After the breakup, they regretted each other, but the situation of both families was difficult to co

A marriage without the blessing of elders is destined to be unhappy!

If you have to forgive him and marry him, then in the eyes of his parents, you are a "daughter-in-law sent to the door", please forgive me for being so straightforward, but you have lost the battle before you marry into her family, and you will have no status in their family in the future, are you willing to live this kind of life? Besides, how good your husband is to you, that's because you are in love, but no matter how good you are, you are born, what I mean by this is - heredity, those 'unacceptable shortcomings' that her mother sees in you, will one day be 'perceived' by your husband, when the time comes, your in-laws dislike your husband and abandon you, you really have no place to stand, do you cry and run back to your parents' house to make your parents sad?

So, it's better to divide it early.

In fact, you are all due to a small misunderstanding caused by both sides not understanding each other, and then it has evolved into a big misunderstanding now, two people together will more or less have bumps and bumps, after all, even yourself can't make yourself what you imagined, how can you let others become what you imagined, a truth, you and your husband have an awkward quarrel, the two of you must not tell both parents, once a parent intervenes in your problem, the problem is difficult to solve, The only way is that one of you can let go of dignity and face, for the happiness of two people, everything is worth it, of course, I also disagree with men beating women, I once beat my wife, and then I swore that I would never beat her in my life, at least for a few years, I haven't done it again until now, we are also very affectionate, I wish you all better.

To tell the truth, parents will always only help their children, even if their children are wrong, they will help him. Your quarrel this time confirms this. Moreover, you yourself said that they said insulting things to you, and you are now feeling guilty.

It's hard to break the mirror, you should understand this truth, right?

Sometimes, getting married is really not just a matter of two people. If his family doesn't accept you and insults you in all sorts of ways, why should you compromise it? It's not nice to say, sometimes it's just that you have wronged yourself, and people don't necessarily appreciate it

So, girl, let's find a family that is good to us. Don't grieve yourself too much. Best wishes!

Married? Not married? Forget it if you're not married.

Some children will hate her mother, in fact, this is a typical rebellious psychology of Sui Xiaoxiang, because in our daily life they always think that their parents are too careful, always feel that they are depressed everywhere, and other people of the same age, they seem to be very depressed, so they have a rebellious mentality, and then secretly hate their parents in their hearts.

Now there are a lot of such situations, boys, because young people when they are young, there are a lot of things they want to do, but they feel that their parents are unrealistic, and then they don't support him everywhere, which makes him feel disgusting, and then he has a rebellious mentality, thinking that there is nothing against his parents, and if his parents say it is a bit serious, guess that he will hate his parents in his heart.

Extended information: There are some parents who have a more traditional concept and always think that the stick will be filial to the son, but in this day and age, this method is unreliable because your child is in a different environment, and almost everyone used to think that the stick would be filial to the son, and the children were beaten. But now many parents' concepts have changed, they are different, and there will be contrasts between children.

There is no contrast, no harm, making the child's psychological imbalance easy to make mistakes. In a word, the words and deeds of parents have a very big impact on children, and it is not easy to successfully lead a normal child to grow up, not only to give him ideological education, but also to educate his behavior, and now you need to respect the child's own ideas to you at the same time, but also to help support his mistakes, rather than blindly denying his own ideas, so it is easy to give them an ideological misunderstanding cautious.

If you hate each other's parents after a breakup, you have a grudge against their parents, and you can't fulfill your feelings!

Whether life is troubled or happy, comfortable or entangled, it all comes from one's own state of mind, and there is no need to be entangled and sad. As long as you find the right direction, you will not be lost in life.

Everything in life is not counted, but good; It is not begging, but cultivating. The breadth and narrowness of the mind and the pattern that determines destiny, you can have as much as you can tolerate. Everything can be seen openly, think through the old cherry, can afford it, can put it down, learn to forbear the temperament, and will adapt to the fate.

<> "Do these two things well after a breakup, and the other party will regret not being able to let go, not necessarily love:

In fact, after separation, the essence of your inability to let go of Tonghui is not necessarily because you love each other more, but because you can't do without a certain value he gives you. To put it simply, all the likes in this ascending world are justified. Whether it's sexual attraction, work ability, personality, etc., it must be a point in the other person that is very strong to attract you.

And at the same time, you get some benefits from this attraction point, such as being able to satisfy your vanity, emotional value, etc., and the other party is the same. So for the more addictive party in the relationship, it is not necessarily the one who loves more, but the one who has a stronger sense of need.

Reflect on your core needs:

1.Reflect on your core needs in the relationship:

What you can't leave for a while is not necessarily this person, but the value that he provides you with and that you urgently need at the moment. At this time, instead of contacting and pestering him, I suggest that you first reflect on what your core needs in this relationship are?

Is it loved? Or is it emotional value? Or is his family background able to satisfy your vanity?

And can these needs really only be brought to you by the other party? Or is it that other people or other relationships can satisfy you as well? You must know that no one in this world is special, and what you like is not a person but a type of person.

Be aware of your core values of arguing and rising:

2.Perceive your own worth:

Think about what value you've brought to him? Some people say that feelings are always fluid, and you also have the opportunity to turn the tables against the wind after separation. Those who have been attracted by your value, after a distance, as long as you still have this value, and he still needs it, then he will definitely come back again.

So when you're separated, you feel the pain.

But instead of being disappointed and sad, and desperately wanting an answer that will not be responded to for a while, it is better to calm down and think about what values you are needed? Then continue to polish these qualities and recognize these values from the bottom of your heart.

I think that after the breakup, under normal circumstances, the parents already knew, and it can't be said that the parents broke up without knowing it, and generally the contradictions before the breakup have been very intensified, not to say that a thing is a high-level breakup, so the parents have heard about it, and they already know it.

1. Parents will know sooner or later, and when parents know instead of knowing from you for the first time, what kind of situations and phenomena do you imagine will appear.

2. Parents are the people who know your character best, from childhood to adulthood, your parents are the people who have been with you the longest, and they can see at a glance what you are thinking. So when you communicate with your parents, you can get more comfort from them.

3. Parents will communicate with you verbally, help you relieve the sadness in your heart, analyze the reasons for your breakup, analyze the inappropriateness between you, and avoid the same mistake last time when you are dating.

So as to sum up the experience, instead of being sad for someone who does not belong to you.

4. Sometimes, there is still a certain generation gap between you and your parents, and they don't know your current life, so when you communicate with your parents, try to be easy to understand.

5. If you don't want to disappoint your parents too much, you can re-associate with someone who is suitable, and as a parent, I just hope that you will start a family as soon as possible, and I hope you can find a reliable person who suits you, and it doesn't have to be with anyone.

If you don't know something, you can tell your parents directly, and there is no need to hide anything, because sooner or later they will know.

Hello, if you have reached the age where you should get married, and you break up with each other, your parents will definitely be a little worried, because what they expect is that your relationship can develop well, so that you can get married early.

In fact, for us, most of the breakups of some people are due to emotional reasons, so it is precisely because they can't control their emotions wellTherefore, when the conflict arises, the breakup is regarded as the best way to solve the conflict, so the regret will only occur after the breakup, this is because it is not mature enough to be naïve, in general, why did you break up in the first place because of the following reasons. <>

1. Many people regret their breakup after breaking up, mainly because the breakup at that time was due to emotional manipulation. In fact, for us, the reason why many people passively choose to break up is also because of the lack of more communication, when the conflict arises, they can't control their emotions, so it will lead to being angry, thinking that breaking up is the best way and the only effective way to solve the conflict, because of this, so they will choose to break up. <>

2. The reason why some people regret after breaking up is also because after the breakup, they understand that the person they really like is the other party. In fact, for us, the reason why some people regret it after breaking up is not because they regret breaking up at the beginning, but because some of their experiences after the breakup make them understand that they are the favorite people, who they are, and it is precisely because of this that they miss each other more after thinking about each other, miss each other, so they regret it. <>

3. The reason why we regret breaking up is also because we are immature and too naïve, and we need to constantly experience it in terms of relationships. In fact, for us, breaking up in the adult world is accustomed to it, and naturally there will be no regrets, in fact, for us, most of the feelings need to be maintained, if we choose to break up for various reasons, then regret is certain, but in the adult world is more realistic, so naturally I will not say regret, and it is more conducive to the pursuit of love when we are relatively young, so for us, youth love gives us the right to grow better.

On the other hand, it is also because they are too self-conscious and too young, so they can't control their emotions well, and think that breaking up is the best effective way to solve it, which is also the price we need to pay for growth.

At the beginning, there was a problem in the relationship between the two people, and they didn't think calmly, but after they separated, they found that the other party was good, so they regretted the separation.

The original breakup was because of the conflict between the two people, but because they were more emotional at the time, they did not deal with the conflict, so the two people broke up, and when they calmed down, they knew that they regretted it.

Most of the reasons why these people broke up at the beginning were because of emotional conflicts, so they chose to break up.

Breaking up due to a real problem can be painful for both parties, so what should be done?

It would be best if we love each other very much, and the real problems can be solved through each other's efforts.

It is often said that falling out of love can make a person mature, and I hope that after I mature, I can become wiser and find my other half as soon as possible.

Just bear the pain silently. This kind of helpless breakup will be more painful. There is no good way, and after a long time, it will get better.

If you really can't be together, the long pain will not go to the short pain, and forget it slowly!

It is said that "the ideal is beautiful, but the reality is cruel". When faced with a cruel reality, it is best for you to face it with her and solve it together. If you can do this, then your love will definitely be stronger in the future and your life will definitely be happier! ~

But then again, sometimes the cruelty of reality is really hard to "parry". If you encounter this situation and are sure that you can no longer be with your beloved, then I advise you to make a decision right away! After all, time is precious, youth is short, don't mislead others and yourself!

Wouldn't you be happy if you didn't break up?

The only measure of whether a relationship is going to end or not: whether you are more painful than happy or happy in the relationship!

So, what you really want is also very important.

Time will dilute everything, it is recommended that you set yourself a goal to achieve in your career, what is it? How much money can I save? Or what hobbies do you want to cultivate, and how much value does it bring to you? You have to remember that there is something better waiting for you.