What kind of mentality should I have towards him in the future?

Updated on psychology 2024-02-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If there is no trust, how can there be love, and if there is love, how can it not be trusted? Your words are a contradiction in themselves, and perhaps this is where your confusion lies.

    At this time, you should find a quiet corner and think about it: has your love faded? Why do you always say break up? He has deceived you again and again, are you really unable to tolerate this kind of behavior?

    Of course, if you still feel that you can't let go of him, then try to think about whether there is something wrong with you. Because the reason for the breakdown of the relationship is always two-sided, if you love him, you have to try to change for him, and exchange your charm for his true repentance!

    This belongs to your own happiness, you have to rely on your own thinking, others can only be suggestions, the final decision belongs to you, remember, you have to think about it before making a decision, no matter what, I wish you happiness!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Stay with him slowly and don't think about the unhappy things. Or let him explain it to you, if you really want to forgive him, then forgive, if you don't want to, forget it. I was the same with my lover at the time.

    But it was he who proposed the score before. The reason we broke up was that I was not from Beijing and his family was against it. So he was under pressure.

    So it's not good for me. When we broke up so many times, I never forgot about it, believing that it would not be possible to be together. He came back and asked me to forgive him too.

    Told me why he used to do that to me. Like you, I still love him. In the end, I gave him some time and gave myself some time.

    I forgave him. We got married.

    But my friend, the forgiveness I mentioned above is not the same as your situation. If you think you can trust him, then forgive him, if you can't believe it, then don't forgive, without him, you will live well, very happy, maybe there is a better man waiting for you to love. Shoes are comfortable on your feet and you know best.

    So what he does to you, whether he deserves your forgiveness or not depends on yourself in the end.

    I wish you happiness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    What to love and not to love.

    That's all life is all about.

    There's no one who can't live anymore.

    Don't want this kind of man.

    Will come across better ones in the future.

    Look at all things.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you're sure he still loves you, you should give him a chance.

    If you always don't believe him, he will be very distressed, if someone talks to him at this time, his heart will be very comfortable, and the person he talks to will understand him very well. After a long time, you may have a feeling of dependence on that person. There will be empathy.

    So love him, tolerate him as much as possible, but don't indulge him.

    If he doesn't love you now, don't give him any chance.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love him, keep him.

    Because to love someone is not to be compared to what he is.

  6. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If there is love in the heart, no matter how many third parties there are, it will not be affected.

    On the contrary, if love is not there, no matter how angry you are, it will be in vain.

    Ask your heart, it knows the answer.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Trust Him one more time, for you still love Him.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is love, but you can feel reluctant to break up, and you feel hateful if you don't divide it, and it will be very uncomfortable. Forgive if you feel you can afford it; If not, cut. - Someone who came over (I cut it but I'm not strong, I hope you do better than me.) )

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If two people love each other, no matter how big things happen, don't say the word breakup, unless you really think about it, those two words are a scar once they are spoken. Even if the scar is healed, it will still be there, and it will always be the fuse of the quarrel.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Go with the flow, and there is no right or wrong feeling.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Do you believe he won't gelding you next time?

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm a girl, and I've had a similar experience. I think that first of all, girlfriend personality likes freedom.

    Second, she mentioned breaking up with you at that time out of reason, and felt that it was unrealistic for the two of you to be separated.

    Third, after that, she also lost her temper, indicating that she really loves you, no matter what her attitude towards you was before, it was for personality reasons, she wanted to be loved, high, and not easy to express feelings.

    Fourth, every woman's breakup can't really end, but a man's breakup is the real one.

    In summary, if you want, don't care if she says she broke up or not, and continue to be together. Because you love each other.

    I hope that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married, and only envy the mandarin ducks and not the immortals.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Speaking from the heart, brother, don't be angry.

    Isn't that just a Sunday for you?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you can't be a lover, just be a confidant and friend.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think it's good to separate, as the saying goes, "long pain is better than short pain", if you are indecisive, it will be very painful in the future. Giving up may be a relief.

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