Love was rejected but still loved her

Updated on psychology 2024-05-28
36 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Try to discover her shortcomings and try to convince herself, if she has not come up with more than ten shortcomings after three days and three nights, she will continue to pursue and wait

    Believe me, girls' hearts are very soft, but if you like a person, you have to be sure that you will be good to her in the future, not three minutes of heat.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Take it easy, go on, but not too forcefully.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think, you have to give up Because, even if you pester her until she likes you, it is only reluctant love, but reluctant love will not be happy, you might as well find something to break away from, don't be attached, because the deeper you love, the deeper you fall, the deeper the hurt I think, there will be a girl better than her waiting for you, so, I wish you happiness! ~

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Because you haven't met someone who really suits you, if you want to fall in love, but you want to refuse, others may just because you feel that someone else is not suitable for you and you haven't found one that suits you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    One of the reasons why I refuse others while shouting about love is that I haven't met a better or interesting boy. When you meet someone who is really suitable for you, you will definitely not refuse him.

    There are probably two kinds of girls who shout about love, one is really in love, and the other is casually talking.

    There's nothing to say about the first one, let's talk about the second. The kind of person who shouts that he wants to fall in love while refusing to confess to others may be that he is good alone and has a super self-healing ability. The reason why they need a boyfriend may be that there is no one to talk to when they encounter something sad occasionally, although they can heal themselves, but it is still good if someone can share the situation.

    No matter which one it is, when you meet the boy you like, they won't let it go, and they will refuse because you are not the one she likes. I hope you little fairies are beautiful every day! Happy every day!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It may be that you suffer from love phobia, at the beginning, everyone will have nervousness, fear and fear, and even confusion, making a mess of yourself, these are understandable, besides, isn't it normal to reject others in love? If you feel inappropriate, you will refuse, if you obviously like it but refuse, it is not normal, maybe you are too cautious, maybe you haven't thought about it well, maybe you are too pursuit of perfection, you don't allow yourself to make any mistakes, so, instinctively reject others, these are not problems, it's okay slowly, how can there be a second time without the first time? The road of love also needs to be explored and exercised, bold attempts, it is better than sitting still, actively pursuing what you want, and you will eventually find the male (female) god in your heart.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It shows that you don't really want to fall in love, you just want to find someone who can accompany you as your other half, not that any person is suitable for you and meets your needs for a partner. It also shows that you are rational enough not to fall in love for the sake of simply wanting to fall in love, rejecting others because that person is not something you are willing to hold hands with, I hope you can find someone you are willing to hold hands with and hold your hand as soon as possible, not that you can accept a person casually because you have the idea of falling in love, you should be cautious enough to treat a relationship, otherwise it is easy to be hurt.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you want to fall in love, but you reject someone, the reason may be that this person is not your ideal partner and you don't like him. It is also possible that you are afraid of being hurt emotionally and do not easily fall in love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's because although I want to fall in love, that person is not the object I like very much, and I have a standard for love in my heart, and not everyone can be my lover.

    The person who wants to fall in love with himself in his heart is the type he likes.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think it shows that you don't really want to be in love, you just want to find someone who can accompany you as your other half, not that any person is suitable for you and meets your needs for a partner. It also shows that you are rational enough not to fall in love for the sake of simply wanting to fall in love, rejecting others because that person is not something you are willing to hold hands with, I hope you can find someone you are willing to hold hands with and hold your hand as soon as possible, not that you can accept a person casually because you have the idea of falling in love, you should be cautious enough to treat a relationship, otherwise it is easy to be hurt.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It is normal to want to fall in love and reject people you don't like, and you will only accept it when you meet the right one.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you want to fall in love, you want to find someone you like, enjoy the feeling of falling in love, and then stay together until you are old. Reject others, because what you meet is not what you want, love is mutual, you look or feel inappropriate, why should you wronged yourself, others also think the same, so you have to wait for the right person, find what you like and like yourself, it's best. I wish you to find your happiness soon.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is because although people want to fall in love, it is not what she wants to pursue her, so of course people will refuse, and there is a choice in falling in love, and who is it? Who will pursue her? She would say yes.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because the other party is not the object you want to fall in love with, what you want is two-way rich emotions, that is to say, while the other party likes you, you also like each other, so that the relationship will feel happy.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Obviously you want to fall in love, but you reject this person, and there is only one possibility for other people's pursuits, that is, you are not satisfied with this person enough. Only the person you like will let you end the relationship willingly.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you want to fall in love, but you reject others, it means that you have high requirements for your partner, the other party is not good enough, does not have the charm to attract you, and does not meet your mate selection requirements, so you want to fall in love and reject others.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Eager to be in love, wanting to have an intimate relationship, but afraid of being hurt in an intimate relationship.

    It may also be that the person who refuses is not the person he desires the most, and has not reached that state of no hesitation.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you want to fall in love, but you reject someone else, then it is very likely that this person is not the type you like, or you think that you are in a relationship with him. Square peg.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you want to fall in love and reject someone else, it shows that you are longing for love deep down, but in reality you don't know how to face a relationship. You may be a little afraid that your relationship will not work out, and you may feel insecure in the face of your relationship.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you want to fall in love but refuse others, it means that although you want to fall in love, it doesn't mean that anyone can fall in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you want to fall in love, but you reject someone else, you may not have started to accept him, and there is another situation, that is, I think the other party is not the best choice for you.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is normal to confess that you are rejected, either the other person has no feelings for us, or the other person is not ready to fall in love. But no matter what the reason is, we should not give up on ourselves, but stride forward bravely, and not affect our lives because of our feelings.

    Accept the facts.

    A lot of people's self-esteem.

    Very strong, in life, everything is required to do the best, only allow success, not allow failure, such a person is very painful, because there is no perfect thing in life Zheng Lingzao, and most things will end in failure. Accepting the fact that we have failed to confess is not a big deal, it will only let us know that the other person is not suitable for us, or that we have not succeeded in attracting the attention of the other party, if we can't even accept this fact, then there will be a bigger blow in the future life, how do we solve those problems? Don't think about it anymore, no matter what the reason is, we should all accept that we confess to failure, it's no big deal, and start bravely!

    Stop internal friction. Those who have a strong sense of self-esteem, after a failed confession, may be immersed in their own world for a period of time, and have been unable to accept the fact that they have been rejected. I don't have the heart to do anything, my heart and energy are all in the Olympics, but in fact, there is no one right or wrong in this matter, others can refuse your confession, which means that he is responsible for your feelings, if he is not responsible for your feelings, then he will accept your confession at will, and Wang Wang who is with you will not treat you sincerely.

    Personally, I think you should divert your attention and do what you like, instead of always regretting why you confessed to this matter in a confined space, in fact, it is very good to be able to boldly express your heart and boldly refuse the pursuit of others. Instead of spending a lot of time grieving and grieving yourself, you can make yourself happy with a friend to play a game of ball, run or play a game.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    You're a junior in college.,Forget it.,I'm 9 years older than you.,After reading what you wrote about what you did to the girl you liked.,It doesn't feel like it's anything at all.,Compared to what I did to chase the girl I liked back then.,You're far behind.,Don't be sad.,I'll tell you something practical:

    First, how do I look at what you said, it is like you are slapping her, and you don't say that the two sides give or give each other, that is, she can call you, so she can refuse you directly without being afraid of offending you, and really don't take you to heart, you must not be good enough, being friends is the right choice!

    Second, college love, whether it is unrequited love, secret love or talking about it once or twice, it is good to experience it, so that life is complete, but after graduating from college love, it is really not many to be together until you get married and start a family, this is an experience, you must remember.

    Learn more things, there will be more good girls in the future after you gain a foothold in society, and you will let go of your hands and feet to find a better one in the future!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I've heard of girls' duplicity! The girl told you not to text maybe the people in her dorm laughed at her and said you were her boyfriend! But you haven't confessed to her, that's why she sends a text message like that to hint at you.

    If she really wants you not to follow her, how can she continue to associate with you as if nothing happened? Right! Boys have to take the initiative, girls have been waiting for a long time.

    You'll get impatient! Pluck up the courage and confess to her! If you don't confess, how do you know if she likes you or not!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Maybe someone else told her something, or she investigated your previous situation, or she wants to go to graduate school and doesn't want to be distracted or something.

    - If it's the third, it's good to understand.

    It's hard to say about the first two, she definitely likes you at first, and she must have you in her heart, but why has her attitude changed?

    You should ask your classmate what's going on, you have an undercover agent, what are you afraid of, don't ask her directly, ask directly, she will pass you directly--- find out the truth of the matter through your classmates, and then find a way to deal with it, right? Don't be afraid, there are many people, there are so many experts on the Internet, so many people are not sure to win against her, right?

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    I was also rejected by the girl I really liked....But I'm silently loving her, and I think you should insist on it, and it will impress her!

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    What woman would refuse true love?

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Calm down ......Live ......Ask her what's wrong.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Twisted melons are not sweet, I think so, because living together is a lifelong thing, so go find someone you like and like, so life is more flavorful.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    。。I'm most supporting, stalking, pestering her, I'm supporting you, I'm going to get rid of her.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Maybe you pay too much attention to material care, some ignore spiritual care, like a girl is not only in material care, but also pay attention to what she thinks at any time, in short, to strengthen spiritual communication, because she doesn't want to find a nanny.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I've never been a fan of stalking, but don't give up, I'm optimistic about you. =.=

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Then it depends on whether you are sincere and sincere, and continue to work hard! And look at her attitude towards you!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Try to talk to her again and give yourself a step.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    The more frustrated you are, the more courageous you are, and continue to chase with a different goal.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Keep chasing until she likes you.

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