What is it like to have someone block someone?

was blocked by a girl who has liked it for a long time, really, my heart is broken, I was so angry that I even broke the pen for writing homework, every time I thought of her taking the initiative to contact others, but I blocked myself, I was embarrassed, just like the embarrassment of being caught cheating in the examination room, and I didn't even give a chance to confess.

I was blocked by a guy on soul today, and I'm still a little confused, I asked if it was embarrassing to talk at first, and he agreed, and after a while, he said he didn't want to talk anymore, and then I said just talk, and then he said he blocked me, what?Under this software, you don't chat, are you going to heaven? And then you really blocked me, what?

I didn't ask myself what topics I couldn't talk about, and I didn't check your account, and I have a magical premonition, sooner or later, you will regret your behavior today, walk slowly, don't send it. By the way, I've blocked you too.

A netizen who has known her for more than six years, a month ago, was still complaining about the people around her with her, she didn't reply to her message last week, I didn't care, but I didn't care about it yesterday, I didn't have anything to do with it yesterday and looked at her circle of friends and found that I couldn't see it, I thought it was a deleted friend, probably deleted by mistake, just add it back. As a result, I sent a message today and found out that I was blocked, her work account deleted me, and I found out that I was shut down on Weibo, and I still haven't figured out what I did to be like this, maybe she has a problem with her brain. Journey:

I didn't know until a long time before I was blocked, because I didn't care about the person who blocked me, so I didn't feel anything. I've thought about blocking people I hate, but I'm too lazy to look for them on the list.

It doesn't matter if you're blocked by someone who doesn't matter! Blocked by someone you like. It is self-blame, introspection, insomnia, heart-piercing, incomprehension, depression, contradiction, futility, inspiring, unbelievable, unacceptable, unspeakable, and difficult to let go.

Childishness and sensuality make me often nostalgic and fantasizing, like and unwilling to make me angry again and again and want to debate and question, the arrogance and reason in my bones force me to stop messing around, tiredness and pressure make me stagnant and dare not act rashly, contempt and disrespect make me fall into self-doubt and inferiority again, empathy, tolerance and self-awakening let me understand and feel sorry for your decision. In time, the world is from south to north, and there are crowds of people between you and me. Please take care of yourself at all times, always be happy, and always be lucky.

And I only hope that you will know me without regret, forgive me for my willfulness and mistakes, forgive me for being naïve and selfish, for the sake of my sincerity and liking you. This is the experience of being blocked, it is so cruel to me, it makes me grow up and makes me old, it makes me blame myself for insomnia and wants to become impeccable, I can't make a little mistake, I still choose to tolerate and forgive.

Then she cried, and then she blocked me, don't ask me why I knew she was crying, because she was my colleague sitting across from me. Now that I think about it, maybe I really answered that sentence, and only when I blocked you did you know how serious I was about you. I'm sorry to disappoint you.

I want you to know that I'm actually here to protect you, I'm married. I once thought that if I really got with you one day, I would double it back to you, okay?

was once suspected of being blocked by a good friend, and because he sent WeChat, he was reminded that he couldn't send it. Surprised, ridiculous, angry, light-hearted......Have mixed feelings about. It's my longest-time friend, it's my wedding bridesmaid, it's my friend who always feels angry but tolerates thinking it's okay to just mess around.

However, because I accumulated too much dissatisfaction, I didn't digest it every time and had to face a new one, so I was angered by her once, and I said a few words to her seriously in WeChat for the first time, but she didn't reply. We had a cold war like this, and later because I heard that she was in a bad mood, I also sent her WeChat once, but she didn't reply. Later, I was once again afraid that it would be dangerous for her to go to the field alone, so I asked a local friend to go to the station early in the morning to find someone and send her a message.

In exchange for blocking. Nearly a year later, on my birthday, her parents proposed a party, and we met for the first time after the Cold War, a little awkward, but we still took care of each other. She may be a little more embarrassed, and I finally wanted to stop her and talk to her, but I still didn't muster up the courage, maybe I was still a little unwilling.

Later, when she sent a text message, she changed her number, but she was disappointed, and asked for a new number, but she didn't muster up the courage to send it again. During the Chinese New Year, I sent a blessing text message, and accidentally found that I was pulled out of the blacklist. The next day, she lukewarmly wanted to show her affection, but the inappropriate words hurt me, and it just so happened that I couldn't agree.

Miss. I don't know what the future holds, but I know that I'm a little tired. My husband said I was in love.

Maybe I care too much, but in fact, I don't want to be so troublesome, between friends, it's simple, sincere and kind to each other, how good it should be.

There are three kinds of psychology: leaving room for leeway, pure venting of anger, and avoiding entanglement.

1. Leave room for improvement.

The block is not deleted, so that there is room for looping. There will be a sense of loss when you delete it, and blocking will still be under control. If the reconciliation continues, I'll just let you out and pretend nothing happened.

I may be very angry and don't want to talk to you, but even when I'm most angry, there's still a soft spot in my heart that I can't bear to delete directly.

2. Pure venting of anger.

There are also people who have a higher profile and are very resistant to others violating their psychological boundaries. When I meet someone who is unhappy, I see one blocking the other, I have a colleague, and the blacklist is about to catch up with the long address book, this is the kind of psychology. The people who provoke me are blocked, it's not worth my time, I'd rather misjudge than let go.

3. Dodge entanglement.

In addition to the first two situations, there is also a person who meets an entangled person. It's actually okay to delete, but it's unbearable, and the other party keeps sending friend applications and has to block them, and they don't have to receive messages anymore, and the world is clean.

Summary. If you do it on purpose, don't admit it, make excuses to make him believe that you didn't mean it, and apologize to him, be sure to be truthful.

Kiss, hello, block the other party, you can say something like: I'm sorry, I forgot to give you a note, and then when I was clear, I thought I didn't know you, so I blocked you, sorry, I didn't mean to. Or:

Yes? When did I block you? How did I not know!

Didn't I slip my hand and accidentally clicked it, sorry ha, I didn't mean to.

Or you can make up a reason and say, "Huh? I don't know, when it happened, my relative's child came to my house to play with my mobile phone, whether he clicked it randomly, I don't know.

If you do it on purpose, don't admit it, make excuses to make him believe that you didn't mean it, and apologize to him, be sure to be truthful.

My wife blocked me when she got angry.

I think the main thing is the person who blocked you. I don't want to be associated with you. I don't want to have any contact.

There must have been something wrong between the two of you. Probably you are not aware of the severity of the problem. But the other party felt hurt.

If you still want to have contact with the other person. You can try to understand what has gone wrong between you. Thus solving the problem.

I don't want to be associated with you. I don't want to have any contact. There must have been something wrong between the two of you.

Probably you are not aware of the severity of the problem. But the other party felt hurt. If you still want to have contact with the other person.

You can try to understand what has gone wrong between you. Thus solving the problem.

Can you tell us more about that?

You've known each other for years. Or is it just a meeting in the water. If it's not long since I've known each other.

Then you don't have to mind. If you don't get along, you won't get in touch. Feel free to do it!

If you've known each other for many years. It's up to you to restore your relationship. The other party blocks you.

I definitely don't want to get in touch with you. Or angry. Block directly.

Don't look at anything about you. If you want to recover. You just go to him or her and explain it.

If you don't want to. You don't have to dwell on it. Everyone has their own way.

There are also some intersections that are reduced.

On social networks, deletion and blocking are both common operations, but blocking can be a bit more difficult for people to accept. There are several main reasons:

1.Removal is more neutral. Deleting a person's information or messages, which is more like a simple act of sorting out a relationship or chat history, is less likely to give a strong feeling of being abandoned or not being valued.

Blocking, on the other hand, makes it clear that he doesn't want to have any intersection or contact with the other party, and this kind of explicit refusal is more likely to be emotionally unacceptable.

2.Blocking restricts communication. Blocking will directly cut off all kinds of contact and communication possibilities with the other party. Deletion is only a clean-up of historical sites and does not affect future re-contact or interaction. The possibility of this potential exchange also makes deletion relatively more acceptable.

3.Blocking is even more decisive. Blocking gives the impression that they are determined not to have anything to do with the other party anymore, and this resolute attitude will also make the other party feel more difficult to accept pure filial piety. In contrast, deletion is less extreme and leaves room for improvement.

4.Blocking emphasizes the other person's mistakes more. Blocking usually occurs when the other person's behavior is so serious that it is unbearable to bear, and it will give the other person a feeling of being blamed and punished. Deletion, on the other hand, is relatively minor and may be for more subjective or personal reasons.

Therefore, in general, the operation of blocking is more obvious than deletion and abandonment, and therefore, it is often more unacceptable to the party who wrote the manuscript. But no matter what kind of operation, it will have a certain negative emotional impact to a greater or lesser extent, and the key is to use it appropriately and understand your own reasons and purposes.