Is it an excuse for a man to say that he will get married when he buys a house?

It depends on the situation, the house is too expensive now, if you don't even have a house, how can he let you have a stable home after he gets married? Right? A man's dedication and sense of responsibility are relatively strong, and he wants his woman to live a happy life, so the house is the premise of all, he may be afraid that if he doesn't have a house, it will be unstable and make you unhappy, if you are still worried that he is an excuse, then you should carefully observe him to see if he is working hard for the house, working hard to make money, or being idle every day, etc., from his attitude towards you, and the degree of concern can reflect his real thoughts, but you don't propose to buy a house with your parents' money, generally boys will refuse After all, do you have a strong self-esteem, trust him a little more, be more tolerant, and at the same time care a little more, believe that you will be happy o( o

In fact, the house is for the current post-80s

It doesn't seem to matter if there is one

Don't think of the house as a burden

If you don't have it, you can rent a house

As long as two people struggle together

What kind of life you live by yourself

I don't think I understand

Use the house as an excuse

No. It's pressure, it's reality, it's a desire. I have that too. It's about survival, life and dignity.

Don't think about it. Steadfast in love.

Everyone is different, it depends on what you know about the person, the personality of the person, and how much he loves you. The main thing is that he loves you, if this person is okay and really loves you, it is really not an excuse, on the contrary, he is looking for an excuse to perfunctory you, and if he finds a good one, he will dump you. So you still have to think about what kind of person he is, is it true to you?

No matter what others say, after all, they don't understand the truth, and they just say their own opinions, just for reference.

Write your names on the real estate deed, and you can get it back to you after the divorce.

Now that you are getting married, the house is a big problem, if you don't have a house, will your family agree to your marriage? And after getting married, will you blame him for not having a house? What's more important is how much you think he will love you, love you very much, and that's good. Hope you are happy!

The man said. Buy a house when you get married. It's an excuse.

It's hard to say, and the key depends on how well he performs in other areas. You should pay more attention to him and don't let this affect your trust in him.

is responsible for you, and does not want you to suffer with him.

It depends on what kind of man he is, a man with a noble character must be true like that, he doesn't want his wife to suffer, he doesn't even have a place to live, on the contrary, it's the excuse type garbage man you said. The test will judge what kind of category you belong to.

Maybe I want to give you a better environment, but the key is to see what kind of person and character this man is.

If it's your current income @, if he's poor and basically can't afford it, then don't wait.

It depends on how old you are now, and buying a house is a few years from now... Measure it for yourself.

I don't have a house.

This actually varies from person to person, because some people may indeed have problems with their ability and just don't have enough money to buy a house before they get married. And some people are ideological problems, after all, the housing prices in our country are so high now, there may be some men who feel that there is no need to buy a house for the time being.

Maybe he thinks that his conditions are so good, and he should buy a house at the other party's family when he gets married, and he doesn't need to buy it at all, because his conditions are very good, and the woman should stick it upside down.

A man should want to find a woman who can be upside down, feel that his charm is very strong, and even if he doesn't have a house, there are people who are willing to marry him.

It's not what men are thinking, but buying a house requires a lot of money, and many men can't afford such a large amount of money at the age of marriage.

I think most men want to trick this woman home without spending money, so they don't want to buy a house.

If you don't want to buy a house, it may be that the man can't afford it, and he doesn't have the financial strength yet, so he wants to put it off a little longer and wait until he has saved enough money to buy a house.

Summary. Hello, this can't be said to be an excuse, in today's society, many people have been instilled with the idea that they must buy a house and a car when they get married, and your boyfriend has also been affected by this.

My boyfriend's family asked us to get married, and I want to get married too, but my boyfriend said that he would wait until he bought a house, is that an excuse?

Hello, this can't be said to be an excuse, in today's society, many people have been instilled with the idea that they must buy a house and a car when they get married, and your boyfriend has also been affected by this.

That's why he said that, and he also wanted to have a house, so that you can have a place to settle down when you get married in the future, so that you can live happily.

Because of this incident, we have quarreled several times since the Chinese New Year, and every time we quarrel, he goes back to his hometown, and he feels so tired.

Don't be tired, don't be tired, dear.

The body is the capital of the revolution.

In fact, you don't have to quarrel because of this, one of you wants to get married and the other wants to buy a house, and the two of you will work together to earn money and fight for a down payment to buy it.

Then you can get married.

Two people can't quarrel when they encounter a problem, they must learn to find the loophole of the problem and solve it.

in order to go the long way.

Have fun. Towards happiness.

He went back to his hometown after this quarrel, he said that he felt that he was arguing and arguing and had no sense of happiness, he was afraid that he would quarrel like this when he got married, he didn't contact me, and I didn't give him a **, I felt very humble, and I was anxious to marry him.

That's the problem, pro.

You're in too much of a hurry.

It would make him feel cheap.

He will also feel that you can't live without him.

He was even more unscrupulous.

That's why they leave as soon as they quarrel.

I'm sure you're going to go back to him.

His temper is like this, every time he quarrels because of anything, he said that I was unreasonable in this quarrel, and he said to his relatives in his hometown during the New Year, he and his relatives said that he would not get married until he bought a house, why didn't I believe him, he said that he didn't want to quarrel too tired, he asked me what I was going to do, I said either get married or break up, he said whatever I wanted.

I could see that he himself had a feeling of disappointment, tired.

He also began to go numb.

I don't want to communicate with you anymore.

In fact, every quarrel is consuming feelings.

I've seen a couple who never had a fight.

They lived happily and to the fullest.

Teacher, what should I do now.

Do you still love him, do you still want to marry him?

There must be love.

If you still love him, you might as well talk to him, take a step back, in fact, it is not impossible to buy a house and then get married, so that the future life is more ***, and you don't have to worry about the wind and sun, the life after marriage is all about wealth, rice, oil and salt, having a house is really critical, you are afraid that he will run away now, and you urgently need to get married to lock him, you might as well believe him and communicate.

After getting married, I bought a house, and my husband always said that he couldn't live in a house, saying that I lived in a lot, what does this sentence mean?

Maybe he often travels on business and lives less at home, you live at home, it's just a joke, don't be serious with him, you are not at home, I will look at the house for you, I haven't asked you to see the house money.

After getting married and buying a house, my husband always said that he couldn't live in a house because you lived a lot, whether it was because he worked far away and only came back once a long time, so he would live very little, so he would say so.

Whatever it means, I feel very uncomfortable listening to this sentence.

Why does he have this kind of thought, he has noticed who lives in more houses and who lives less, I think he must be a calculating person, and ordinary people will not notice these and will not say such things. What if you live more and he lives less, is it because of this that you should pay more for the house and less for him? Ask him if that's what he meant.

Moreover, it also depends on whether you are a husband and wife or a shared partner, I don't understand.

A little disgusted with you, he kind of felt that he had suffered a loss and was not worth it. Ignore him, men always suffer from gains and losses, small belly chicken intestines. Do your best, and I wish you happiness.

When you want to repay the mortgage, you take more money out, this husband, can talk like this, I can't help laughing.

This might be a joke! Unless your husband works outside the home all year round. Or maybe he's sick. Not for long.

Only in love, not married, varies from person to person.

Between two people who love each other, if they are only in love with each other, and do not talk about marriage, this is okay.

If you are in love, you can not get married.

However, at least we must understand that people who are emotionally mature have their own responsibilities and responsibilities.

After thinking clearly, you don't need to get married, you can only fall in love and not get married.

Most people fall in love for the sake of marriage.

If one of the two parties in a relationship needs marriage, then it is necessary to discuss it with each other.

I can discuss it together, and I can continue to accompany him. If the discussion is only contradictions and disagreements, break up.

That's it. Generally speaking, as long as you are not married, there must be a possibility of turning the book, and your boyfriend may not be ready, so you have to set a deadline for yourself, such as three months, and try to make yourself better in these three months. Three months have passed, and the man's attitude has not changed, break up, don't tear up, don't blame, don't complain, because it's meaningless.

Face up to your value in the eyes of men, not your own value, and think about why.

Probably not. I think the reason is that your boyfriend doesn't have a regular job at the moment, and the family's economic conditions are average, and you have just graduated and will definitely not be able to afford the mortgage financially, so your boyfriend said that he would talk about buying a house later. In fact, your boyfriend's state is very understandable, the job is not determined, and he does not have the courage to get married at all, because he cannot promise your parents a superior and stable life.

So, you might as well wait for your boyfriend to find a job and settle down before thinking about getting married. As for the house, you can repay the mortgage and buy it together, so that the financial pressure can be easier.