Please be a student of Buddhism or a mature person who believes in cause and effect! How to be filia

Amitabha, I am very sympathetic to your plight, I will give your parents every day dedication, I am willing to add their pain to me, as soon as possible to avoid their karma, what you said above is not the situation is just the opposite, "your heart followed the illusion of your parents' anger and ran" There is a lot of helplessness in this world, called "have to", in short, all laws have their own cause and effect, and things happen (the two quarrel) are civilized and civilized according to fate, as for whether you can listen to it or not, then it is not your business, You don't think that Buddhas and Bodhisattvas are omnipotent (don't be stuck by this concept), otherwise there will be no World Venerable saying "Buddha does not live without fate" is actually not a failure, but fate has not arrived, and you can't force it. As for your own quarrels and conflicts with them, it is a good time for you to take advantage of the situation to practice your mind, (not that you have nothing to provoke your parents, you should pay attention), you can practice as if you do not move in the illusion of things, that is when you see the Nyorai (self-nature), come on, Amitabha!

First of all, I salute your filial piety, and by the way, talk about my own views for reference.

The order of cultivation is, to learn from things, to cultivate one's self, to unite one's family, to govern the country, and to level the world.

Yinguang Master: The person who speaks of the object is like fighting, such as one person and ten thousand enemies; Things, that is, troubles and delusions, that is, the so-called human desires. If you want to fight with people who are troubled and delusional, you must have a resolute and untimid will to be effective.

Otherwise, the mind turns with things, how can you be able to treat things? To the end, it is said to push the pole and expand; Know, that is, we have the conscience of loving relatives and respecting brothers; It is not about teaching, but about learning. However, ordinary people do not carry out inspections in their daily use, and they turn from things to things, or they lose their conscience of loving their relatives and respecting their brothers; I still hope that he will push this conscience to the extreme, so as to respond to everything and cultivate his own heart!

Therefore, if you want to help others, you must first be conscious, that is, to get rid of your own delusions and reduce your desires. Your own desires have decreased, that is, you have no self, so that you can know people's hearts, and only by knowing people's hearts can you benefit people, otherwise you don't know other people's hearts, how to do it? It will only stop at wishes.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south.

I have no doubt about the Buddha But your parents are also karma Do you have a cause and effect If you want to be filial, do what you should do as a child And you can't feel your parents because they are going to suffer a lot of sin There will be a lot of reasons for it One day it will subside More for them I hope your family will be harmonious as soon as possible!

You can persuade, but you can't get angry, you don't listen, you have to let it go. But you must not do anything like breaking your vows. If you can't save your parents, you have to be ashamed, because your virtue is not enough, and you can't practice at home.

If the parents are wrong, they can disobey the yang. Don't get into conflict with your parents.

Skillful and convenient. Knowing that your parents are wrong, and still obeying, isn't it conniving at your parents' mistakes?

No. There is a big difference between Buddhist filial piety and tradition. There are two things that a bodhisattva must do when he comes out of this world.

1: Preach the Fa-rectification. 2: Temperate parents.

Therefore, the degree of parents is also mentioned as a very important position. But pay attention. It's degree. Not filial piety.

Therefore, the Buddhist filial piety is actually the meaning of degree. Treat parents as students.

There is no Amitabha Buddha in the south. I wish you all good luck.

Great treasure vast pavilion good dharani dharani).

Those who are in line with the Five Precepts and Ten Virtues can follow the wishes of their parents.

Those who are in line with the ten evils should not obey the wishes of their parents.

It is recommended to go and see Khenpo Yeshe Phuntsok: The Buddha Says the Ten Good Karma Sutras.

Everything is a part of cause and effect, and all people in the world are in cause and effect, and naturally need to fulfill their obligations as children. It's like not eating or eating.

For the mistakes made by parents, we should try our best to stop and make up for it, which is also the filial piety to parents that must be borne by children, but parents are also not my people, and it is naturally difficult for me to use my heart to influence, although we must do our best, but they themselves have chosen the wrong path, and we cannot persuade them to turn back, and they are willing to fall into the quagmire, there is no way to do it, only to follow fate.

Buddhism does not interfere with the ethics of ordinary people, parents are parents, you can't treat them as students or anything just because you believe in Buddhism, Buddhism is just to make people have a healthy attitude to deal with things.

Each of us has our own beliefs, maybe you believe in science, you can't dislike, despise, and dislike others because you don't believe in other people's beliefs, what you can do is let it be, and you yourself know that your parents worship Buddha for your sake.

There are some things that are spiritual, and unbelief is not spiritual. You don't believe it, you think you've succeeded in something, it's your own effort. Parents may not feel that way, they think that it is definitely inseparable from your efforts, but there is also the help of the Buddha.

It's okay if you don't believe in Buddhism, but you can't disrespect the Buddha and the people who believe in Buddhism. There is a person near our house, who does not believe in Buddhism, thinks that it is blind superstition, his wife believes, so some necessary days will burn incense, buy something to offer, he saw once he quarreled with his wife, and threw those things off the table, and then several times, he got a serious illness, a serious illness for no reason, bedridden, took medicine and did not get better, his wife has been taking care of him, every day in front of the Buddha chanting, and then he was sick for a while, and slowly he got better.

Religious belief is free, your parents believe in Buddhism, you don't believe in it, then you can still not believe it, no one will force you to believe in which religion, believe it or not is your own business.

In China's policy on religious belief, there is a relaxed attitude towards religious belief, and you have the freedom to believe and not to belief. All in all, everything is a decision you make, and no one is going to impose it on you. Although your parents believe in Buddhism, they don't force you to say that you should also follow them to believe in Buddhism, and you are still very free in this regard.

Because of their belief in Buddhism, your parents will often ask for Buddha for you, which is also a sign of their love for you. In their worldview, in their devout beliefs, it is normal for the Buddha to be moved by them, to grant their request, to bless your peace. The object of their blessing is you, because they believe that it is good for you, so they do it, and this kind of practice has no bad effect on you, it is just a way for them to show love to you.

Tell me about yourself, your distress is that your parents believe in Buddhism, but you don't believe in it, and you feel very conflicted in your heart. In fact, this kind of worry is completely unnecessary, your parents' belief in Buddhism is your parents' business, and it has nothing to do with you, you can still live your own normal life, and you can still live your own normal life. But you should be careful not to interfere with your parents' beliefs, everyone has freedom of belief, and there is no need to deny the beliefs of others because of their own dislikes, even your own parents.

I remember Stephen Chow once said such a classic line in a movie: If people don't have dreams, what is the difference between them and salted fish! In the same way, if people don't have a little spiritual belief, then there is no goal and pursuit in life, and there is no meaning, right?

I think your parents' special belief in Buddhism is just their spiritual belief, and if you don't believe in Buddhism, then don't disturb them, let alone quarrel with them!

As for what you should do, I think first of all, you have to adjust your mindset and understand your parents' behavior of believing in Buddhism! Although you may be an atheist, your parents' belief in Buddhism is not harmful to society, and our country does not prohibit this kind of behavior, so don't be too resistant and respect your parents' spiritual beliefs.

Also, your parents believe in Buddhism and worship Buddha for you, all for your own good! They must be praying to the Buddha and Bodhisattva to bless you with peace and good health! Whether you believe it or not, you have to understand your parents' good intentions!

What parent doesn't want their children to be good, aren't they all for you! It's okay if you don't believe in Buddhism, respect your parents' choice!

Of course, since you don't believe in Buddhism, then you can continue to adhere to your atheism or your own spiritual beliefs, be yourself, and become the kind of person you want to be.

But I think it's better for you to talk to your parents and tell them what you actually think and feel, so that they can understand your thoughts and thoughts more accurately, so that they can better care for you! In the same way, you should also listen more to your parents' inner world and understand their thoughts more, so that there will be no misunderstanding when you talk about things, and you will be able to continue to live happily together!

The parents of the older generation, perhaps experiencing different times, must always have a sustenance, otherwise they will have no sense of security and will not be down-to-earth.

This is a lifelong faith, so I will place my most devout wishes in it. This of course includes the physical health of the children and all the well.

As for the young people's belief or unbelief, that's another matter. For atheists, it's meaningless. And then for the worshippers, their own religion can give and determine their own destiny.

In my opinion, you can't get too caught up in religious beliefs, but you can't be distrustful. For for us who are educated, pure cultivism is certainly not advisable; And then there are things that are believed to be there and not to be believed. Because there are some things that you don't believe if you haven't experienced them; After experiencing it, it cannot be explained from a scientific point of view.

For example, a child was so frightened that he cried day and night, and then someone pinched his finger, gave him a piece of talisman paper, boiled it and washed it in water, and immediately fell asleep after two hours. You say you don't believe it, don't believe in evil, but after trying, after tossing for four or five days, adults and children are emaciated, and finally they are cured with various local methods given by the old man.

Therefore, if you believe, you have; If you don't believe, you don't.

For the sincerity of your parents, even if you don't believe it, don't brush off their worries and sustenance. You can't expect to explain the atheism of the world to them with Marxism, and you can't expect to wipe out their lifelong piety in a few simple words. Instead, it will make them feel uneasy because you have confronted the gods in their hearts.

So at the very least, you can trust them in their love for you, and you can understand that they are worried that their abilities will not give you security, and there are other ways to help you. This piece of strong family affection is something you will definitely believe in and need.

Many people worship the Buddha and seek scriptures not for themselves, especially the elders, they worship the Buddha more for the younger generations, but most of the younger generations do not believe in this set, but I think these are not conflicting, whether you believe it or not, it does not affect your parents to love you and you love your parents.

Secondly, if you feel that they have bothered you by worshipping the Buddha, for example, asking you to worship too, or if they like to give you tribute to eat, saying that they bless you, you should not resist this. Just like my grandmother used to believe in Buddhism, and then she would let me eat the rest of the tribute, and then she would ask me to worship the Buddha, I relied on it, because I didn't want to hurt the hearts of the elderly. If you don't believe it, just show them a formality, and you can identify your own beliefs.

In the end, no matter what form of love your parents have, it is for our good, don't feel that your parents are verbose and feudal, they just bless you within the scope of their ability and give you the best. When your parents are no longer there one day, you may still miss what your parents did for you. I used to annoy my grandmother's nagging, every time I went out, I had to nag for a long time, and then one **urged one**, but now my grandmother is gone, but I miss it very much.

It's really a son who wants to raise but can't be a parent, so cherish your parents' love and blessings for you.

Be firm in yourself, and walk in the path of goodness that you have ordained. Don't be kidnapped by others, your parents are obviously aggravating your psychological pressure, this is not love, love has been distorted in the hearts of parents. Love is relaxed, active, grateful, happy, trusting, free, supportive, encouraging, praised, loving, understanding, caring.

If you believe it, if you don't believe it, you don't have it, and then show me the real secrets of Wu Zetian and the monks, and then say whether you should believe in Buddhism? I just believe that Grandpa Mao is fun.

If you are filial to your parents, you should respect your parents' beliefs, and if you don't believe them, don't bother them to believe.

You can believe it or not! But you have to believe in your parents' love for you!

If you don't believe in Buddhism, you should be grateful! Parents give you the best wholeheartedly! You should accept the love of your parents! Repay them with your filial piety!

Don't think about anything, your parents worship Buddha is a blessing and a prayer!

I wish you all the best and don't be bothered by this kind of thing! It's actually quite simple! A gift from your parents, just accept it! Just be grateful! It's good to understand!