Why don t you have a boyfriend if you think your conditions are good?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-10
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because you think you're good, the bar for choosing a mate will also go up, and there will be a gap, and you're in that gap right now. In fact, no one is perfect. Judging whether a person is good or not is nothing more than drawing conclusions from the face, those with good facial features are excellent products, those crooked melons and cracked dates are defective products, and then there is the question of whether the soul is beautiful or not, and whether the conduct is good or not.

    The key is still the problem in his heart, he just wants to look at the face he likes, even if he hurts himself, he is willing, and he is not willing to stay with the face he doesn't like.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I think the conditions are very good, but it's not right. You're only really good if others think you're good.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    That's because you don't recognize your own ability, you always feel that you are very good, and you want to find a man who is as good as yourself, but you don't know that your conditions are actually average, but you have perfected yourself. I remember that I used to be like this, but not because of how good my conditions were, but because I felt that my first love was too perfect, and I felt that I should be worthy of someone as perfect as my first love, and then I kept waiting for it. But I really don't know that my ** conditions are good.

    So until I graduated from college, I didn't fall in love for three years. After a period of self-reflection, I felt that my thoughts were ridiculous, and I felt like I was digging a hole and jumping by myself. So I tried to let go of a lot of attachments and choose the right person.

    Only after getting married did I find out that the person I like is not the right person, but the right person. As long as you meet the right person at the right time, you will find out if you are suitable for each other after cultivating a relationship.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think it's because people she looks up to him don't look down on him, and he looks down on him and he doesn't look down on others.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think people who don't have that friend now may be high or low.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    When you think that you are good in all aspects, you will ask for and look for the other half with the conditions you think, which is understandable from your own point of view. But from the eyes of others, maybe you are really in good condition, and they dare not climb high; Maybe your conditions are not as good as you think, and they are also demanding and looking at you with their various conditions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The aura of being too good is too big. The average person would think that such a good person doesn't have a boyfriend yet? It's impossible, I'm out of play. Usually talk to colleagues and friends, and laugh a little more. Just kidding, don't be afraid of being embarrassed, I've lost a lot of people, who still remembers.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because of its own excellence, the requirements for the other half are naturally high. In the world of ordinary people, the standards of excellence are also different. Judging from the average standard of excellence in the eyes of the public, even if it can be called excellent, it must be a small number of people, and these few people are also scattered among the masses, and you have not yet encountered them.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's just a sentence, too confident. It's like I got married at the age of 28, so I got married later. The reason why I have been an older leftover girl for a few years is that Evan himself is too confident, and he always feels that he is versatile, good-looking, and has savings, and he feels that no man is worthy of me.

    It wasn't until my birthday that I found out that I was so old, and then I began to be anxious, and I was helpless when I looked at my parents who were more anxious than me. In the end, I had to deal with a lot of blind dates, and I chose one of these blind dates and got married. Now, I feel that I am just an ordinary person, and I don't have any supreme temporary feelings before I got married, but I feel that I was too self-conscious at that time, which led to my hunger now.

    So it's better to lower your eyes, find someone with good character, and get in touch with it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't worry. The matter of marriage is wonderful, not to seek, but to wait. If you have good conditions, you just need to read more in your ordinary life, go to other places for a long time, and learn more about tea art, flower arrangement, and cooking skills.

    Life is colorful, the mood is good, and the external image will be beautiful. Enjoy the ease and comfort of being single, just be yourself, atmospheric, elegant, intellectual, and bookish you, who doesn't love it? Your wait will not be disappointed.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Your own conditions are very good. People are beautiful and beautiful. There should be no shortage of suitors.

    Isn't your bar a little higher? You must know that there is no perfect person in the world, only to accept and appreciate an imperfect person with perfect eyes. It may also be that fate has not arrived.

    Make more contact and contact with each other to achieve that you find the right person, and if you believe that it will not be long before you get a sweet love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There will always be a boy in life who is obviously in good condition, but he doesn't have a girlfriend, and even the people around him will be surprised. In fact, in the eyes of such boys, love is a very sacred thing, and only when you meet the right person will you let yourself go.

    For such a boy, love is not just a matter of finding someone, it must be the girl who is tempted by him. For them, once they choose a person, they must be the one they like and are attracted to, and they will not easily start a relationship, which is disrespectful to each other.

    In fact, boys have their own requirements for love, not just any girl will let herself be impressed, and she must meet her own requirements to enter her own strictness. Such a boy is very good because of his own conditions, so he will not easily lower his requirements, and hope that the other party is also an excellent person, so that there will be a common topic, and this kind of life is worth pursuing.

    For boys, in fact, many times love is not as important as imagined, and only when the career is stable do they go back to think about other things. In their opinion, if life is not guaranteed, if they are not excellent people, then it is not worth falling in love, and the other party will also suffer with them, because they will not easily try to fall in love, which is a great challenge for themselves.

    Actually, in my opinion, people who are not in love just haven't met the person who makes their hearts move, but whenever they meet the right person, they will give up all standards and will not be bound by things. Love should be free and easy, so that you can enjoy it, and if you think too much, it will only become a burden to yourself, thus hindering your happiness.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Some boys may have a girl they like, but they themselves feel that they are not good enough so they don't confess to her for a long time, or the girl they like has someone they like, so they choose to be single with her. Some don't want to fall in love, maybe he wants to be busy with his studies or career so he doesn't want to fall in love too early.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Because these boys don't focus on falling in love, they focus on their careers and studies.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Because some boys have good conditions and have relatively high requirements, ordinary girls can't look down on them, so they don't have girlfriends.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    The conditions in the boyfriend's house are very good, but the boyfriend himself has no future, and he should not consider marrying the other party at this time, because the other party's family will be defeated one day. When choosing a marriage partner, a woman should not only look at the other party's family background, but also see whether the other party has an upward heart, and see if the other party is willing to fight for a better future for two people. Smart women will never choose a rich second generation who has no future, on the contrary, they will choose a person who keeps working hard.

    If the boyfriend has no future, the future life of the two people may become very poor, although the other party's family conditions are very good, but these also come from the other party's parents. If the other party's parents are unwilling to hand over the property to their boyfriends, there is still no way to guarantee the lives of the two people. And the other party's parents will always leave one day, and at that time, the other party's family conditions will become worse and worse, so it is better not to marry the other party.

    No matter how much money you have, one day you will be ruined, and if your boyfriend has no future, everything he does is gnawing at the old. Gnawing on old age is not destined to be a long-term survival method, so I hope that girls can keep their eyes open and don't choose a person who will delay themselves. Maybe at this time, the girl likes each other very much, and thinks that the other party's family conditions are better, so she will not suffer after marrying the other party, but when it comes to the follow-up, the girl will regret it one day.

    Most of the boys who grow up in such very good families are reluctant to do their own housework, and the fact that he has no future means that he himself has no ability to take on life's challenges. If there is really something wrong after two people get married, all the heavy responsibilities will be pressed on the woman, and marrying such a rich second generation is equivalent to one more person who needs to be taken care of. So girls must think carefully and try not to choose to marry someone who has nothing to do.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Personally, I think you should consider getting married, if you love your boyfriend very much, then consider getting married, after getting married, he may be self-motivated and find a better job.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I think I can consider getting married, and if my boyfriend's family conditions are good, he may have the opportunity to find a good job for him.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because it's your boyfriend who is married to you, not his family. No matter how good your family is, if you don't work hard, you will be empty. If your boyfriend doesn't have any future, then what are you thinking about getting married?

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    As the saying goes, men should get married, and women should get married, and for the vast majority of people, when they reach a certain age, they will find a partner, fall in love, and get married. ......But there will also be some people who have very good conditions of their own, but they don't fall in love. The practices of these people are puzzling to many.

    The reason why this situation occurs is that some people can't find a partner because they are very demanding because of their own good conditions, some people like to be single and don't want to fall in love at all, and good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factors in falling in love.

    1. Some people have very good conditions, so they have very high requirements for finding a partner, and as a result, they can't find a partner.

    According to most people's understanding, good personal conditions should be conducive to falling in love. But for some people, it affects their ability to find a partner. ......The reason why this situation occurs is because these people have high requirements for their love partners because their conditions are very good, and the result is that there are too few qualified people, and they can't find a suitable partner, so they have been unable to fall in love.

    2. Some people like the state of single life and don't want to fall in love at all.

    For others, although their own conditions are ideal, they very much like to live in a single state. ......As a result, these people don't want to fall in love at all, they just want to live a single life that they like. ......Although these people have good personal conditions, they still won't fall in love.

    3. Good or bad personal conditions are not the decisive factor in falling in love.

    Fundamentally, whether or not a person falls in love is related to personal conditions, but this is not the decisive factor. It's not that people with good personal conditions will definitely fall in love, and it's not that people with poor personal conditions can't fall in love. ......In fact, there are many people who have good personal conditions but do not fall in love, and there are many cases where people with poor personal conditions successfully fall in love.

    The fundamental reason for this is not how the individual is digging, but whether he is willing to fall in love, and whether he can fall in love in the right way. This is the key to whether a person falls in love or not, and whether he can successfully fall in love.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    You're good in all aspects, why don't you want to fall in love with Qin Sui?

    Here's a summary of the reasons and how to find the most suitable love partner:

    1.Personal pursuits are different: Some people may prefer to live independently and freely rather than sacrifice their time and space for a relationship.

    2.Fear of being hurt: Some people may have experienced failed relationships or have been hurt, causing them to feel scared and worried about trying again in a relationship.

    3.Anxiety and stress: In today's society, many young people are facing various pressures such as work, school, and family. These pressures may not make them have enough energy to devote themselves to a relationship.

    4.Unsatisfactory partner: Even if the conditions are good, if you don't meet the right partner, you will not fall in love.

    5.Other interests take precedence: Sometimes a person may be more interested in other things and put them first. This makes it impossible to spend time and energy on finding and maintaining a stable relationship.

    Do these five to help you find the most suitable love partner:

    2.Socialize more: Expanding your social circle can increase your chances of meeting new people, which can increase your chances of finding the right match.

    3.Maintain a positive attitude: Even if you encounter failures or setbacks, you should continue to be optimistic and positive about life. This mindset can attract more positive energy and quality people into your life.

    4.Enhance your own charm: In addition to paying attention to dressing up in the external image, you also need to pay attention to the inner cultivation and knowledge reserve. Make yourself more connotative, tasteful, temperament and other characteristics, so that others can be more attracted and willing to get along with the head god.

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