After chasing her for more than a month, she is now colder to me than before

You have to learn to care for her, even if you are silent, because she will one day notice your love for her!!

I'm also a girl, so I don't know if it's useful!! Hehe!!

Shy people generally don't like to communicate with others about anything Generally people can't figure out what she thinks psychologically Few people know You pursue her It's easy to agree to you That kind of girl also mostly says that it will be very casual Or you are particularly attractive What things are good and grinding, Since you have promised to be friends, then you don't think about her every day to promise you So you won't be in a good mood every day As long as you really like her, don't give up Care about her with a friend's mentality First care about her with a friend's attitude Be good to her Can't reduce Slowly get to know her to understand her heart Maybe she also has something unspeakable Come on, buddy, don't always feel that what you do for her She won't understand She will have a number of psychology Bless you and your beloved to come together !!

If you can bear it, continue to move her, but even if you catch her, I don't think it will necessarily be happy for you, at least you must be much more tired than her.

Don't rush, give her time to think.

When did the girl lose interest in you - the Chiconi effect.

In life, most people will see or experience such an experience, people always regret for those things and people they have missed, emotionally, many people will think of their first love, and think that their first love is their best memory. Even when I am getting old, I tend to remember it vividly.

Many psychologists in the West have done a variety of experiments, all of which have proved an interesting phenomenon, people are always very easy to forget those things that are easy to get their hands on, have been completed, and have ended, but they still remember those things that have been interrupted and unfinished, even after a long time, they are still fresh in their minds. This phenomenon is the qikeni effect, which translates to the Chiconi effect, also known as the first love effect.

Speaking of which, many friends may have questions, this seems to have little to do with when girls lose interest in you, isn't it a bit wrong?

The answer is no, from this psychological phenomenon, it can be explained that in love, a scene that often appears. Why does a boy like a girl very much, but after confessing, he always can't get the girl's love, but it is easy to become a spare tire. Surprised?

Read on and you'll find out.

It's time to put it down, people just use you as a spare tire, and I'm in a similar situation to you. She used to chase me, but I didn't say yes at the time, and after a long time, I gradually felt it, and I did what I had to do. When I wanted to formally propose a relationship with her, she was reluctant to do so.

I've been cold with her for months, and I'm still in touch, but I don't think it's going to work out like this, so I give up on contact.

Say hello every morning and evening. It's not windy or rainy, and she is reminded to be prepared. At the end, add a sentence: No matter what happens tomorrow, there is always someone who will accompany you silently in the corner that you can't see. Someday she will understand your heart.

Don't express your strong thoughts, just talk to her quietly about some small things in life, don't talk about the future, talk about dreams, just like her ordinary friends, and then try to ask her when the time is right.

Insist, shameless, shameless. You may be able to catch up.

Do you know to ask her about her hobbies first, make her happy every day, don't make her angry, talk to her every day about happiness, and then take your time to .........

Fight wits to show yourself and study each other.

Actually, you are very similar.

There can be many reasons for this problem.

1. As you said, the cold period is the freshness period of love.

2. You already have a certain understanding of each other, and you also understand the shortcomings of each other, and you will find that there are more and more shortcomings, and this feeling will also occur at this time.

3. He has other ideas.

4. You probably have had a lot of conflicts recently, and he may be a little tired of it.

First of all, check yourself, whether there is a problem with your words and deeds, and whether you work hard enough, responsible enough, mature enough, and good enough, otherwise it is easy to be compared with other men, maybe what she likes at first is just your superficial state, after really being together, she may find, oh! So that's what he is! So if you cherish and change yourself, if you don't like it so much, continue to do your own thing.

After a month, she entered a cold period, and I don't think she really likes you.

It's only been a month and you've entered a cold period, which can only show that she doesn't really like you.

Three points of heat, let it be, don't be too eager to get anything, or you will reap the consequences.

The best thing to do is to go with the flow.

It's only been a month before the cold period??? That's not love.

After the novelty at first, it is time to start consolidating the relationship, accompany her more, and give her a certain amount of space. The best glue in the early stages of a relationship is the freshness when you are together, and it will naturally be good when she lives without you.

Did you do it in a month, was it ntr, the guy senior told you not to suffer if she really didn't like you, and you did it in the breakup, don't let yourself regret it.

It's easy! You just have the mood to talk to her before!

If you like it, try it, boy.

Do something romantic, write a love letter or something.

Why did you come from there.

If you don't chase you, you'll regret it.

You have at least taken action.

You won't regret it if you don't succeed.

You're tangled.

1 People really don't mean to reject you outright! When you watch a movie, you can get along!

2 But now don't think about it, for they have friends, and you belong to a third party.

Just the above two, you cherish it!

I think you haven't eaten grapes now, so you're not reconciled, and you feel like you've missed a good relationship! But I hope you don't get addicted!! If you miss it, it's in the past, remember to put it down!!

1: Hinting at you.

2: She's not sure she's thinking about it.

3: Test your resolve.

4: Fear of being hurt after falling in love with you.

To sum up, she is sensitive. You have to give him a sense of security.

This person has a scheming mind to chase it if you want to chase it Some things are still on your own. Don't confess more than 3 times, it is possible that the money is testing you several times, good luck.

Whether she feels like you or not, you should chase, if you don't chase, you will never have a chance, only to know after trying, you have a 50% chance if you open your mouth, and if you don't chase, it is equal to 0, there is still a chance now, don't wait for no chance to regret it later.

Anything is possible Is it bad to confess directly? Try it, just say you want to be with her, you are willing to wait for her, and if she likes it, she will respond.

1 I can't see it.

2 Yes 3 Yes.

4 Pay.

I'm dazed when I see it! Is it that complicated? Didn't you think you were too indecisive at the time!

If you like it, you have to figure it out, hazy and hazy is very delayed, maybe someone, something is a turn away from us! Don't let yourself regret it in love! All the roads are on their own!

All failures are caused by one's own hands, and the same happiness is created by oneself! Believe in your feelings, believe in your strength, and believe that you will be happy!

Chasing women can't be thought about in the past, and they can't be too Jianghu.

Dude, you're just falling in love, and having time to read the psychology is really helpful for love.

Your mind is very active, you think too much, the authorities are obsessed, and you can just ask a good friend of yourself about this kind of thing.

I'm sorry to tell you that she didn't hint at anything, and she has always been a gentle refusal. Later contact is just to get to know you. It's just that you're not what she wants, so you give up again.

I advise you to find your own half.

It depends on what you think, it doesn't matter what others say.

1。I shouldn't have had a boyfriend in the first place.

4。She replied to the text message of watching the movie, hinting that she was willing to go.

Needless to say?

Life is just a few decades, do what you love.

I think such a woman is very indecisive, and that's true to you, and maybe the same to other men when I'm with you.

It's better to give up and find someone who loves you, so that it will be happier It seems to be coping because she is very soft-hearted and will not refuse others She will definitely reply to the same message.

Love is a matter of two people, the beginning of love can not be two loves——— since you can't let go of her in your heart, then you chase her, if you catch up, then won't everyone be happy? Right?

I think if you love her very much, just chase it, but if you can't give up.

Brother, it's not me talking about you, if you can persevere, it may be a completely different result, courage is very important, don't let yourself have regrets in the future!