Does living in a different environment cause children to become selfish?

Your problem is not very clear, there is a possibility that the living environment is different, the child's personality is different, but it is also possible to be similar. Personality is largely determined by genetics and environmental influences, and living environment is only one aspect of it.

As for whether you are selfish or not, I can't help it, because your question only says that the living environment is different, not what the specific living environment is, so I would like to see your more detailed and accurate statement.

Absolutely! Back then, Meng's mother moved three times because of the same thing you were worried about, the child's growth environment would affect his life, so he was cautious! But as for whether the child's personality will be selfish, it still needs the guidance and education of parents.

Selfishness arises when the child's current desires are not being fulfilled. The environment is different, of course, the conditions are different, and the satisfaction of children is also different. When a child has no worries about food and clothing and a superior environment, he thinks more than material things but is respected and praised by others.

Different growth environments will create different personalities for children! Generally, children with siblings basically understand sharing, especially older children will know humility and sharing. In fact, the environment that affects the child's personality is mainly the humanistic environment, and the influence of the natural environment is also there, but the humanistic environment plays a decisive role!

The environment in which you live will definitely have an impact on your child's personality! But whether to develop on the good side or to the bad side is not absolute.

In fact, the most important thing about a child's character is related to the education and influence of parents, as long as parents are willing to spend time to do more good things to make children grow up healthy and happy, I believe that children will definitely not learn those bad ones.

Why are children selfish? There are three main reasons: emotion, volitional qualities and character.

Not necessarily. The environment is the external cause, and the ego is the internal cause.

Not necessarily. The impact of family disharmony on a child's growth is great, even fatal, but there are cases.

Internal and external situation, tolerant.

Because in addition to the influence of the family, the growth of children also includes school and society; Educate children not only fathers, mothers, grandparents, and many other people, if children are kind-hearted, they will learn more about the good side and overcome the bad side of themselves. It is best to have a harmonious family, because a harmonious family will give children a healthy and happy growth environment and a good example of learning, which can make it easier for children to become talents.

You have the right to pretend that person doesn't exist! Create a warm environment for children with their own love, we can't change the external environment, but we can grasp the happy time with our children and believe in ourselves! It is not the father who has the greatest influence on the child, but the mother!

The child may become a little autistic.

Parents should educate their children through their words and deeds to understand the truth that sharing is fun and being ashamed of being alone, help children establish group thinking, encourage children to let their favorite toys play with children, and share their favorite food with children, so that children's selfish behavior is gradually reduced, and an overall concept for the sake of the public is established.

For 2-3-year-olds, it is common to think only of themselves and not of others. Due to their limited thinking ability, it is difficult to understand the interrelationship between things, and they often take me as the center to understand things, which is the thinking characteristic of young children.

If the child's way of thinking is developed, the child may become a selfish person, this kind of person is not welcome in society, even if the child's IQ is high and the ability is great, it is difficult to perform.

Then, the easiest way for parents to teach their children not to be selfish is to make them understand that everything in the world should be shared and shared, and to make them understand that they should always care about others.

First of all, parents should not let their children's self-centered psychology run their own path, and they should not adopt a "casual parenting" style for their children.

Secondly, parents should also understand that selfish children have unstable personalities and are difficult to have a high IQ.

Parents should educate their children through their words and deeds to understand the truth that sharing is fun and being ashamed of being alone, help children establish group thinking, encourage children to play with their favorite toys, and share their favorite food with children, so that children's selfish behavior is gradually reduced, and an overall concept for the sake of the public is established.

Hello friends! Children are too selfish is usually a problem with the family environment and education methods, the person who the child has the most contact with is the one who has the greatest impact on the child, this situation should be paid special attention to, and if it is not solved, it will affect the child for a lifetime, parents should play an exemplary role, pay special attention to encourage the child to share good things with everyone, tell the child more stories in this regard, give more examples, and insist.

Don't worry, children are stingy and generous, these are children's instincts (acquired). According to authoritative surveys, children become business elites before the age of six more stingy than generous, as long as you can grasp the general direction, don't let your children go astray. (It's important to say 'selfish', four-year-olds can only be called stingy!) ）

The child's nature also shows that your child is quite smart, this is not a bad thing, parents should be guided slowly from the front, after all, the child does not know what is right and wrong, can not see the child's selfish side and feel bad, the key is how we guide is, guide the child must be very good.

Parents are kind, children are kind. Parents are evil, children are poisonous. Nowadays, there are more and more children who are poisoned, and most of them are instigated by migrant workers' families. Upstairs from the perspective of urban residents, many one-sided. The local children in the city are very educated.

The long can cultivate the baby's sense of sharing from the following aspects: 1. Usually when parents give the baby something to eat, don't say that this is bought for the baby, but say to the baby that this is the mother to the baby, and the baby eats with everyone. 2. Instill the awareness of sharing in the baby through storytelling.

3. To dilute the baby's behavior, don't always tease the baby, when the baby gives the food to the parents, the parents should really eat, and not return to the baby. 4. Don't let the baby pick first, encourage the baby to give the elders and adults first, so as to gradually cultivate the baby's sense of sharing. 5. Parents should not label the baby as stingy, so as not to cause negative hints, but to make positive psychological hints.

When the baby makes progress, parents should give encouragement, so that the baby has a sense of accomplishment, so as to become a generous child.

Children with low self-esteem are psychologically cowardly, easy to miss opportunities, and it is difficult to achieve anything.

Psychological Counseling for Child Growth Education: A Sense of Identity.

After the child enters adolescence, he will gradually complete the intimate separation from his mother, and the child must gradually overcome the attachment to the mother alone and begin to accept other people, including the father, the friends in life, the school teacher, etc. During this period, parents must take time out to spend with their children, and Chongqing Cuncaoxin Psychological Counseling emphasizes that especially fathers, consciously let their children have more contact with other children of the same age, expand their children's contact areas, and let children look at the outside world.

How to deal with this stage of detachment is also very skillful. At this stage, children need to obtain the simplest self-identity, especially from their parents, and then from society and school.

The daughter got a beautiful dress for her birthday, and she wanted to wear the dress right away, because the daughter thought that everyone would like her if she wore a beautiful dress, so her father said to her, "Everyone likes you not because you wear a beautiful dress, but because you are smart, well-behaved, and polite, understand?" ”

In childhood, children's self-identity often comes from appearance, and it is necessary for parents to instill the correct concept of self-identity in their children and encourage them to develop good qualities, so that children can build real self-esteem and self-confidence. Chongqing Cuncaoxin Psychological Counseling believes that if this kind of intimate relationship is not completed well, children often cannot integrate well into the group when they grow up, and will even be surrounded by a strong inferiority complex.

I feel the same way. It has to do with the environment and education.

Now I have a child, and I still live in high-rise buildings, and I rarely spend time with my peers.

Parents generally get double pay, and sometimes they give their children to their parents or part-time workers.

The doting of grandparents on the third generation has spoiled them.

No one taught them how to respect their elders and think of others.

I think it has a lot to do with homeschooling. Because today's children are the treasures of the family, everything is accommodating to the children of the family, therefore, the child will not think about others in his interactions with others, and he will have to be let by others, so he seems to not understand the world.

Moreover, everyone's life is very good, and when there is no special need for help from others, there are fewer things to do to help others, and they will not care about others. So isn't it now to do something to help the poor and help the children, so that the children can go to remote areas to experience the difficult life of others?

It is not that the child's sense of human affection is weak, but the reason of adults, some parents send their children out to study at a very young age, thinking that this can get ahead, don't you know that although they have learned some knowledge, the generation gap between parents and children is slowly generating. You can't blame children, you can only blame adults.

Material civilization is developing too fast, and spiritual civilization cannot keep up. Under the impact of material desires, the spirit collapsed. Life is not as happy as before, and people gradually can't believe in love. Look at the home cooking, it's good.

From the perspective of Buddhism, every child is reincarnated from a different way, and they are born crying, which is very painful, because they all come with their own sinful karma, raising children is simply the most tedious and hard thing in the world, coupled with the current social atmosphere and conditions, it is really difficult to ensure that children are happy for a lifetime. Sense of human feelings.