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Hello: 7 years of love, is it a bit hasty, a little regretful, and a little helpless to end it so hastily?

When it comes to face-to-face wrapping and love, someone chooses bread and someone chooses love, and then the person who owns the bread gets nothing, because love leaves his bread with nothing, and the person who chooses love has bread later.

First of all, please keep your senses. It's not a question of whether you will be happy after 7 years of love just like that. It's a question of whether your love can last.

Women born in the 70s look for men to pay attention to honesty; Women born in the 80s look for men to pay attention to handsomeness; Women born in the 90s look for men to pay attention to whether they are rich. In this very realistic and cruel society, people are becoming more and more money-oriented.

Fortunately, there are some alternatives in this, and you are the alternative.

Sometimes, we miss one thing, one person, and all that remains is regret and helplessness.

If I were you, I would rush to his place of work and talk to him in front of him.

You are 25 years old, which is a young age, but when it comes to marriage, it becomes the biggest difficulty.

I suggest you talk to him about what he really thinks. Of course, what he is thinking about here is how he plans for your relationship in the last one to two years or more, how he plans his own career and your future. If he has a plan, then you should support him unconditionally and support him in creating his career!

If he doesn't have a plan or can't say why, you should also help him and encourage him to start his own business, instead of earning money for others all his life, and in the end even the woman he loves and loves him leaves him because of the pressure of reality.

Remember, a successful man often has a woman behind him silently supporting him. Hopefully, you will be the one who silently supports your boyfriend.

Not in touch for a week, I don't think it's worth it anymore He's changed.

Happy and unhappy. Life is like peeling onions, and in the end there is nothing but tears streaming down your face.

Hurry up and divide it, divide it early, get rid early, unless it's the kind of person who can't get married.

Feelings will slowly change over time.

That would only be a waste of time in the end.

If it were me, I wouldn't have waited.

It's been 7 years, and the relationship is definitely different.

You two have a good conversation.

You can tell him you can wait, but you can't wait indefinitely.

Ask him, there must be a limit, right?It's impossible to wait a lifetime, right?

If he promises you to come back in 1 year or 2 years and marry you, you can wait, after all, the two love each other.

Communicate well, after all, it's not small, even if we are not in a hurry, parents should be in a hurry.

The person you love doesn't have to be the person you like. Remember that it's not worth wasting your youth like this. Good men in the world are. Believe in yourself.

Won't you also go out and fight with him?

I gave up my big city life for my boyfriend, and now he is going to break up with me, first of all, I will figure out the reason why he wants to break up, if the reason for his breakup is his own reasons, and he loves him very much, then you can find a way to redeem him, because I came to his city for him, I must have thought about his future, and I have made such a big sacrifice, so I must work hard again and not let myself have regretsYou can try your best to redeem the other party and see if the other party will change their minds, if the other party is hard-hearted and says nothing will work, then I think you have done your best.

You just go back to live in the big city, I think you can definitely continue to work in the big city with your own strength, this thing also taught me a lesson, don't make such a big sacrifice for the other party after you Lu Lao, you still need to find a person who is the right person, you can't give up your future for love, this is very worthless. <>

After he returned to the big city, he focused on his career, let his career slowly improve, and make himself better, after the ascension of God, he regretted it, lost such a good girlfriend, was willing to give up life in the big city for him, and suffered with him, but he couldn't get his cherishment, and he would definitely not meet a girlfriend who was so good to him again. Then I will not have any regrets, because I have worked hard for this relationship, I have tried my best, but there is still no result, so I will give up Sidzen. <>

I will also meet people who love me more, now I need to make myself better, put myself first, don't sacrifice my future for love, the people who love you will come to your city and work together with you, instead of letting you give up your future to suffer with him, when he lets you do this, you can know that this man is not worth your doing, so girls must keep their eyes open, don't make some so-called sacrifices for each other, so that the last hurt is yourself.

You should ask this boyfriend why he is doing this, because you have paid a lot and made a lot of sacrifices for him, and he is too self-conscious to do this.

At this time, it is time to break up, because he has proposed to break up, which means that he no longer loves you, and if you two people are together at this time, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions in the clan.

You should break up. Because your boyfriend doesn't love you anymore, you have to let go and maintain your last dignity.

You should find the other party to understand the situation clearly, and if you insist on breaking up, you can also break up and choose other feelings.

I broke up with my boyfriend who I had been talking to for a long time, the reason was that I was thinking about our future financial situation, and I felt that he couldn't give me the life I wanted, was it too ruthless and vain for me to think like this? I feel sorry for his feelings for me, I feel very bad at looking at God, obviously I mentioned the breakup, but now I look down on myself. Am I really wrong to think like this?

Thank you for your consultation, I don't think your idea is wrong, because after all, you have to have a child in the future, so you have to consider all aspects, if you can't give the child liquid with a beat, then the child will have to suffer, and there will be quarrels in the future because of the pressure of life.

He treats you as the most important person in his life and refuses to let you leave him.

Situation 1: There is an old saying that if you don't steam steamed buns, you fight for breath ......Your boyfriend wants you to see that he is actually very good, and it was wrong for you to break up with him.

Situation 2: I used to think that you were his girlfriend and couldn't run, but now that you really broke up with him, he has a sense of crisis, so he works hard.

From your last sentence "Say fight for me!" said that no one can snatch me away from him" to see the second possibility is more likely, but there are also the kind of men who pretend to only say good things, so you still don't make a clear statement first, and see how he performs in the future. If he really changes his mind for you, of course it is a good thing, on the one hand, he has changed his face and worked hard to become a responsible man, on the other hand, he is willing to change for you, which also shows that he really loves you, in this case, you can really consider getting back together; If he is just pretending for a day or two to save face, I believe that a man who is used to being lazy will definitely show his feet soon, so that you can also recognize his true personality and don't have to wait until he gets married to regret it.