Is it normal to find out that I am not interested in people?

Hello friends, satisfied! Strictly speaking, it is normal for every girl to have a paternal complex, and every boy to have a paternal complex. But your situation is different, and I'm here to help you.

1. You are in adolescence, and it is normal to have longing for the opposite sex psychologically and physically, and your godmother is probably the opposite sex who you have the most contact with in your life and are not family members, so you put this longing emotion on her. This is the basic reason why you are in this state. 2. In fact, this is a process, five episodes in your growth process.

During this period, boys' feelings towards the opposite sex are very superficial, immature, and tend to one feeling. As you said, wanting to kiss and hug is a typical manifestation of wanting to be close to the opposite sex, and because the godmother is the opposite sex that you often contact and like, she may be younger and more beautiful, but this is not the real emotion you need. 3. When you pass this adolescence and gradually mature, you will establish a mature concept of the opposite sex, what kind of girl you like, how to treat her, and the ideas you will form will not be as hazy as now.

At that time, you will also understand that this is a short process, and you will meet the girl you really like and have real feelings with her. 4. Your current thoughts are a very hazy feeling of feelings, and there is no rationality. My opinion is that it is okay to downplay this emotion and put your energy into something meaningful, studying, or working, and you can read books on this.

If you want to kiss her and hug her again, you must suppress it rationally, handle the relationship between you and your godmother reasonably, and reduce contact if necessary. 5. This is a very normal phenomenon, don't feel guilty because of this, don't let this matter affect your normal life and emotions. Finally, I wish the 17-year-old boy, adjust his state, smoothly pass the transition period from youth to adulthood, and wish you to harvest your own true love in the near future!

Bless you. ：)

Normal, so am I... It's good to meet someone you love.

There's always someone who will interest you in him or her.

It's normal that people always have times when they are tired It is impossible to stretch a tendon to the end First let yourself relax and go out for some fresh air Climbing a mountain is a very good choice On the mountain, you will see a different scenery There are many times when we are tired and lose our spiritual support There is no goal or the original goal makes us unable to find a reason or no pillar to support us to go on Sometimes the goal is too ambitious It is not what we can achieve now These will cause psychological exhaustion There is no interest in doing anything and no strength I can't even see the direction clearly, I'm very confused, it's very important to adjust my mentality, don't ask why, in fact, let the pro have no interest in the root of things, the root of the kiss, the heart knows best, and the most fundamental thing is solved, it's another clear sky, come on!

Why do you feel the same way as me? I'm also losing interest in anything now, I have no pursuit of life, and I feel that life is very tiring, so why not end it early? In fact, there are many people who think this way, but some people still live, for what?

Isn't there a saying for a lot of reasons? "It's better to die than to live." I used to persuade myself.

I don't know what caused you to have this idea? I was the one I loved the most left me forever, and for more than a year, I did not come out of the grief of losing him. From the beginning of his departure, I didn't believe it, I didn't see him one last time.

I don't believe in his departure, I just think he went out and hasn't come back yet. I knew I was lying to myself, I wanted to accompany him at that time, but no, what about the child? She's still young, who's going to care about her?

She has lost her father, will she lose her mother? I survived, but I was distressed, you don't know, I really felt very painful at that time, my heart really hurt and hurt. Why is Heaven so unfair?

Get him out of here. I love him so much that I'd rather trade my life for him. But everything is in vain.

After half a year, I didn't do anything, I still missed him, and I burst into tears when I thought of him. I'm distressed, really distressed. You can't realize it.

I feel that life has no meaning, the person I love the most is gone, and you are left alone, what is the point? With the person you should have lived your life with, what's the point of you being alone? I'm not interested in anything, I don't want to do anything?

I don't even feel like I'm myself anymore.

A year later, I still don't know where my emotional outlet is? I'm tired of living, I'm miserable, I'm living meaningless. Why should I live?

For the sake of the children, for the sake of the parents? I'm so tired. Why should I live for them?

Why can't I choose my own path? I can't.

A person does not live for himself alone. Your parents gave you life and raised you, and before you have time to repay them, you don't live because your life is not just your own, and you have no right to take it. No matter how hard and tiring it is to live, you still have to live.

I'm taking a self-exam now in order to fill myself up, forgetting the past, isn't studying to change my fate? I want to learn, to change myself and be myself again. I know it's hard but I'm going to try, maybe in the near future, I'll find another person I love and someone who loves me.

In fact, it is also very good to be alone, without the shackles of marriage, you can realize your dreams that have not been realized before.

Change yourself, others can't persuade you, only you can persuade yourself. Didn't you say? It is easy to defeat others, but it is difficult to overcome yourself.

Only if you convince yourself can you start anew. There are many people who are more tired than you are alive, aren't they also alive? There is hope when you are alive, and there is nothing when you die.

I've had this situation for a long time, but I haven't been able to find a solution, and some things seem to need to be on their own, what they really want, and it should be better for their dreams, but I don't seem to have dreams, and this may be the problem, if a person doesn't have a dream, he will definitely lose his direction slowly This is my current situation

It may be a precursor to depression. There are also symptoms such as malaise, depression for no reason, irritability or irritability, headaches, and not wanting to do anything. Phased or long-term, including acquired and congenital.

It is recommended to see a psychiatrist, meditate, don't just think of a bad mood, this is related to your own personality, childhood, family, and work environment, I have tried to be depressed for three months in a row in the second year of high school, and now it has started again, you can also consult a psychologist online. ps: First go along with your depression, sleep for two days, and eat on time.

Is there something you're holding back on your mind? If yes, you can talk to a friend, I was also very depressed for a while, I was not interested in anything, my friend saw that I was wrong, and talked to me for a long time, there are some things, I want to open it, and the most important thing is to find the root of the problem, everything has a reason, there is a root, there is a way, to solve it.

There will be such a situation, commonly known as entering the emotional cycle, and it will be boring about anything, and it will get better if you adjust it in time.