Is it true that a long distance relationship won t end well?

Not necessarily. I know an older brother on the Internet who once told me that he was in an online relationship and was in a long-distance relationship. They are very affectionate, however, the brother says that he wants to let go because he thinks he cannot and cannot give her happiness. But then they were together.

If the landlord also thinks the same as his brother, then change his mind, long-distance relationship, the test is persistence and trust, you have to be unaffected by the outside world, focus on each other, trust each other, is the most important thing.

But if you can't do it, then you can only separate.

No communication. This is very, very harmful ...

After all, it's far away from the other party, and you can't always know the situation of TA, so you're in favor of the first floor (your first few words can't last long, and parents don't necessarily agree).

Be more careful with online dating.

Try not to give up. Persistence is victory.

As an example of failure, I think that time and space are great obstacles.

Three years later, she and I were tired of it. When we meet once a month or a few months, we spend a few days together.

Because they are not together, it is difficult for the two to find common topics, and they don't know what to say when they meet, and she is very introverted.

Over time, there is always some boredom after meeting, and the atmosphere is very average.

In the end, the feelings faded and dispersed.

However, none of us have any third-party incidents.

She and I are just friends now.

If the landlord is in a long-distance relationship, he must have confidence in himself and him!! Can be successful!!

Don't follow in my footsteps!!

It's hard to succeed, but there's a chance.

Third-party involvement is the most dangerous.

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years now, but lately we often get into fights over small things. I began to worry if our relationship would fade and even break up.

Actually, my boyfriend and I haven't been in love for a long time, but we have a lot of love experience. We used to be college roommates, then met on social media, and finally met and started dating under the introduction of a friend. In these two years, we have experienced a lot of things, including long-distance relationships, quarrels, reconciliations, and so on.

However, as time goes on, we seem to become more and more impatient and prone to tantrums. We often make a big fuss over small things, such as not understanding a word, returning late, etc. These small things may seem insignificant, but the accumulation of pure land makes our feelings more and more fragile.

In addition, we also found that we were a little different in the way we got along. I prefer to do my own thing when I'm quiet and alone, while he likes to be busy and in the company of people. This difference didn't catch our attention at first, but as time went on, we found ourselves finding it increasingly difficult to understand each other's thoughts and needs.

What worries me the most is that our plans for the future also seem to be divided. I always wanted to further my education, and he wanted to get into the workforce as soon as possible. This makes our future murky and leaves us at a loss of how to move forward.

Although I knew that these problems did not come out of nowhere, I was still scared to see our relationship fade. I don't know if we'll be able to persevere, if we'll be able to walk through each day together.

So, I decided to have a good talk with my male friend to see if we still have common goals and values. I believe that as long as we can be honest with each other and understand and support each other, it is possible for our relationship to continue to develop.

Hello! I have received your question, I am Xu Mengru, a counselor of the psychological platform at this moment.

In contrast, it seems that long-distance relationships do have some problems that cannot be avoided. For example, if you get together less and leave more, you will feel that you can't always understand what the other person is doing; For example, the other party did not reply in time, worried that he didn't care about himself or had a new lover; For example, there is little time to get along, it is difficult to have common topics, and so on.

But in all fairness, these kinds of problems can still arise even if they aren't long-distance relationships. Because everyone is an independent individual, in their emotional life, people with a high sense of security tend to have a certain sense of control over their emotions, while people with a low sense of security often suffer from gains and losses. Therefore, a good relationship needs to be maintained, and it requires the joint efforts of both parties.

First, in the relationship, we should first do our own role, and then do the role of the other partner. Exist without attachment to each other, so that both parties have room to develop their own personalities and lives. In addition to being lovers, both partners should have other social support such as friends, family, classmates, and colleagues.

Second, you should be equal and respectful in your relationship, and you can have your own views and attitudes, but you can't completely use your own standards to define others. Get along with each other on a case-by-case basis, and communicate in a timely manner when encountering Liangqiao. Do not judge each other arbitrarily, do not insult each other emotionally, and do not use violence and cold violence.

Third, in a good relationship, you should give each other the necessary emotional support. People are happy to share good moods, but bad moods need more attention. When you are in a bad mood, you can remind the other party so that your emotions do not cause the other party to misunderstand; When the other person is in a bad mood, you can give attention and see people instead of things.

In times of sadness, people want to receive comfort and encouragement more than the great truths of the Tao.

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It depends on whether both parties really only have each other in their hearts, no matter what kind of love, the longer they talk, the more they don't want to get married, and naturally there will be no results.