How to enlighten a girl who is emotionally frustrated

First of all, it should be noted that the reluctance to try again after 8 years is not necessarily the impact of falling out of love, maybe it is just that I haven't met someone I like now, or I may not have the motivation to fall in love (such as parents forcing each other, getting older, I will feel lonely, etc.), and I feel that I am living a good life now.

If it's because of the effects of a broken love, there are a few suggestions:

1. Establish a goal first, explain the negative impact of falling out of love on the psychology, explain the importance of adjusting your mentality, make up your mind, and start looking for a lover.

2. Recognize that the fact of past lovelorn love cannot be changed. Don't hesitate, hesitate, it's just a thing of the past.

3. Don't focus on the past, say positive, self-encouraging words to yourself every day, you can say "I'm going to start a new relationship", "I'm shining today", "I'm great, I'm good, I'm energetic".

4. Treat the lost feelings correctly, love yourself, and be kind to yourself. Even if it's a lovelorn self, I love it. Treat past relationships with gratitude, education (this is a life experience).

5. Learn to release the bad emotions that have accumulated after you have fallen out of love, the pain, anger, unwillingness and sadness at that time. Starting a new relationship is the best way to do it.

Slowly approach, slowly understand, slowly enlighten.

Love is not all deceitful.

I advise you to communicate with your child to understand the specific situation of the matter, and comfort and support your child. At the same time, while paying attention to your child's situation, you can do the following:

1.Create a safe environment at home, encourage children to share their feelings and experiences, and let them know that you are willing to listen and support them.

2.Help your child learn to protect himself, especially when in danger or in an emergency. By simulating some scenarios, you can teach your child some ways to deal with the situation.

3.Encourage your child to talk to professionals such as teachers, schools, and psychologists for help and advice.

4.Find appropriate channels to communicate with the school and teachers, and discuss how to help your child solve the problem. If necessary, further action can be taken, such as contacting school leaders or parent organizations, or seeking legal assistance, to ensure that the child is protected.

Distract yourself from something else.

Tell her not to be sad about someone who doesn't deserve it.

When you are frustrated, I think it's best to find a counselor or someone like you to educate them, not through direct teaching, but through some subconscious rules, so that girls can understand some difficult truths.

Bachelor of Psychology.

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