At what point did you realize that your parents were old?

I always think that the time is very long, and I always feel that my parents can accompany you for a lifetime, but in fact, time flies quickly, and it is not as long as you imagined! In fact, sometimes the most fearful thing about children is that their parents are getting old, because we will feel uneasy, only your parents do not dislike you in this world, and it is your parents who will forgive you no matter what you do wrong. If one day your parents are gone, you will face this society alone, and there will be no place where you can go back and make your parents hurt when you can't stand it.

When I was a child, I was very rebellious, I always didn't want to hear anything about what my parents said, I didn't feel anything at that time, but sometimes I felt that my parents were too much, and didn't let me go to do what I liked, I felt very unhappy, and even broke my parents' hearts, and gradually grew up, I learned some gratitude, but sometimes I still quarrel with my parents.

Until I grew up, I was about to enter the society, I came home from vacation, and found that my father, who had been a soldier before, had bent his straight waist, and my mother's wrinkles had obviously increased a lot, and I thought about it a lot at that moment, I thought about all the things I had done to my parents over the years, my parents were getting old, and I had not fulfilled any filial piety, I even regretted what I had done to my parents, how I wished that time could pass slowly, and I wanted to be better to my parents.

At that moment, I felt uncomfortable in my heart, I felt the aging of my parents, they used to look very young, now, I feel that their days away from me are gradually shortening, I feel a little afraid, I am afraid that my parents will grow old, I am afraid that my parents will leave me one day, I am afraid of facing this society, at that moment, I feel the love given by my parents, after that moment, I decided to cherish the days with my parents in the future, I want to be good to my parents!

I also forget when it was, it seems to be a sophomore, I didn't come home for a long time from school, and then I went back during the summer vacation or winter vacation and saw my dad's hair a lot grayer, and I felt that my dad was old. Women are generally more beautiful, so my mom often dyes her hair, so I can't see it much on the outside, but when I came home from the summer vacation, my mom was talking about buying a dough machine, and my wrist was weak enough to knead the dough, so I felt that my mom was old.

In fact, everyone is gradually aging when they grow up, but we have not experienced their youth, and they are close to middle age when they meet them after they get married and are sensible. As we grow up, they slowly age.

When people are aging, they will become the heart of children, the more they live, the more they go back, they also need comfort, their problems in life are not like us can confide in them, no matter how old we are, they feel that we are still children, many things do not let us worry about, even if we are sick and hospitalized, sometimes they will hide from us. But that's not why we're there for them.

When children grow up, they will be busy with all kinds of things, socializing, working, finding a partner, getting married and having children. Many people spend too much time socializing with friends and colleagues and spending little time with them. When they are like children, people are not willing to give them a little more patience.

In the face of their vexatious troubles, people will feel that they are too old, and they are still angry, ignorant, and have a lot of patience with their children, but they are impatient with aging parents, which seems to be a common problem of modern people.

The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait" Don't feel that the coming day is long, when you have time, go and accompany them more.

The moment I realized that my mother was old, it was when my mother said that she hadn't gone shopping for a long time, so I said that I would accompany you to go shopping.

Walking down the street, at first I didn't realize that I was walking too fast for my mother. I just walked in front of me alone, looking at the things I liked, and I thought that my mother was just like me to see what I liked, so I didn't keep up, so I didn't care. After walking for a while, when I turned back to look for my mother, I found that there was a crowd behind me, and my mother was in a hurry.

I quickly took out the mobile phone in my bag and called** to her, ** couldn't get through. I had to go back to her.

Against the crowded ** I saw my mother standing at an intersection looking around, I waved to her, she didn't see it, I could only walk to her side, and she saw me. As soon as he saw me, he panicked and said, you are walking too fast, and there are so many people, I can't keep up with you. I've been looking for you, and I don't dare to walk around when I walk to this intersection.

At that time, I was really sad, when I was a child, my mother held my hand on the street, and never lost me, why did I lose her. I said okay, then I have to slow down, and I silently pulled her to continue walking.

When we went to the mall, sometimes my mother would come out of a store and walk into the store we had been to before. When I reminded her that we had already been there, she smiled embarrassedly and said that she was confused. At that time, it was really sad, the streets and alleys she used to take me through were now unable to distinguish the direction and could not remember the way.

At this moment, I realized that my mother was old and needed me to walk slowly to keep up with me. She needs me to lead her so she doesn't walk into the same store repeatedly.

There are more wrinkles on the hair on my parents' heads and faces, and even walking sometimes doesn't feel as fast as before.

First of all, when you are immersed in work.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy to be a vice president, and I will never forget the picture of my parents burying their relatives and working, and that moment is the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and children.

Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents.

Also, the moment I noticed that Zen Zhihao's parents' faces had wrinkles, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child. Parents congratulate the whole family, and they no longer care about their appearance and aging.

They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves.

In the hearts of each of our children, there may be many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children. Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

Has anyone ever asked you when you noticed that your parents were getting older, and I think that I found out that when your parents got older, it was from these aspects, for example,When we were younger, we waited for our parents to get off work, but now that we're older, it's our parents who wait for us to get off work。It is said that the tree wants to be quiet but the wind does not stop, and the child wants to raise but does not wait. But does anyone really know that their parents are no longer young?

Or when did you notice that the hair on your parents' heads was already a different color?

We often hear a sentence, in my life you grow up with me, in your life I accompany you to grow old, after the parents have children, they will think about how to let us live a good life, they work hard for decades, raise us to adulthood, provide us with education, in times of difficulty, give us meticulous care and care. I don't know if you remember, when you were a child, you were sick, the eager expressions on your parents' faces and the figure of busy for us.

In the past, when we were in trouble, our parents helped us come up with ideas, but now our parents ask us to help us come up with ideas. One sentence that impressed me and will never forget is that one day, I suddenly found that my parents began to look at my face and speak, they seemed to be ten years old all of a sudden, in fact, we all think that we have grown up, and even when we are young, we feel that we have grown up, no one cares about us, we can do our own things, but often when we grow up unconsciously, our parents are already slowly getting old.

Time flies, time flies, from the beginning of babbling to now we have grown up, and our parents have become old, when we inadvertently see the white hair on our parents' heads, they are really old, there are wrinkles on their faces, and even ** has begun to become rough, and even sometimes the memory slowly deteriorates, and the front foot to take something and forget the back foot. This scene means that the parents are slowly aging.

When the parents' health is getting worse day by day, and a lot of gray hair appears on their heads, this time it feels like they are really getting old.

When he was sick and hospitalized, he found that his parents would also be sick and old, and they needed our careful care and care.

When I see my parents communicating with me, I am very cautious, and sometimes when I go home, I feel that my parents' gray hair is getting more and more, and then my physical fitness is slowly deteriorating.

When my parents grew gray hair and wrinkles on their faces, I began to realize that my parents were getting older.

<> the moment I realized that my parents were getting old was when I was in college. When I was 18 years old, I left my hometown to go to school in another place, and I began to live independently away from my family and parents. In the process, I began to notice changes in my parents.

The first is the appearance of the bent mountain that they sell. Before I left my hometown, they were middle-aged in good spirits, but as time went on, their hair turned gray, their wrinkles increased, and these subtle silly changes made me realize that they were getting older.

The second is that they start to pay attention to their health. I found that they often went to the hospital for check-ups and started to focus on diet and exercise. Before, they didn't care much about their health, but now they are becoming aware of the health problems of their bodies.

Another point is that they are moving more and more slowly. They used to work energetically, but now they need more time and energy to accomplish the same tasks. That's when I realized that time flies really fast, and they are no longer young.

These details made me gradually realize that my parents were old. When I realized this, I started to care more about their lives and health, giving them help and support as much as I could. I hope that they can have a happy old age, and I will cherish and appreciate every minute and every second with them.

One day, when I was walking behind my parents, talking and smiling, I suddenly saw his black hair and I don't know when it was covered with gray hair. The feeling of stopping and smiling in an instant is very difficult.

In "Hello Life", Ni Ping asked Nigmaiti: "When did you start to realize that your father and mother were old?" “

Trying to control his emotions, Nigmat said, "It was probably when I was sitting in the car and rushing back while my mother was having surgery." “

We have a lot of wishes, we want to conquer the sea of Xingchen Hongpeiji, we want to see a wider place, we want to see different scenery, and they only want us to be healthy and safe.

We were all naïve enough to think that our parents would always be as healthy as when we left, so we dared to be busy with our work.