Do you still scold your child when he loses something?

If it happens occasionally, this is understandable, after all, adults have times when they forget, but after all, this is a bad habit, and good guidance is needed to correct this bad problem, but blindly scolding will make him more emotionally unstable, calm down and let him think carefully about where things are put and then look for them, and then tell him what the consequences of losing things will bring.

You can't blindly scold the child, because the child has made a mistake, and it is okay to scold, but the most important thing is to guide the child how not to make mistakes and tell him where he is wrong, so that he will grow.

I will not blindly scold my child when he loses something, because the child will have a shadow psychologically, so if the child encounters this kind of problem, I will patiently ask him what happened to cause him to lose something, and then find a way to help the child change the problem from the communication.

No, I will ask when he lost it, when was the last time it appeared, and then criticize him to correct it next time.

Is something very important missing? Sometimes emotional education is more effective than scolding.

There are two things that I remember very well, and they have a deep impact on the formation of my personality.

The first thing, the first grade of primary school, the first finger Shentian arranged from 1 to 20, when I was young, I thought that there was a lot of homework, and I kept crying and crying when I got home, and my dad has been cooking and cooking, and has been ignoring me, at that time I felt so bent, I felt that my father was good or bad, and I didn't comfort me, and when my father finished cooking, it was about 1 hour, and I was still making trouble, and then my father said to me, look at it, if you are teased to go home and start doing your homework now, Isn't it all done and then you can have fun playing, come, wipe away your tears, hurry up and finish your homework first, and then we will have dinner. So I listened to my dad and got my homework done, which took less than 10 minutes. The duality of this incident has a great impact, and I have been remembering it until now, because it is my father's education that I know not to be afraid of difficulties, but to think about how to overcome them.

The second thing, when I finished washing, I accidentally broke the bowl, I was very scared, thinking that my father would scold me, but my father didn't scold, let me sweep the pieces with a broom, don't take it with my hands, when I asked my father why he didn't scold me, he said that the bowl was broken, and you can't come back if you scold you, what's the use, but you feel guilty in your heart and know that you have to be careful in the future.

These two things have always had a great impact on me, so now, no matter what difficulties Cong Kai encounters, I am not worried, and I think about how to solve them. When you do something wrong, it's not just about being annoyed, it's about thinking about improving in the future.

Therefore, the education of the parents in tact is very important. It's useless to just beat and scold.