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If you could try to put yourself in a woman's shoes, you wouldn't think so. Of course, you can't have no money, it's not that girls are born with a love of vanity, it's just that many things are inadvertently affected by their entire social atmosphere. It's really hard to find true love, but if your relationship is really good, you don't have to care about these things, as long as you live it.
You tell me? Sometimes you pursue happiness for a lifetime, and when you leave the world, you realize that happiness has always been by your side, but you don't find it. Cherish what you have!
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It's not entirely like that. There is so much vigorous love in this world. What you see may be the majority. Maybe you're in it, too. But you can touch her with your love.
But it's not okay if your financial conditions are not good. If she really marries you in the future, if you are financially bad, how will you support a family? Right.. So you have to work hard!
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She just doesn't want your life to be difficult in the future, and she doesn't want to run around all day long for life, it's tiring to take on a family like this, she just doesn't want to bear it.
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Love isn't just a matter of two people.
She is with you because of love and because of security.
Money is undoubtedly an important criterion for measuring security and ability in today's society.
Besides, it can also motivate you to work hard.
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Girls have to think about their future lives and their children.
Although there is also some little vanity, don't men also want to save face?
A truth
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It's almost the same as yours How can I love it Divide and Divide and Divide I'm used to it Women are too materialistic now, of course, most of them Excluding Contemporary Romeo and Juliet. Time will tell. Nowadays, women generally want to be housewives and good wives type. Dude, work hard to make money!
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For me, I don't think it matters. A person's aura needs knowledge and internal support, not external accumulation. But this is not to say that appearance is not important, a beautiful makeup, a decent dress, will make people feel more confident, and it will also make others look at it a few more times.
After all, everyone likes beautiful things.
Girls love beauty, clothes, bags, shoes, jewelry, we all like the beautiful things in this world, and we all want to take them into our arms. But the premise is the relative economic ability of the oil. If you don't have the corresponding financial ability, you insist on slapping a swollen face and becoming fat, which is not advisable, and will only make yourself a material puppet.
Nothing is worth trading for a happy life.
The most important point is that you like designer bags, no problem, work hard to earn money to buy them. You must know that only you will love yourself forever in this world. Every woman who loves bags has her own set of reasons. For example, the following:
A female celebrity buys a brand-name bag because it is proof of identity;
The reason for ordinary white-collar workers is: luxury goods have room for appreciation;
The reason why an executive of a technology company spends tens of thousands of yuan to buy a bag is because it has the extreme and sincerity of craftsmanship attached to it;
Literary and artistic young women think they are classic and fashionable;
Female editors-in-chief of fashion magazines need a confident, beautiful, and high-end appearance, and luxury goods can be used to enhance themselves;
People with low self-esteem are insecure and yearn for social recognition, believing that it will bring them attention, respect and love;
The reason why a strong woman in the new era only buys brand-name bags is because it has an attitude, is not vulgar, and is the most advanced, and any one has a noble temperament and origin, unlike the stalls, always plagiarizing, and always the lowest.
There are also people, because of the crisis of life, the suffering is turbulent, and there is nothing to rely on, so they turn to fetish and answer, and the bag is the most cordial, noble and loyal personal object, not abandoned, warm, often accompanied, of course, it is difficult to let go.
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Girls Tongbu must have the financial ability to feast.
In this way, you can enhance your self-confidence, and you can also have a certain sense of security, you can let yourself live a chic life, and at the same time be recognized by others, and you can also improve your quality of life.
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First of all, money is necessary in life, food, clothing, housing and transportation need money, so girls have certain requirements in this regard when looking for a partner, not to say that there are no requirements or 100% requirements, but there are also certain requirements, which is not a question, because in terms of clothing, food, housing and transportation, then there must be requirements, so clothing, food, housing and transportation, So in this case, it's just such a thing, a temporary stay, all aspects of spending, if you say that he is looking for a single, then nothing, do you think this relationship can be maintained? First of all, the bread is gone, and I can't eat enough, and this relationship will definitely break up, and this is such a thing. So I don't think you should say that you attach great importance to money, but that money is an indispensable part of life.
So now talking about feelings, in fact, feelings are such a thing, so it varies from person to person, different people will have different feelings on different occasions, that's it, some people's words, then it's like we used to uh boss said a sentence of it, called well, love at first sight is like this, feelings are certain, and it's such a thing, love must be indispensable in life, it will be there in life, sometimes people who must be in love, not necessarily meet immediately, But I think that if you meet the right person, then it must be right, it is such a feeling that you can't force it, sometimes there are often some people who pursue unilaterally, and they feel that it is okay to move the other party, but in fact, it is not okay to move the other party. The place doesn't want to be moved, so in my opinion, it's just like that, anyway, the last thing I want to tell you is that girls pay attention to some money, but they don't pay much attention to money, but they sometimes ask for feelings.
So don't be harsh on others, I think sometimes it's normal for people to have their own ideas, is it true that everyone thinks the same as you, find a poor guy to marry, is this an impossible thing, in my opinion, this is the case, you think this kind of thing may be of course impossible So, this thing is like this, I think money is essential in life, girls have certain requirements for today, I think it is understandable, But he doesn't necessarily want to give up his feelings, find a marriage he doesn't like, this is impossible, you can't say it, do you think his marriage can last long?
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I think there are a few reasons why girls nowadays value money:
1.Influenced by parents. Due to the influence of their parents, many girls now have criteria for choosing a mate.
All are defined in: there must be a car and a house. If the man does not have a marital room, then no matter how deep the relationship is, he will eventually break up.
Girls think that such a standard is what qualifies them to talk about marriage. But this high housing price is to make many young guys stop, although the two have a relationship foundation, but this purchase is indeed a lot of money, is how many people because there is no marriage house, eventually lead to not getting married, is how many people for a marriage house, several generations have spent a lifetime to pay off debts.
2.Female friends are not willing to give. I think the average girl prefers to sit back and enjoy her success, but she is unwilling to work hard with her lover and fight for what she wants together.
There are many people who think like this, as long as the boy has a car, a house and money, and other shortcomings are not a problem, but they ignore the problems of character and character. In fact, what you get back through your own hard work is what really belongs to you. It is recommended that girls do not be afraid of hardship and tiredness.
3.The cost of living is high。In our fourth-tier cities.
Inside, the general salary here is around 3,500, but the price of goods is very high, and the pressure of life is very high. Therefore, girls hope that they can marry a rich man, so that their future life will be carefree.
Based on the above points, I think this is the reason why girls now value money rather than feelings. Finally, it is suggested that all female friends need to choose a mate according to their actual situation.
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The economic base determines the superstructure, and without money, the quality of life will decline, and what to talk about feelings. There is also a saying that poor couples mourn everything, and they will also lose their feelings for the little things in life.
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Because feelings will disappear, but money will not disappear, the other half's feelings for you will slowly fade over time, but only money can give you the best sense of security and reliance, only money will not betray you, and can become the best support for you when you are down.
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This is because today's girls live very transparently, know what they want, and want to give their future life a little more security.
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Because feelings are useless to them, then, if you only have money, it is still worth pursuing, and it can also make our lives go to the next level.
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Although there are more women who love vanity and love money like life. It can also be said to be a common phenomenon. But after getting these material satisfactions, they will still pursue emotional satisfaction. Not only women, but also men, the richer they are, the more they will pay attention to real feelings.
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Hello! Personally, I think this varies from person to person, some women value money, and of course some women value feelings more!
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Every woman is different, some women value money more, and some women take a fancy to your relationship with him
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Women value both feelings and money. This is a need on both a material and a spiritual level. A lot of times, you don't have to choose one or the other. If she has money, she does not necessarily lose her feelings (she will have feelings with anyone she has been with for a long time), and if she chooses a relationship, she does not necessarily have no money.
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When she has money, she values feelings.
When she has no money, she values money!
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It varies from person to person, not all people value money, and why should people who are worth it spend a little money?
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You don't put women all in one category.
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I want to laugh when I hear it. It's normal when lovers break up. When it comes to matter, it's immediately so vulgar. Listening to them talk back and forth, Chen Sesame Rotten Grain felt more and more cold.
Yes, born in a materially splendid present, you need money to fall in love, when have you heard of it? Let's look at the moon and make a private order for life? That kind of thing probably happened hundreds of years ago, because the talented and beautiful people all live in the backyard of the deep palace, and they meet once in their lives, and it is too late to promise each other for a lifetime, so there is time to discuss financial gifts?
Now it's a woman crying and shouting that she wants to eat Häagen-Dazs, to wear the most popular spring clothes, and to fall in love with me without paying for it? Sky! You're not Grande.
How can karate still soak girls in their hands? Birthday; Valentine's Day, Christmas Eve; Tourism and a wide variety of leisure and entertainment, etc. It costs a lot of money to enjoy love, and who will pay for it?
It's always the predominance of men. There are also women who are excited to pay, that kind of moment is that love is still sandwiched between life, friend stage, or men don't want to do anything, so it's systematized, the love scene at this time is not big, but whenever a man spends money on a woman like a hard worker, it is probably a love mind.
But I look down on people who cry and shout after the end of the show and settle accounts with others. I once met a man. After breaking up, I brought the bill for the meal to make with my girlfriend, and the girl sneered, I will report it all, and I will feed it to the dog.
spoke so vividly, love is gone, in fact, love is still there, money is still important? Those who dare to pay for their past love are brave.
It's not just about money. There is also the entanglement of love, there are those who are dead and do not end, crying and begging others, I don't know that the people who have changed their minds can't pull back eight horses. There are also people who force each other to die, asking others to be responsible and accompanying her with the lost youth.
I really haven't fallen out of love, each other's youth is not your love alone, it's the relationship between two people, and the person who cries and makes people responsible is always looked down upon.
When we break up, we are each other's old friends, and it is only suitable to put it in an old book and occasionally turn it up, and occasionally be moved, and that is enough.
Therefore, when the love is gone, take out a little gangsterism, cut off the robe and break the righteousness, and pay for your feelings to settle the bill. If it is not settled, the account will become an old account and a bad debt, and when I think of it, I always feel that I owe something, and my heart is pimple. It's not worth it.
Because, who doesn't want to live a bright spring?
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Nowadays, girls are realistic, and they base their marriage on money, because they all want to live a good life, they don't want to suffer, and they all want to treat marriage as a second heavy pants letter. But they don't know that marriage requires more than just money. With money, you may lose something else, and life cannot be so perfect.
But then again, if she marries someone who has no money, she can't have what she wants, for example, if she wants to buy a diamond ring, the rich person will be very happy. If you don't have money, you will feel distressed for a while, and you have to consider whether to buy it or not. But if you marry a rich man, maybe the man's work is very busy, or for example, if a man is rich, he is often easy to become bad, and likes to go outside to find a woman or something, but if he marries a man who has no money, he will keep a relationship until he is old.
There are also advantages to having money, and there are disadvantages of not having money. But now the girl would rather live a life of luxury, even if his man goes to another woman than live with a poor man for the rest of his life. What's the solution.
But it can't be generalized, there are also people who give up everything for a man who doesn't want to make money, but also have to be with a poor bastard. It's not too little, and it's too wronged. It's too unworthy of being blind to get a wheel of hushen, maybe the girl thinks so.
Economic conditions are necessary.
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