What to do if you have an unfruitful relationship but are unwilling to give up

There is nothing wrong with loving someone, but you should choose a person worthy of love, love is not marriage after all, maybe they have also loved you now, but as a result, let it go, a man who has a family and comes out to find is really not worthy of you, he can't give you anything but the so-called love.

It can't be like this all the time. Someday, one of the parties will begin to get tired of this unhappy and unblessed relationship. So, since everyone knows the many instability factors that exist between the two of you, you only have two paths.

1。If you continue to do this, you will not get the support of your family, and you will have to bear all kinds of pressure, and you will continue to love each other like this until one day, you have to accept the facts. 2。

Give up, although it seems to be good for everyone, but it will wronged the person concerned. But so. Marriage is not only love but also a responsibility for a person.

I hope that as a man, I can have the courage to take responsibility.

Or don't!

That's not a one-size-fits-all solution.

Sooner or later, something will happen.

Feelings that do not bear fruit must be abandoned.

There are always such people in this world, who can't be friends and lovers.

Can only be a lover.

This is the love in our bones, but also the pain in our bones.

There is a poem. I was not born, I was old, I hated me late, I hated that I was born early, I was old, I hated that I was old, I hated not to be born at the same time, I was good with you every day, I was born before I was born, I was old, I was away from the end of the world, I was born from my cape, I was born before I was born, I was old Butterflies go to find flowers, and perch on grass at night.

It's just that the encounter was too late, and the creation made people.

This turns boys into men and girls into women

Love doesn't have to be together, being able to miss each other in your heart is also a kind of happiness, give up, people can't be so selfish.

It is a very lucky thing that two people can fall in love, but after being together, due to the differences in the living habits and personalities of the two people, there are some small contradictions, especially those who have experienced long-distance love, and they may often feel reluctant in the face of abandoning this relationship. At this time, it is up to everyone to judge whether there is an irreconcilable difference in this relationship, in this case, only to be ruthlessly separated, after all, it is not too blind to stick to the end, and if it is just a determination made in a fit of anger, then it is necessary to calm down 2 people to communicate well.

1. Calm down and solve difficulties according to communication.

It is normal for couples to have disagreements, after all, no matter what kind of relationship it is, it must be a grinding period.

It would be a pity to decide to give up just in a fit of rage. If two people who love each other often quarrel or have disagreements, and then want to give up this relationship, you must calm down and think twice. At this time, when getting along with the object, we must learn to think from each other's perspective, if you encounter some differences, don't be idle, it is important for the two to communicate well to deal with them, if the differences are handled, then the emotion must not choose to give up.

Second, a clean and neat disconnection.

However, in most cases, everyone is in a hurry together because of love, but ignores the living environment, habits and other aspects of the two people. Constant disputes have caused a lot of damage to each other, at this time I can't hold on to this relationship, but it's not necessary to be reluctant, after all, the two will enter into marriage in the future, spend the rest of their lives, if there is already a disagreement that can't be reconciled when they fall in love, so that from the future, they will also consider for decades, and the two will not be able to be together again.

When I can't let go of a relationship, I will definitely force myself to let go of this relationship.

If it were me, I would break off the loss of socks and cut off all contact with each other, since the relationship between the two people in the empty shirt has no result, then there is no point in getting along.

We should be particularly calm to think about the cause and effect, and then decisively make a choice, there is no need to waste our feelings because the hall is not a result of a relationship.

As the song goes, the word love is too hurtful. People seem to be born creatures trapped by love, and they have been troubled by "love" since birth, whether it is family, love or friendship, or family and country love, brotherly love, etc., which is why people have many joys and sorrows. And among all feelings, love has been a gripping one since ancient times.

The happy ending is of course happy, but parting is the norm in the world. Some feelings are destined to be fruitless, but they are still reluctant to give up, why is this?

If you are sincere, you will be reluctant to restrain yourself. At first, you may not have found out that you have moved your true feelings, but when you want to withdraw, you find that you are powerless to return to the sky, and you know that you have fallen. This is because if you are sincere, the other party is no longer a single person in your heart, but your emotional sustenance, in other words, "get used to it".

Accustomed to having this person around, and used to being around this person.

I can't forget it, and I feel sorry for that time of giving. Some feelings, whether it is others or themselves, clearly understand that there will be no happy result, but they are still reluctant to let go, in addition to having paid sincerely, there is also a point that is reluctant to pay for themselves. Whether it is the investment in this relationship, or the first heartbeat, or the later joy, it is all about making me reluctant to give up, and it is also an existence that affects my decision.

The more tormented I became, the more I wanted to face the difficulties and look forward to miracles. I have heard a lot of stories about beating mandarin ducks, and everyone has a rebellious mentality, not to mention the feelings that they are sincerely invested in. So I know that this relationship will end without a problem, but I still want to try it and work hard, hoping for a happy ending.

This kind of psychology is understandable, after all, if you don't fight for it, it is difficult to guarantee that you will be unwilling when you think about it later. It hurts only when you hit the south wall that you know it hurts, that's the truth.

There is no high or low relationship, only whether it is suitable or not. When you are in a situation where you should give up but are reluctant, you might as well let yourself work hard to the last hand, and then say right and wrong.

Because meeting is a kind of fate, it is not easy for two people who love each other to meet together, and it is not easy to meet a person who loves each other and the other party also loves him, so he knows that two people have no result, but he is still reluctant to give up this relationship.

Because the relationship between two people is still relatively good now, two people still enjoy this feeling many times, or always want to try it with their own practical actions to see if they can really be together.

Because I am unwilling and feel that my efforts are not proportional to the return, I am unwilling to let go.

Because I love each other, even if I know that the result will not be good, I will be reluctant to let go now, and I am willing to work hard for this relationship.

Because sometimes the feelings are uncontrollable, when I know that the two of them have no results, but I am still unwilling and reluctant to give up.