Do I really love you, how can I be sure that I love you

True love is not something that can be expressed in words, it comes from the heart, When you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him, and worried about him, I hope I can see him every minute, and I will think about him all the time when I can't see him, When you see it, you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, and you will feel warm and safe when you are together, A person who truly loves someone will willingly take care of him and care for him, and give him everything he wants. Seeing the person you love happy will also be happy, seeing him troubled you will also be troubled, but you will try your best to make the person you love happy and happy, truly loving a person will want to grow old with him and get along with him, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him the greatest happiness, and you will also get another happiness in this process! I often think of TA and I am happy, I mind TA very much, I care about TA very much, I seem to have lost something without TA, and I have happiness with TA! - Hope these texts are somewhat helpful to your question, thanks.

If you want to determine whether you really love this person, it's actually very simple, you just need to meditate and think carefully about her (him) unconscious a small injury, whether it makes you feel heartache, his (her) every move involves your heart, you will always pay attention to him (her) inadvertently, willing to dedicate everything for him, even if you don't want to do things, but also willing to learn for him, if you have these feelings, there is no doubt that you are 100% in love with each other!!

Although the older generation around us, their expression of love is very subtle, and they rarely take the initiative to say the words "I love you" to their lovers, but in fact, these older generations' understanding of love, the pursuit of love is far deeper than ours, their pursuit of love, for their other half of the care, are expressed and reflected in some details.

Take the old couple Uncle Zhang and Aunt Li next door to me, I usually can't see how good the relationship between this old couple is, and even Aunt Li often counts Uncle Zhang in front of our neighbors, and many times, Uncle Zhang faces Aunt Li's number and does not defend himself, more just smile, or bow his head and be silent. For those of us who are outsiders, it seems that Aunt Li doesn't care much about Uncle Zhang, but the real situation is not what we think.

One day when I got home from work, I saw Aunt Zhang sitting downstairs washing some things downstairs hard, I walked over to see that Aunt Zhang was washing some old clothes from the sixties and seventies, I didn't think I would ask Aunt Zhang: "Why do you still keep washing such old clothes?" If you can't wear these clothes, why do you bother with all this effort?

Aunt Zhang glanced at me and muttered, "These clothes are worn by me and the old man when we were young, people are old, and I care about these old clothes very much, especially nostalgic for the days when I was young, the days when the two of us were together, it can be said that these clothes are the best commemoration of the relationship between the two of us", and Aunt Li's made me fall into contemplation, I really felt it, in fact, Aunt Li also loves Uncle Zhang very much, but Aunt Li's love for Uncle Zhang is not expressed through words, Through such details, we can experience.

I often see such a scene in TV series or movies: a simple and ignorant girl sincerely says to a boy who has experienced wind and rain"I don't care about your past, I only care about your present and future.

This sentence sounds very touching. But if you think about it, a whole person is made up of all the things he has experienced in the past, the environment he has been in, and the people he has experienced. Just as to understand a country is to understand the history of that country, so to understand a person is also to understand his past.

In this way, there is a problem with this sentence, you don't know a person and don't understand his past, how can you say that you love him? If you don't really know someone, how do you know who you love? You don't really know him, so why do you say you love her?

If you don't really know him, and you say that you love her, will it be because you love him who you think you are?

In the same way, do you understand your own grief? Do you understand your own happiness? Do you really know yourself?

Do you really love yourself if you don't know yourself? Only true knowledge can have true love, and only true self-knowledge can have true self-love. If you don't understand your own lack of edge, the so-called self-love is simply nothingness and has no direction.

We are always in pursuit of efficiency, and we rarely take the time to calm down, ask ourselves how we feel inside, and understand our inner needs. Take care of your loved ones seriously and understand their true needs.

We spend our whole lives knowing ourselves, accepting ourselves, and getting along with ourselves. Ignoring our inner feelings and blindly pursuing what everyone wants, it is difficult for us to feel happy from the bottom of our hearts. Only by understanding oneself and living in harmony with oneself can we achieve peace of mind, which is the ultimate in happiness.