the clock rang, it was time to return it to his family. You can pay it back later, but you can't pay it back. Borrowed pleasure always comes at a painful price.

The only thing you can hold on to forever is memories.

I think that such a man should be punished, and for the sake of the female compatriots, I should definitely tell her wife

And why go wrong again?

If you really love him, ask him out to talk about it, tell all the contradictions and problems between the two people, let him give you another chance, and the two of them try to date for another month, if he still insists on breaking up with you, you have to consider whether he has changed his mind. It's all pretending to say that you're worried that you're sad or sad, and you know, many people say those things when they propose to break up.

Since he wants to be calm, let him calm down, you love him silently next to him, but silent love does not mean doing nothing, you can also learn from my daughter-in-law's method, when I said to break up, she didn't contact me, but change my mobile phone number to call me every day, with which magic sound, I can't hear who she is, just follow me silently, and then I found out that I was very moved, now we are married, and we are about to have a baby. Hopefully, our story can play out between you!

You can ask him out once, have a good relationship with each other, you know, the information conveyed online is limited, not as rich as the information conveyed face-to-face. You know it's wrong, but your boyfriend doesn't know, and if you want to save the relationship, tell him what you know is wrong, because he doesn't know. You have to tell him in front of him how important it is in your mind, you can't do without him, don't be reluctant to save your face, if you really want to save it.

If there is anything, you must explain it clearly to your face, but you must control your emotions and stop arguing. Also, let him know that you really love him、、、 and if he insists on splitting, remember not to blame him.

The best thing you can do now is to impress him with your heart! Let him know that you really love him!

This is not a matter of generosity, small carelessness, the following is purely a personal opinion, for reference only, if it is an occasional contact is normal, it may be something or something else, if you contact for a long time, I think she still has feelings for her ex-boyfriend, your relationship is not reliable, this problem must be taken seriously, if she really loves you, she will keep a certain distance from her ex-boyfriend, if it is you, you will do the same! I can't still be friends after breaking up, I don't think it's necessary, it's not embarrassing to be friends when you go out together, you can still be friends, I think one is that you don't take your feelings seriously at the beginning, and you have to have a playful mentality. The second is that both parties still have feelings.

The third is that one party has feelings, and the other party has no feelings. But where one party has no feelings, I believe that most people will choose to be strangers and not have contact. In fact, if you ask this question, it means that you can't accept this thing at all, what kind of mentality can't accept it, can you bear it?

Generous? I don't think so, right? If you accept it, it's really not an ordinary person, I think you love her very much, you don't know what to do, talk about it, ask the reason, do empathy, talk about your heart, understand clearly, both of you must understand the premise that love should establish mutual trust, love a person will not do things that make the other party dislike and unhappy, this is the truth!

It's not impossible to be friends.

But you have to think about who is around you right now.

Who are you in love with right now?

I'm afraid that ordinary people can't pass this level in their hearts.

Seeing that the person you love is still connected with the previous one.

Or a different angle.

If your current boyfriend.

He has also been in contact with his former girlfriend.

What would you think?

Don't tell me.

You'll go with him. Love is selfish.

There are only two people in the world of love.

There is no room for half a grain of sand in the eyes of love.

So if you really love him.

And he cares about it.

Then I advise you to give up.

Don't hurt the present because of the past.

You can't have it both ways.

What's more, first, the expiration date has passed.

Personally, my ex-girlfriend is also in contact with her ex-boyfriend from time to time, and I didn't stop it in order to show my generosity. As a result, she always seems to casually talk about how her ex-boyfriend treated her well, I haven't figured it out before, but now that I think about it, she deliberately let me know, so that I and her ex-boyfriend can form a competitive relationship, whenever she quarrels with me, she will also go to him, resulting in even her fault, because she is afraid that she will go to him, she has to apologize in a low voice, and what is even more terrible is that I once apologized by buying a lot of lollipops and spelling out the three words sorry, she forgave me at once, and smug for a while, But now that I think about it, that was also what her ex-boyfriend "taught" me! It was she who kept mentioning those things that led me to subconsciously have this solution!

I rub! In short, this is definitely not a normal phenomenon, hurry up and talk to her buddy, no matter what the reason is right, tell her clearly, you and him, choose one!

Right! Why do you still contact you when you break up? I don't want my boyfriend to have any contact with his past girlfriend.

Talk to her sensibly and patiently about your feelings, and emphasize that you are not a little bellied, just worried about her. Girls can also have friends.

Women are like this, she wants you to be better to her. The reason why she is still in contact with her ex-boyfriend is to know that she still has someone else to want, and you have to be nice to her, otherwise she can leave you. Coax her a little more.

Calm, calm, which of the current girls can follow you honestly, they are all prepared with both hands, if you don't want it, someone will naturally want it. In fact, in the final analysis, it is still a man who is cheap, and he still contacts her when he knows that she has a boyfriend. No way, you look at the point, if nothing happens, normal contact is normal.

I hope you are happy.

Why bother influencing the feelings of the present for the sake of a person from the past? Talk to your girlfriend well, say what you think, and listen to her. If there really isn't anything between them, you should be generous, maybe your girlfriend will love you more because of your generosity!

Now my girlfriend is in contact with her ex-boyfriend, I don't know what mentality to look at, I don't like it very much, the reason why she is still in contact with her ex-boyfriend is to know that she still has someone else, you have to be nice to her, otherwise she.

It depends on whether they are chatting quietly or in normal contact! If you are quietly and often contacted behind your back, you will have to endure the pain of parting love, or it is better to give up

Go with your girlfriend to face your ex-boyfriend, explain the relationship in person, and see how things are going before deciding on the next step.

There is a simple truth, that is, after a breakup, you will never be true friends again. Because, if you still get along with friends after the breakup, then there are only two results, one is to get back together, and the other is to hurt deeper, and there is no third situation. Therefore, if you don't plan to get back together with him, then it is wrong for you to face him with any mentality now, because it is wrong to be friends after a breakup.

I said: "If you really let go, you won't have such troubles, since it's a breakup, it's the best blessing to be able to see each other." If you really can't avoid it, then face it with the most ordinary and natural mentality.

Nothing to do Try not to think about him contact him.

If it's not possible, it's best to start a new relationship. There is no point in dwelling on the past.

Friend, don't feel too embarrassed that way!

To reduce unnecessary mood swings, try not to see each other as much as possible.

It's still a friend, people should be generous, and the more they think about it, the more troubled they are.

Being comfortable as a stranger, I can't be friends with my ex anyway. If the incumbent finds out, he will be unhappy.

It depends on who dumped whom. The man you dump doesn't even take a look, and if he dumps you, don't even look at it.

The attitude of a friend, if you can!

Don't think about your parents asking for money, when you don't have money in your pocket, you don't need to adjust anything, trust me, I tried.

Travel or start a new relationship.

Why did you just graduate from college now, not in July?

I think that you are not married yet, you are so accommodating, this is a compromise, so what about after you get married, cherish yourself, believe that there will be better girls waiting for you not far away, I believe that you will be able to work hard, bless and wish you a good fate.

I found out that you are really a very kind man, but it's a pity that you didn't meet a girl who was emotional, to be honest, it wasn't worth it, you paid so much for her, and she kicked you because of a game? You must think that she is for your own good and doesn't want you to suffer, but what if she really loves that little boy and is unwilling to suffer with you, you don't dare to face this reality, right?

Whenever love reaches a peak, it will start to decline, and you must learn to let go.

Besides, it wouldn't end well for her to be with a boy who was 6 years younger than him.

You have to let go, let go and you will be happy, and the measure should be big.

You can tell her.

It's okay to break up, but remember that I love you forever.

The truth is, she doesn't love you anymore Even if she gets married, she will miss that boy from time to time, after all, what she doesn't get is the best Broken mirrors can't be reunited.

How can someone who really loves say let go and let go. What's more, LZ loves it so desperately. It's so touching) if you feel like you're still brave enough to love her.

Then impress her with sincere actions. Girls will be touched by your sincerity. I'm sure she'll change her mind.

Bless you all.

You've written it for a long time, hehe, he's proposing, and you'll just say yes, you really love her, wait for her for a while, and I think she'll come back in the unreal world of this game.

If you broke up and were still in love, then she must be happy to see that you still pay attention to her, if the version is me, I will feel that I have no right to look at the wrong person, the other party still pays attention to his Weibo after breaking up, which means that he is still more infatuated, I think you continue to follow her, she will be moved, and there is hope to get back together, if you don't pay attention to it, it will be even more useless. If you break up because she is in love with another man, then she should still want you to let go and give each other a chance to start over, hoping to help you and wish you happiness!

Since you can't let it go, let's try to see if you can get back together, ask her if she still cares about you, so as not to regret it later, even if you fail, it's just a return to the original point, and it also gives you a reason to really let go of her.

Since you are already unfamiliar, why bother to review frequently, good horses don't eat back grass, why don't husbands have no wife!

She didn't quite get out of the sadness of the breakup just like you.

If people want to be able to lift it and let it go, why bother you to where you are today?

People have feelings for a long time, not to mention that you are lovers, and your dependence on each other has led to some behaviors that have broken up now, and the full score proves that you have paid in this relationship, and some behaviors and actions after the breakup are not controlled by the brain, so I can't help but want to pay attention to her, because you love her very much, very infatuated, and her cancellation of your Weibo attention or any other action is a normal behavior, indicating that she wants to live a new life and a new beginning. You continue to pay attention to her, and I hope you are doing well, breaking up is a matter of two people, calm down and think about it, what's going on. Once the relationship is broken up, even if the compound happiness index is not high, it will eventually lead to a breakup, and the breakup is growth, so that you can be handy when facing the next relationship, and don't fall in the same place.