When you realize that you may not be able to have children, do you dare to fall in love with someone

Updated on parenting 2024-05-07
49 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Fertility should not be suspected because of irregular menstruation, and it is best to have a detailed examination done in the hospital. If there really is a problem, it can be prompted**.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Falling in love has nothing to do with getting married.

    In addition, there is a physical examination called a marriage examination before marriage.

    If you really can't do it, you can find a gay guy to cover for him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I will. I am a man, and if the relationship reaches a certain point and both parties agree to adopt a child, then it is acceptable to have no biological child.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It has something to do with the person you're talking to.

    If he is a person who can think openly, and can not mind whether he will have his own children in the future, adopt a child, or not have children, he can talk to him; On the contrary, if he is not such a person, forget it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Late development, right? Take a look at the hospital. How are you in your mood?

    Medicate. Indeed, the rest of the normal should start a family. When talking about the other person's crush on you, make it clear to the other person.

    Yes, you can touch it. If you don't want to have children after you get married? I don't think it's the same without personal experience.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I don't dare to be sure yet, I have to check for myself to see if I really can't give birth to it! How can you doubt this kind of thing, and you are not young.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It's best to go to the hospital for a check-up first to see what the problem is If there is really a disease, treat the disease first Besides, isn't there also an IVF Don't say infertility so absolutely I wish your friend good health.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Feeling tired of being in love, it is around you that there are bad examples affecting you. Besides, a marriage without love can't last long.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Because you just want to live a simple family life, love is just a shortcut to marriage.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Ecologically, it is for reproduction; Emotionally, it is for me to continue my love; According to the tradition of the Chinese, it is for the sake of inheritance, how happy it is to fall in love, it is very happy to get married, and it will be very tired and happy to have children!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    This is a life that everyone must go through.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you don't fall in love, get married, or have children, those who have the conditions shouldn't have much impact! First of all, having children is to train the next generation for the country, make life more enjoyable, and inherit the family business. If you have nothing, you may think that having children is a burden or something, and raising children is actually quite troublesome, but it is better to have children normally, so it is better to live a more ordinary life?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Now some people think that it is really annoying to take care of children, such as taking a wife in the future, asking for money for studying, and worrying about everything, and then he will take the initiative to buy some social insurance. Later, when you reach a certain age, you go to a nursing home. Then you don't have to worry about it in your next life.

    But people often say that there are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is greater. I think it's better to have a whole home.

    Think clearly, brother, we're just giving you advice.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Most people still want to have children. In general, most people will think that the 3 no's people are very sad, very pitiful, and very maverick, but he missed the wonderful part of his life, maybe he has a successful career and turns the clouds and rain? But what is left after the half-whiteness, the so-called life is not life, it is loneliness.

    If you don't have children, you have to find a companion. 3 is not recommended, few people do not regret it.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I have no experience, but I thought about it and told you about it, I hope it will help you.

    Although getting married and having children at an age is a general trend in this society, if you go the opposite way, I believe you are under a lot of pressure, your parents' incomprehension, and your friends' comparisons may cause you pressure.

    But now there are still a lot of people who are avant-garde and independent, self-conscious, and pursue a different life, and it cannot be said that their behavior is wrong, but in China, a country with deep-rooted traditional culture, it is difficult to get the understanding of the public, but you can not care.

    But I think that as an adult, you have to be responsible, because you are not a separate individual, you have a family, you have parents, and the sum of all your social relationships, and you can't go your own way.

    Your parents will leave you one day, and your friends can't accompany you every day, so if you don't have a family that you have formed yourself, it will be miserable when you get old, after all, our country's social security system is not very good. Why.

    You have to make your own decisions, and I hope you are happy.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's naïve for you to think like that. Although she is very open now, she is still monogamous, and if you can't give her happiness, don't hurt her. Another point is that the face will grow old slowly. I think you're still good with the not-so-beautiful one, just be happy.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Do you still want a face, then can you have half a face and not half a face, the two girls like you, so they will praise you for being self-righteous and self-aware? Show what! Give birth to a child, can you raise it, rely on your face to eat soft rice for the brain-disabled people of the post-90s!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To love one wholeheartedly, don't eat in the bowl and look at the pot, it is legal and reasonable to only find a wife (husband), you think the problem is too simple.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You are a post-90s generation and not yet 20 years old, no wonder you are very naïve and naïve.

    What do you think, if those two girls knew what you thought, I don't think you would get any of them, even if you could, would they agree, one child.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Boring what 2 is with what, I'm about the same age as you, why are you so naïve- -

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't scold everyone civilly.

    You are not a Semitic with good fruit.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Hehe, there is no absolute perfection in the world, it is still quite tiring to step on two boats, even if both of them have no opinion, it depends on whether your energy can be achieved, after all, you have to invest 2 times the emotional time between 2 people; Everyone knows that My Fair Lady is a gentleman, but you only care about her beauty and passing it on to your children, and don't forget that her personality and IQ also have an impact on children; You said that although the girl you talked to is not beautiful, but you have a common language, there is such a spiritual communication of the baby is a high-quality baby, if you live a harmonious and happy life, the baby born may be inherited from the advantage (that is, you inherit your comparative advantage side: such as handsome and beautiful like you), so, the key is to see how you choose, there is real love to live a happy life, what do you think?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    It may be that she has been influenced by a discordant family background since she was a child, and she has developed an invisible psychological phobia. Falling in love, getting married, and having children is an important part of a good life in life——。 Hehe, life is beautiful, cherish the natural laws of life!

    Just use your sincerity and patience to take care of her, and you may open her heart with your sincerity and true love.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    1I've never been in love, but I've seen too much of the division and combination of love, and I feel that it's all about it, and I'm not interested. 2. I am used to being alone and feel very comfortable. 3. The inner desire to protect oneself is too strong, and I am afraid that these things will hurt oneself.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because you're fit to be a nun (just kidding)!You don't have the right outlook on life, maybe you are very young or have been hit, you haven't come out of this shadow, you are very naïve thinking, when you grow up, you will understand, billions of women around the world are getting married, having children, and you don't want to, do you have a problem in your heart, think about it.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    It can't be like this. Being a man has some basic obligations and responsibilities to be a man, even if you don't like it very much, you can't refuse.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Quite simply, because she didn't taste the honey of love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    I think you need to confess this with your girlfriend, if she loves you, she won't care about this.

    And how can it be fun? Even if this girl doesn't accept you, it doesn't mean that everyone will accept you, besides, you are not the only one in the world who can't have children, so do you think they are all fun?

    Not all of them are alive and well!!

    Don't look at the world so gray, can't have children, doesn't mean everything!!

    You can go and adopt one and give him all your love! You know, they are also very pitiful, you can't give birth, you don't have a choice, and they have no one to raise after they are born, and they don't have a choice!!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Silly boy. You can find a girl who is willing to spend time with you. It would be nice to adopt a child. Don't be too pessimistic.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    There are many couples who don't want children! You're just azoospermic, as long as you have sexual function, what's wrong with the woman accepting it?!

    I used to read the report, a man in Guangzhou cut his younger brother, and there was a mobile phone**, my brother blew up, did they all die?

    How many people are disabled in the world? Can't see, can't hear, can't speak, can't walk, can't take!

    Brother, life is more than that, be brave and face it!

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Actually, it's nothing, you can talk to your girlfriend about it, maybe your girlfriend doesn't like children, isn't it just right? As long as you can live a normal married life, many couples are Dink families nowadays.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Frankly, she explained your situation, if you love you, you choose to stay, then you don't have to think about anything, if you don't love you, she will find a chance to leave, then you don't have to be sad, when you meet the woman who is willing to live with you, you will find that your current troubles are not troubles.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It's okay to explain your situation to your girlfriend. If you can't have children, you can adopt. I just want to adopt one.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    If your girlfriend is willing, if she loves you dearly, don't leave her.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    You don't have to have children, many girls can have children or not, aren't the Dink family all of them?

    There is no need to be pessimistic.

    She likes what you like, no matter what others say!

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Modern people are very open, there are so many Dinks, it's not a problem, as long as you love each other.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's nothing, find someone you can introduce.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    What era is it, it's really brainless, I want a child to prepare to raise you old, I want me to say, having a child can bring you some happiness, but if you don't have a child, you can find something else to be happy and happy, if you want to open a brother, if you are a man, you will fight for money,

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Tell you, don't listen to the following nonsense: first, you should tell him, because this is something that you will know sooner or later, and second, you can have a baby, don't listen to the following nonsense, but you have to follow the doctor's advice, hepatitis B immune protein is given 24 hours after the child is born, and the virus is blocked. And your boyfriend, if you ask him to get the hepatitis B vaccine, he won't be infected You are just a carrier and not a patient Don't stay up late Eat light Don't drink or smoke Don't eat those fried potato chips and other junk foods Pay attention to a certain amount of exercise Increase your body's immunity Go to the hospital for regular check-ups and you'll be fine If you take good care of yourself The carrier will turn negative and heal itself as you age, and your body's immunity will increase Of course, the premise is that you have perseverance. Don't tell you that my boyfriend is a carrier of hepatitis B, although maybe this road will be harder than others in the future, but maybe you will get a good love.

    Don't listen to those people's nonsense, don't talk nonsense if you don't understand, if you don't have research, you will hurt others.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    My wife is also a carrier of hepatitis B virus, and we came together because of love, and almost everyone I knew all over the world was against it at that time, and everyone betrayed and left! We are very persistent, we have been together for 12 years. Our child is now five years old, healthy, and not a carrier of the virus.

    I myself only get vaccinated against hepatitis B on time, and I am also very healthy, and my meals are also a plate. Maybe it's not as serious as you think. Getting married and having children is not a problem, if you want to get married and have children, you must not have safety measures, hehe, remember to let your boyfriend get vaccinated against hepatitis B on time.

    If you are pregnant, you have to go to the hospital for an isolation injection, hehe, so be it, I wish you happiness! Be sure to be in a good mood!

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You should tell him that if he truly loves you, he will definitely help you through this period.

    Of course, it's okay to fall in love and get married.

    Wish: You are happy.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    It's okay to fall in love and get married, but it's better not to have children. It's not fair to the child.

    It should be said that it may be more sad not to talk about it in the end. Maybe they said they would break up, but this is also an opportunity to test your boyfriend.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Don't worry at all, I've been married for 10 years, what should I do, I haven't passed on my lover, and my children are fine.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    This disease will be inherited, so in order for the next generation not to be discriminated against, let's divide it

    In China, it is estimated that the days when hepatitis B carriers are not discriminated against are still far away, whether it is work or life, and the long pain is better than the short pain

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    For him must say that it is acceptable. Others don't get married and have children.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    If you talk to him. He may just bow down to you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    I don't think you need to have children when you fall in love or get married, that's to make life stable, and it's a kind of follow-up.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    So far, I haven't heard of anyone in love and want to have children. It's about having children after getting married, because the adults in the family let them want what they want, and they don't want it, and they also have it.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You don't have children until you're married, who said you have to have children when you're in love, that's called an illegitimate child!

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