Am I really wrong How would my boyfriend see me like this

You don't love her, or you'll get married.

Communicate more if you have any ideas, otherwise he will not understand what you are doing.

It can also cause unnecessary misunderstandings.

Is it a fear of marriage Don't be afraid that you love him Try to adjust your mood You're in such a good situation You can get married.

Psychological factors are at work. Read more psychological books on this subject. I think if your boyfriend loves you, then he won't have any other thoughts when he knows.

This is normal for traditional girls. It's good to adjust your psychology slowly. Good luck!

You should tell him what is on your mind, after all, marriage is a matter for the two of you, and any difficulties you need to face and solve together.

No, you can actually go to a psychiatrist, really!

This is a very normal relationship between men and women, I have seen a situation like you on TV before, which woman has almost no sex life after marrying her husband, and finally which woman is good to see a psychiatrist! I suggest you check it out!

There is a kind of man who will never admit his mistake. He doesn't have those two words in his dictionary of life. Like I am.

I will never apologize, beg for mercy, or curry favor with others. I won't do it if I kill it. People like us don't regret doing something wrong.

will always be lonely and go all the way to the dark. Look at your boyfriend, he's clearly not like that. I feel that he is too honest and tells his true feelings.

If only I, the woman I had had a crush on for many years, could talk to her heart once, it would be a dream thing. Even if I have a girlfriend, I will absolutely abandon it. Because you only get one chance.

And the girlfriend will have the opportunity to accompany him in the future, and some will have time to make up for it. And the dream of crushing will not end until it is finished. I saw it once, and I let it go from now on, and I was okay in my heart, and I was no longer entangled, and I was able to treat my current girlfriend wholeheartedly.

Actually, I don't think he's wrong at all. If it's wrong, it's too frank and sincere with you, and he wants to tell that the woman he accompanies this night is his crush for many years. He's kind of stupid, which was supposed to be a secret, a memory forever, and wouldn't let you know.

In fact, whether he knows that he is wrong or not, you can observe it from the tone of his speech, attitude and actions; Or if he's wrong, you can say that you're wrong and don't pay attention to what happened to him. At this time, you can observe his expression and actions, and you can conclude whether he really knows that he is wrong;

Men sometimes have a good face and are unwilling to admit their mistakes! But the woman has to apologize with a proper attitude, it is a little distant, sometimes you can say it half-jokingly, don't hurt his self-esteem, let him know that he is wrong, as long as it is not against the principle, you can forgive him.

If I were your boyfriend, I would also break up, the problem is so obvious, you don't know what's wrong with you, just like you, he can still get along with you is also amazing, two people deal with each other, not unilaterally, they all have to pay for each other, regardless of men and women. It's not that the other party is used as a nanny, nor is it used to eat, drink and have fun, no one can make money, although it is not for you to save money, but you also have to spend extravagantly, your own parents are sick, your brother is married, you are paying and contributing, busy before and after. What are you doing?

Yes, he is your object, maybe you think this is the way it should be, but why don't you treat him well, isn't washing and cooking what you should do as a girlfriend? You say you won't, you won't learn? Your partner's mother and sister bought it for him, so what does that have to do with you buying it, can it be the same?

You are his girlfriend, is her future wife, should take care of the housework at home, according to what you said about your subject's personal ability, there are secretaries, there should not be too many trivial things in life, you say that the company is in crisis, then he will definitely be in a bad mood, you may not be able to help his company, but you don't have to go abroad to eat, drink and have fun, don't you know that at this time to be by his side, comfort him, enlighten him, accompany him through this difficulty? Maybe a simple hug tells him that if you are by his side, he may be in a much better mood, and he will have the courage and motivation to continue.

Love is jointly operated by both parties, it is guarded by both parties, mutual trust, mutual tolerance, mutual support, mutual understanding, in order to get to the result you want, not a one-sided payment of one party, that will only lead to the end of the final breakup, it is easy to find a partner, it is not easy to deal with the object, it is not easy to come together, and cherish it.

You can't cook and you can learn; The clothes are not good, but the heart; The company's business does not understand that it can accompany and comfort its soul. In fact, to put it bluntly, whether you really like this person, if you really love, the above ones will understand without asking yourself.

I'm not saying that you're bad, but I feel like you're a little selfish, you think he should have a secretary and a mother to buy him clothes, have you considered how he feels in his heart, because what she needs is your care and love, but you don't understand him at all, you just feel that others should be for him, you will think about yourself, it's right to break up with you, I hope to adopt.

Look at the literal analysis that you didn't do anything wrong, you didn't do anything at all. If he lives without you, he may have some more savings, and the bad effects should be nothing.

You can't cook, you can learn to cook once a year, even if it's not delicious, he should be moved, you say that everything he has is prepared, you can't help him as a girlfriend, you can accompany him, make him happy, can't solve the worries in his career, you can share the emotional worries, otherwise what does he want you to do, when a money to maintain the ornament. Of course, I only see these one-sided words, maybe the words are inappropriate, forgive me. (Because that's all you have in your diagram).

Lack of thoughtfulness, wife's own duty, no intimacy. Give a few things you can do, ask him more, what he ate for dinner, whether he lacks socks, forcibly change his underwear, bed sheets, toothbrushes, etc., you have to make him feel that you are by his side. It's a man's sense of security, you don't give him, you make him feel like this:

Usually life is not taken care of by you, there is no one to confide in when he is in a bad mood, he needs you, these are what you have to take the initiative to give him. He can give you a lot of money or something, and he needs your subtle feelings in return. Talking about breaking up or something, a man's helplessness, he wants you to be good to her, the kind that is considerate, and his wife is half a mother.

To be honest, maybe you don't care about him too much, as a man, especially a man with a successful career, he actually needs a gentle, sensible, mature and attractive woman. Because that will make your man feel safe and fulfilled.

Personally, I think that if two people have a dispute or conflict, try to talk calmly and peacefully. Since there is a problem, it is either the man's fault, or the woman's fault, or both of them are at fault, or there is a disagreement for other reasons. Especially young people.

Doing things after being emotional is not good for two people, and two people should think of a solution to the problem together. In a time when faced with problems. Don't think about yourself all the time.

To stand in each other's position and consider, there may be different views, no one is perfect Love a person is not blindly giving, nor is it blindly accommodating, love needs two people to bear together.

Sincere love between men and women requires mutual cherishment and understanding. If you blindly accept the contributions of others and do not know how to care about them, you will only disappoint the people who love you. I hope you learn to cherish, respect, and be considerate of each other. In this way, you can get long-lasting happiness!

Just want some care. Just because you don't understand doesn't mean you can't care, and just because someone helps you buy it doesn't mean you can't buy it. It's okay not to cook, but usually spend more time with him when he is in trouble, give him encouragement and give him some greetings.

Instead of taking it for granted that someone has given him ideas and helped him with everything. Since he doesn't feel your presence at all in his life, why is he looking for you as a girlfriend?

There is a lack of communication between the two sides, he cares about you, treats you well, and shares your worries, and have you ever used his heart for him? I asked him when he was in trouble and tried to help him, and your selfishness broke his heart.

When a man is frustrated, he will think a lot, to give full play to your strengths, so he likes you, let him amplify this liking and become irreplaceable by others.

Ask yourself, what do you do in the world of two people, if you are him, when you are in distress, no one cares, will you still insist You are more like his friend, ordinary friend, if you are a lover, I think it should be better to treat a lover than a friend.

How to put it, in fact, what a man wants is very simple, is that you care about him, and you are just a material woman.

So what did you do for him, you don't need to take care of him, so what are you doing with him, what is he doing for you, what are you doing for him.

Your boyfriend has been having financial difficulties with the company recently.

is entering a low point in his life, and his emotions are very unstable, so he is prone to losing his temper in a hurry, so you should try to comfort and help him at this time and find a way to get through the difficulties with him.

He thinks you don't care about him. You can't help him at work, you can comfort him, you can also make him relax, the most practical help is to make him not need to think about other things. You can learn what you don't know in life, and then do it to reduce the pressure of his life.

When he has financial problems, you should actually stop spending unnecessarily. Maybe it doesn't help, but it's an attitude.

A man often doesn't tell you what he needs, so you need to find out for yourself what can help him. It's not a problem caused by one or two things, it's an explosion of problems that have accumulated over a long period of time.

If you can't figure it out, you can write down on two pieces of paper what he did for you and what you did for him after you confirmed your relationship, and marked them with serial numbers. The whole thing will be much clearer, and it will let you know what the problem is between you.

Then circle what he does for you and what you can do or don't need. This is to give you a sense of what you can change.

If you're fast enough, you'll be able to keep him. If you don't do it, then you really don't take him seriously.

You're not doing something wrong, you're doing something you should have done, or at least you shouldn't have done it.

For example, if his company encounters difficulties, you should not say that you can help him with advice, but at least show more care and companionship, rather than playing abroad.

Objectively speaking, there is nothing wrong with you, at least not in the big way. Although your boyfriend says that he will tolerate your past regardless of past suspicions, his behavior exposes his small belly and chicken intestines, and he always remembers your past. I dare to conclude that you will not be happy when you marry him.

Rather than living a life of tears in the future, arguing every day, and being in pain, it is better to cut through the mess now and cut it in two. Better a finger off than always aching!

I believe that you can go so far with him, which fully shows that he also has a lot of advantages that attract you, but it is not enough to make you nostalgic. How many lovers talk to me before marriage, but after marriage, they have a cold war, and even fight, like enemies. And now you are...

Affection is the bond that binds marriage, how can marriage be built on other aspects?

As a person who has come before, I would advise you to think twice and listen to the opinions of your friends, parents, and family.

Finally, I wish you to find true happiness.

He will tolerate you, so he shouldn't be entangled in your past Ah, he should listen carefully to your explanation, if you are suspicious of you because of a sentence from an ordinary friend, then in the future, is it that you have more contact with male friends or have intimate actions between friends, will your boyfriend still lose his temper with you, and ask the bottom of it? Actually, boys shouldn't be so stingy, so you will be very miserable. You tell me?

It can also be said that he doesn't have a very good temper, is easily impulsive, and doesn't care about you, but his suspicion is too heavy, I hope he can change it!!

Of course, men want to save face, this is normal, every man has vanity, but if he loves you and has said that he will tolerate your past, then he should not mention it, because the past has passed, although there is no way to completely forget it, but it is already the past, and the most left can only be memories, love is very simple, as long as you love each other on the basis of trust, understanding, and tolerance, there is no problem with caring for each other. There is no need to hold anyone accountable who is right and who is wrong, and home is never a place to reason.

I suggest that you break up with him, I understand such people. You have to give yourself a proper position, and if the conditions are good, you can choose what can give you happiness, not only materially, but also spiritually. That kind of man doesn't talk about the material, but he can't give it to you spiritually.

You and him are nothing more than two results, one, he will scold you more and more frequently in the future, and you will swallow your anger; Second, it is divorce. Speaking of closeness, just about love, isn't love just about two people happy? From the text you leaked, you can tell that your boyfriend is irritable, and all you get is trouble.

You say that he does care about you, which is basically negligible. Because this is a point that every man in love must do. Everyone has the right to pursue happiness, and let it go when it is time to let it go, besides, it is his distrust and irritability that come first.

What kind of bullshit is embarrassing to him, if he is a man, even if he does disgrace himself, he will not yell at his own woman, let alone you! A real man knows how to tolerate. I wish you happiness from the bottom of my heart!