Am I wrong to do this to my girlfriend?! 20

You're too bad to talk, isn't it because she didn't report to you if she didn't come back, and she didn't dare to tell you about eating out, not because she was afraid that your bull temper would come up and think she didn't care about her family. Girls, it's normal to chat with your girlfriend, you, don't you have friends to play with and go crazy together. You really hurt your girlfriend's heart, you rushed back, and you were still angry, and you didn't pick up **, she came back immediately, look at how anxious she is.

In the future, will I dare to tell you some truths, you are an emperor.

There is nothing wrong with a small contradiction, and it can't be said that you did something wrong, but you can only think from your standpoint, and your girlfriend also attaches great importance to your feelings, afraid that you will get angry and come back quickly, don't be too careful, this contradiction is nothing.

Love is like sand in your hand, the tighter you hold it, the less you get, two people should give each other more space when they get along, otherwise it will only make each other farther and farther away, it is normal to have you and friends, if both parties do not trust it, there is no need to be together.

After reading your description, you give me the impression that it is easy to get emotional. Your girlfriend is also afraid that you will be emotional. In fact, it is difficult for the two of them to get along, especially if you are still with your parents, just think more about each other.

You are wrong to think so, have you ever thought about how dangerous it is for a girl to come home and walk down the street in the middle of the night, have you ever thought about who is responsible for what happens?

Are you a man?

Men should be generous, how can you blame him, I don't want to think about whether I am wrong.

There are several possibilities

1.Your boyfriend likes ladies like that.

Maybe it will be better in the future.

2.Your boyfriend was in a bad mood at the time

It's likely to be a momentary outrage

In that case, just be quiet. Or in two days3Your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, and that's the worst possible scenario

..However, there are also risks

If he really doesn't love you, you're like this

It will only hate you even more

If you really love him, talk to him

Of course, the premise is good

For example, "I said it wrong, I didn't say it."

Love can't be forced

Take advantage of it and bless you

I think the way is – a good fight.

Seeing this question, I couldn't help but answer the question, my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years+, and the relationship has been very stable, if there is no accident, I should be able to enter the marriage hall smoothly. I think there are some experiences that can be shared to answer this question.

The most important thing between lovers is communication, communication, and communication.

There are many ways to communicate, and the common one is the usual chat, whether it is face-to-face or online, it is an effective way to communicate. But for me, I think the best way to communicate is to have a healthy quarrel every time there is a return, a return and a collision.

What is a healthy fight?

There are several characteristics of a good quarrel:

One. A healthy quarrel can release one's bad emotions.

I believe that many people have experienced cold violence, and some people even think that cold violence is more terrible than hot violence, and hot violence can at least have two people collide and touch; And cold violence makes you doubt yourself and escalates the contradictions.

Problems are always ignored and there is no time to solve them. A good quarrel can allow us to release our emotions and make the other party feel their grievances and dissatisfaction. Only with communication can there be a solution, and cold violence will only cover up one's emotions and make the conflict more fermented and worse.

Two. A benign quarrel allows us to see each other's character and three views better.

Everyone has a time when their emotions are out of control, and it is at this time that a person's behavior and morality can be better seen. In the early stages of a relationship, we will maintain a good image of each other in front of the couple, polite, beautiful and kind.

When our emotions are out of control, we can't help but expose our truest side, and irritable people can't restrain their tyrannical habits; Indifferent people are cold and violent towards you, refusing to communicate and ignoring you; The prodigal person turned around and complained to a confidant of Lan Yan or a confidant after a quarrel, and did not think of looking for you to solve the problem; People who don't care about you easily tell you ...... break up

Quarrels are a necessary test for couples, and a healthy quarrel is like a test paper to test the emotional problems between us. The unfit couple lost the test; And the right couple will only get to know each other better through testing, know that ** can be improved, and become more and more incompatible with each other.

Three. Benign quarrels can be retracted freely.

This is the most important point of a healthy quarrel. Clearly know that the essence of quarrels is to solve problems and get along better.

So no matter how fierce the quarrel is, how confrontational and disagreeable each other's points of view are, but because they know that they will not be separated, because they know that it is to solve the problem, they will all reconcile in the end. It's not a question of who bows his head first, it's that both of them know that the quarrel is to better run in with each other, so if they quarrel, they will take it back.

Chat communication on weekdays can certainly help us understand each other, but just like the answer can solve the problem, our reactions and practices when there is a quarrel can really let us understand each other more deeply.

May every couple be able to grasp every benign quarrel, and since they have chosen to hold hands, don't let go easily.