Please mature people help me, please mature people help me

Updated on society 2024-05-15
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    You should communicate more with your parents and let them understand you, pity the parents of the world, they are just worried about you, care about you, some things will be better, you want to be yourself This is not wrong, what reason do they have not to forgive you.

    If you have time to communicate with your parents, be more concerned and considerate of them, and I think they will become your last spiritual support.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your family doesn't forgive you, it's your way of doing something wrong, your family is concerned about you and worried about you.

    A person is not an independent individual, he wants to get along with everyone, then he has to consider everyone's thoughts, what ideas and practices you have, say it and listen to everyone, and listen to the opinions of the majority, so that it is good for everyone, you are no longer stubborn, and you have become happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is your growth process, I guess we give you advice that you will not do it, slowly explore it yourself! At the moment you are honest and self-motivated. Don't be afraid, if you're right, stick to your opinion and convince others.

    If it is right to think twice about other people's proposals, you should calm down and listen to other people's opinions, and slowly you will grasp the principles of social survival.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The key: Do you want to change the status quo? I think I can do it by all means.

    You want people to do to you, you can do to others, this is the most basic, you want people to reach out to you, please stretch out your hand first. Now there is not as much affection between people in society as before, so you should take the initiative, don't think that other people's affairs have nothing to do with you, care about others, and don't ask for anything in return, so when you need to care, when you feel lonely, there may be surprises.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    There are four things to make people happy: don't envy and envy others, and don't care about others treating you badly or sorry for you.

    Properly think about others, try to listen to the opinions of your family, and ask your family not to take care of you in small matters.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Try to change, don't be self-centered, and consider your family's opinions.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Society is not where you live alone, you have to learn to empathize, and you will understand it quickly.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You have to learn to feel about others and see if you're doing the right thing from someone else's point of view.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Haha, follow me in January to promise to make you your parents ecstatic.

    Be Yourself ?You have to have capital.

    You have to adapt to this social stability.

    It's not society that adapts to you.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Make an example for your parents.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There is a pay, after all, there is a return!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Think differently before you do anything!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Lilyhuizhou - Assistant Level 2.

    That's right.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    So what am I now? If you figure this out, everything will be solved, and if you count her husband, then you have to treat her well, because she has had a failed relationship after all, and it has caused a shadow on her, and you have to find a way to help her out, and if you're just a stand-in, then you just let it go, otherwise the further back you go, the more you hurt yourself.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    It seems that you had this feeling when you fell in love in high school, and now you definitely can't let it go.

    In this way, then you can be very good to her.

    What I care about is when we are together, not the days we lose.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    You are very happy to have a woman who truly knows what love is and truly loves you. It's just that you don't know.

    I don't want to tell you what to do, because it's not necessary. You just have to be who you really are and continue to love her in your own way. You don't have to pretend to be very mature for her, you don't have to be afraid of your own problems, you don't have to be naïve, and you don't need to say it"I love you"What is the meaning.

    Because I'm sure she knows it in her heart.

    I'm also a person who has had emotional setbacks, and I know it with you now, and I don't need to say it often if I really love. Sometimes the love that is not said is deeper.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Give it up! You're still young, and your true love doesn't have to be her!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If she doesn't love you the way you want, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you, after all, everyone is the same!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    You have your own past, she also has, your girlfriend hurt you a lot before, her former husband hurt her no less than you, you can't forget the previous hurt, then she is even more unlikely to forget, you really love her, treat her well, care about her, you have to try to get her out of the trough, now you feel that she doesn't pay enough attention to you, don't care enough, you should be considerate of her, you should help her instead of such doubts, don't believe, even believe you, okay, hehe, come on!

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  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Doing business and doing design are actually more promising, depending on how to do it, I am also learning to learn design, learning plane, although you are older than me, but as a designer, I can understand your current situation and mood. No matter what you do, being practical and willing to work is the first thing. As a designer, there are two ways to get ahead, the first is to have a good foundation, to have the latest ideas, to have design inspiration that others can't think of, and your design meets the requirements of the public, which is a slow work.

    There's also the fact that the product you designed was a blockbuster and was pushed to a high level by the industry, and this situation is like buying a lottery ticket. So in contrast, doing business is a better way to train people and reach a goal in your life plan faster. I used to work at an announcement company, but later I found that it was really difficult to get a salary increase other than to take on my own private work.

    Now I'm in business, I'm doing sales, and I'm making about the same amount of money, but I'm in contact with society, and I'm getting a lot of experience and people skills. My advice is, go into business, 30 years old is nothing, fight while you're young, maybe get the future you want!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Two sentences come to mind:

    1) One of them. Mr. Son believes that there are two programs, one is the first-class idea plus the implementation of the third-rate; Another solution, first-class implementation plus third-rate idea, which is better? Mr. Sun chose a first-class implementation, a third-rate idea.

    2) Second. Do simple things repeatedly, and you are an expert; Do the repetitive things with your heart, and you are the winner.

    Therefore, having more ideas does not mean that you can succeed, you need to do it with your heart and do it in a down-to-earth manner.

    As for business or design, it doesn't really matter, as long as you do anything with your heart, you will be successful. Therefore, you have to summarize the reasons for your current situation, find out your shortcomings, and then correct your shortcomings so that you can succeed.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    I feel that the business seems to be more promising, but business success requires more effort and dedication. As for the design, there's nothing bad about it. And your mentality is really strange, you have borrowed money for dinner, what face do you need?

    Survival is above all else. Being able to feed yourself is the greatest dignity in itself.

    Also, it's better to do it all, it's useless to talk about it. You said that there are ideas, there is a sense of innovation, and there is no design and no making, and there is a P use.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    A genius design technician has nothing to do with age, young and no work experience, you have been doing it for a few years, how can you say that you have no experience, do what you like, do what you want, no matter what you do, it is the result of hard work, no matter how simple things you don't work hard, there is nothing.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    This is indeed the thoughts and troubles of many such young people, in fact, it is very simple, many things are natural, not that successful people know what they should do at the beginning, what can be successful, career is life, healthy life, hard work, serious work one day you will unconsciously succeed, but maybe then you feel that success is not so easy, nor is it the mood after success now, the most important thing is to find a business to do it yourself, develop, accumulate experience, Accumulate capital and live seriously. There is nothing successful in the world that can be achieved overnight, as long as the dream does not stop and the mentality is stable, one day it will be successful! Journalists work hard and live seriously!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Well, some netizens said very right, a person's success and failure have nothing to do with age, what affects you is your own thoughts.

    There's somebody who's 17 years old and still doing the office.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I don't know what to say, but I just want to say: recognize yourself, success is because you don't give up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Ditch her your best bet! If you don't, you'll have a lot of pain later on, and it will affect your life! Think about it yourself, no one is perfect, don't ask yourself too high!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There's no need to make it, you can't even be friends.

    The problem is that you have to put your mindset in place.

    Because she's just your friend.

    Don't care about friends.

    Fantasize about something else.

    Is it possible to talk to her once in a while, to see her smile and not be happy?

    Do you have to make both of you unhappy?

    You can find something else for yourself.

    When I'm really lonely and bored, I do exercise.

    Adjust your emotions and you won't be so miserable.

    Actually, you're lucky, aren't you?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Manly man! Dare to love, dare to hate! Don't mother-in-law, mother-in-law, can't extricate yourself!

    I also have the same experience as you, I was 22 years old that year, my sister in an accounting class was 5 years older than me, she was also very beautiful, very feminine, and she had been in class together for about half a year. I used to love her like crazy, and I had fantasies, but I never confessed to her, because I knew that none of this was possible...Later, I took the exam and was lucky enough to pass both. We had lunch together, and I knew it might be the last lunch for both of us.

    To be continued....

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Love is inherently a foolish thing

    Don't sacrifice for love

    As for if you really want to be with her, don't worry about what you've been chasing until she's married

    There is also the need to stay away and use time to talk about it.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    "She said she just liked me, not love".

    She has already rejected you euphemistically, stop it as soon as possible, otherwise you won't even be able to be a friend, besides, it's hard to say whether your feelings have become stronger because you can't get them, after all, you haven't even dated formally Your feelings can't be very rational and deep Forgive me for telling you the truth.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Upstairs is a love veteran.

    I guess you're just possessive right now.

    Also declared. Age is not distance.

    An old man marries a 20+ girl. It's no longer surprising.

    The point is that both individuals love each other regardless of each other's conditions.

    And you. Do you know what you are now? ~

    Say you're the 3rd person. Neither.

    It can only be said that it is the 3rd willingly

    Since the other party has a boyfriend.

    Are you still involved? Does it make sense ??

    You haven't talked about it before. Probably don't know the possessive nerve bar guess when you're really mature. You'll find out.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're right.

    You're mature enough.

    In retrospect, what a childish thing it was.

    Don't run your brain idle.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I feel that you are not very mature, you can't give her happiness, really, with my 30 years of experience in cheating the rivers and lakes, you will regret it after you get her, really, I also have experience, it was your situation at the beginning, people divorced for me, as a result, I thought I could do anything for her, and after I got it, I knew that I was just to get, as if to prove something, of course, I would not admit it myself, in the past few years, I saw what you wrote, thinking about my own things, how often I was not like this, life.

    I'm very direct, don't be surprised.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Hello landlord, personal opinion to express it, for reference only, to you such a situation I have also encountered, at that time I was also very young and frivolous, I don't know what to do, now I understand, if you want to be a mature boy, first of all, you have to learn to face the reality, what to change jobs? Ignore people? These are palliative, not the root cause, people are good to you, you have to repay people, treat him as a sister, I feel that you are doing it right, I admire you very much, because I did the same at that time, now I have a sister who is willing to really help me, you are the same, now it is really difficult to find such a sister, I feel that there will be no loss to you, as for the feelings in my heart, believe me, time will make you slowly change, slowly become mature, this must have confidence in yourself, let this paragraph, It's also good that your love becomes a good memory for you, and it's good to believe that you can handle things well, and you have to have faith, little brother.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You don't forget her, you and her better to stay a good friend, brother has a saying that is very good, you can't be a husband and wife to be friends, maybe you are very suitable to be friends with him, I'm afraid it won't be very good to be a husband and wife, brother is very realistic in today's society, life still has to live, you can't hang yourself on a tree, take advantage of your youth now to learn more things, I wish you to meet your crush as soon as possible.

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