Is it going through something and seeing some people clearly?

Life, like people drinking water, knows their own warmth and coldness. Whether it's love or friendship, you can only know what it's like to experience it.

My past self was good to everyone, I was used to being kind and didn't know how to refuse. Thinking that being needed is love, and thinking that being relied on is friendship.

But later I found that many people around me can only enjoy happiness together, but not weal and woe. When you are lonely, there are always people who pretend not to see, and when you are in difficulty, there are always people who say cool things.

People always have to go through some things before they can really see some people clearly. People who are good to you are willing to take you home when you take a detour, and people who care about you will light lights for you no matter how late at night. Looking at a person, you can't just look at the surface, the sincerity in your heart is better than countless good words on your lips.

Slowly understand that the person you love is not necessarily the person who loves you, so you don't want to wronged yourself anymore, and you don't want to lose yourself anymore; Slowly understand that the world is difficult and what cannot be done, don't embarrass yourself, and don't care too much about people who have nothing to do with you.

Yes, after going through some things, you feel like you are a different person, and at the same time, you also see some people clearly, they didn't help you when they needed help, and you also recognized the reality at that time.

Yes, sometimes you feel that you trust someone you care about, and as a result, he stays away from you whenever something happens.

Only if you have experienced it yourself will you understand the true intentions and essence of some people, and you don't see much when you are young, so experience is very important.

This is the kind of truth that we can see some people clearly by some things we experience, which is also some of the very realistic things we encounter in interpersonal interactions. The practice is also a very realistic result cognition. People must learn to be strong and learn how to distinguish between good and bad.

Only when you experience more and see more will you understand.

Right, how can you see a rainbow without experiencing wind and rain! To do a good job, it must be performed, so to see how a person is, first see whether he can do things.

In the face of many facts, it is possible to see a person's ability to behave and do things, and to see people's hearts for a long time.

As the saying goes: if you don't go through one thing, you won't grow wise. Only those who have experienced things will grow wisdom and see the true face of some people. In this way, we can make correct judgments and not get lost or get lost.

Only by going through some things can you see some people clearly; Those who never leave are true friends.

Experience some things, see some people clearly, and understand which people are worthy of deep friendship, and which people are destined to become strangers.

Also, see clearly that some people should be looking at it today.

In life, there will always be things that make us understand some things and see some people clearly, and I believe that these sentences that penetrate people's hearts will make you more profound.

1. Don't make deep friends with people, don't talk to people, you have to know that the excitement at the beginning may become a person's boredom in the end.

2. Give yourself a little time, let the past pass, let the beginning begin, learn to love yourself, learn to accept all your emotions, you have to believe that living the life in front of you and doing the things in front of you is more important than thinking about it.

3. If a person wants to be mediocre, it is difficult to stand out, so you are the one who decides what your life is really like.

4. Saying sorry is a kind of sincerity, saying that it's okay is a kind of tolerance, but sometimes a word of sorry may not be exchanged for the respect of others, if you are still obsessed with this, then you will only lose your tenderness.

5. Don't say cruel things to people, and don't do things impulsively, because cruel words may eventually become wrong words, and impulsiveness may eventually become bargaining chips for exchange.

6. You have to believe that you will meet a lot of people in your life, some people may just glance at it, some people may go from strange to familiar, and some people may meet and leave, and these processes need you to continue to accept.

7. Sometimes it's not terrible to fall out of love, it's terrible that you can't extricate yourself from addiction and pain.

8. Maybe I will continue to like you, but this liking is like a kind of wind, and after the wind blows, it will be far away.

9. Don't think too well of others, and don't think too badly of yourself.

10. If you don't have this relationship, maybe it will be easier to solve the problem.

11. Anyone is selfish, so what's wrong with you loving yourself?

12. Anything is possible, but you must know that some feelings are impossible.

13. I think I am neither pessimistic nor optimistic, and I can live freely without these emotions.

1. Knowing people without judging them is the goodness of smart people. When you see some people and things clearly, and don't expose them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; If you hate someone and don't turn your face, you will learn tolerance and respect.

2. I can see some people clearly, but I can't debunk them at will; Also echoed the voice. I hate some people, but I can't turn my face easily, and I smile accordingly. Sometimes, life is about forcing yourself to be submissive and unfazed

3. In life, it is difficult to think about it, it is difficult to see it, and it is even more difficult to give up. Many things are not, you can let go if you want to let go, and you can give up if you want to give up. Some things are seen openly, but they can't always let go; Some love, understand, but always can't give up; Some people, seeing it clearly, always can't bear to give up.

Life doesn't change because you complain; Life will not change because of your melancholy. Whether you complain or not, life is the same; Whether you are worried or not, life remains the same. complains a lot, but it is I who is worried; I feel a lot of melancholy, but it's still myself who suffers.

You cry, life doesn't shed tears; You are bitter, life will not be troubled.

4. In life, it is difficult to think about it, it is difficult to see it, and it is even more difficult to give up. Many things are not, you can let go if you want to let go, and you can give up if you want to give up. Some things are seen openly, but they can't always let go; Some love, understand, but always can't give up; Some people, seeing it clearly, always can't bear to give up.

5, the farthest distance in the world, not love, not hate, but familiar people gradually become strange, although the best time is always very short, but there have been touched, we will all remember, there are always some things, let you inadvertently see some people.

6. A life is not long, in a long or short life, we will meet a lot of people, in the filter of time, we also see some people and things. Not all acquaintances call friends, and not all friends care about you. It's true, we can't make everyone like us, but we will always meet the person who will never leave us.

7. There are always some behaviors that make you suddenly upset; There is always some tone that makes your heart ache suddenly; There is always some dialogue that makes your heart ache all of a sudden; There are always attitudes that make you suddenly sad; There are always moments when you suddenly die; There are always some things that make you see some people clearly and see through some hearts inadvertently.

8. Learn to laugh at it, treat it detachedly, know how to forbear, know how to forgive, and let yourself grow stronger in tolerance. Learn to laugh at life and let life illuminate your life. Where there's a will there's a way.

Sometimes, although it is hard work, fate can be completely changed. There are always some things that make you see some people clearly without you noticing.

People can only see a person clearly when they experience things, or if they don't encounter things, they will definitely not be able to see the true face of a person!

Innocence is really innocent, and now that we have grown up, we really want to go back to when we were children. At that time, there was a piece of candy, and I could be happy for a long time, and I was reluctant to eat it in my pocket for a long time.

When I was a child, I liked to play with my friends, classmates, and neighbors, and I was reluctant to go home when I was happy. At that time, there was no suspicion, no comparison, no jealousy.

As we get older, we don't have more friends around us, but fewer and fewer.

Are we not dating enough people? Not really.

1: We are growing up, our experiences are increasing, and we have the ability to recognize others, whether we are close friends or bad friends.

A colleague at work is a little older because of his limited academic qualifications, so he will be slower to learn knowledge than young people. Some of his colleagues told him privately, you better stop learning this and do something else.

He thought about giving up, but he really wanted to learn, and he was distressed. Should I give up?

As a colleague or friend, other people's hobbies and preferences should be encouraged to learn, and at the same time, friends who are kind will help you study, rather than dissuade you from learning.

Some people don't see their own hope, and they don't want to see the hope of others.

Slowly, you will understand that congratulating your good friend is not to pull you into the water, but to lift you up.

2: After experiencing friendship and interests, you will recognize who is worthy of continuing to be friends.

In the era of micro-business, it has only increased, although it is a self-reborn industry, but it has become a phenomenon, that is, "killing ripeness".

The transaction of micro-business has basically become a transaction of acquaintances, and the price is clearly marked with friendship. It is also said that what you are given is the cost price, and it is not profitable.

When I think of you when I sell something, I don't usually have to contact you. It has become a kind of friend based on interests.

Friends who can exchange with sincerity will not be kidnapped in the name of friends, let alone take socks to exchange benefits.

3: After experiencing difficulties, you will recognize who is a friend who can support each other and be with you for a long time.

I once needed money urgently, like my friend borrowed money for turnover, called her **, she didn't say a word, swiped the credit card to lend it to me.

We became friends after we met at work together, because we were similar in all aspects of personality, she left her job a year later and returned to her hometown, and two years later I borrowed money from her, and she was still so happy.

The reality is that there are many friends, but only one or two can really lend a helping hand in times of need.

Thank you for those things that make us see the people around us.

Don't waste time feelings, on people who don't matter.

If you have time, spend time with people who are worth getting along with.

The adult world is not easy, no matter how painful it is, we have to get through it.

For the rest of your life, get along well with your real friends and cut off your fake friends as soon as possible. To cherish the friends that are worth cherishing.