What to do with people who like to dump their emotional garbage on others?

Friends spend so much time spitting bitterness or saying bad things about you to others, and the real way to change this status quo is to use the time spent spitting bitterness to solve the root cause of these troubles. Over time, when everyone around him gets tired of listening, naturally no one will pay attention to him anymore. To sum up, if you still treat him as a friend, persuade him with good words, let him understand the reason, and help him change the status quo together.

If he still repeats this life after listening to it, then it is better to cherish it and stay away as soon as possible.

In fact, those who like to complain are often dissatisfied with the relationship demands, and they will try to get a sense of balance by complaining, hoping to get the attention of others. Such people are often immature, and once they encounter any setbacks, they are easy to blame the fault on other things or people to relieve their inner anxiety and frustration. Everybody has a time when they want to talk to themselves, to vent their excessive desire to talk.

But that doesn't mean they can take any opportunity to pour out their negative emotions on those they don't want to hear.

Some people have been pestering you, time kidnapping, but you still have important things to do, and you can't do it, and ignore her, knowing that she will definitely be unhappy. If she can keep saying bad things in front of you, then it's likely that she will say you in front of others too. And you can't get rid of the last one you provoke.

Ask for help t tt t. I usually seem to be a person who people trust more, so this kind of person always looks for me. And I'm a person who is easily affected by emotions.

For example, there is an exam coming up, and I was supposed to study yesterday, but as soon as she came, she went from 10 o'clock to 11:30 o'clock.

What exactly should be done with such a person? Refuse to listen to any of his nonsense, or try to argue with him, hoping that he can look at things objectively? My advice is to turn a blind eye, and if you don't have to talk to you, try to find an excuse to leave, and don't give him an occasion where he can confide in you.

If it's like an uncle, he not only likes to pour negative energy, but also has no respect for other people's feelings, and in order to make his status higher, he forces everyone to agree with his point of view.

The meaning of the existence of true friends is indeed to share and share responsibility, but dumping emotional garbage, spitting out bitterness and seeking comfort in the real face of hardship can indeed alleviate oneself, and true friends will be willing to help. But dumping emotional garbage is actually an extremely negative energy behavior, if you turn this into a habit, it may make the life of the people around you not easy, after all, anyone to help you is love, not to listen to your chatter is the duty.

If she refuses to listen to you, it is a unilateral use of you, using you as a spare tire, and the body is just a buddy-like pure friendship, which simply makes people think that you are stupid, so don't play this unfair game. Emotional garbage must be in and out, and emotions can be balanced. You listen to her, and she listens to you, it is friendship, and there is no friendship.

Otherwise, let's go as a spare tire.

I was called a garbage man by my ex-boyfriend today. So I'm thinking about that. Relatives, friends, sometimes when venting dissatisfaction, you just want someone to listen to it, and it doesn't have to be poured out on purpose, because if you don't talk about it in your heart, it will eventually produce ***.

There are two sides to everything, and it just so happens that the person I'm talking to doesn't want to listen to, so I feel like I'm taking out the garbage for him. I was also very congested and helpless. There are joys and sorrows in this world, and there is no such thing as happiness every day.

Acknowledging reality and moving on can only be to redeem yourself.

For people who like to dump garbage, this person has its own problems, and you need to stay away from this kind of person.

Generally, this kind of person has a certain amount of destructiveness, and if you associate with this kind of person, then you will have a bad impact on your life if you don't know when it will be.

But at the same time, you can't offend this kind of person, generally this kind of person can't afford to offend, if you always provoke him, then it will cause unnecessary trouble and make your life confused.

People who like to dump garbage often can't be offended, and they can't stay away completely.