Should I give up or redeem, redeem and give up

Updated on psychology 2024-05-01
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    In fact, it is not recommended that you fall in love at this time, some love does not have to be perfect to be obtained, you know, it is fate to meet the right person at the right time, maybe he is the right person for you, but now is not the right time, don't waste your feelings at this time; If he doesn't love me and you anymore, there is no need to solve the problem with avoidance, his avoidance may be something he realizes he should do during this time period! Love is like wine, the longer the time, the more fragrant it tastes, keep this green and pure love in your heart, if he is your prince charming, he will not ride a white horse to escape.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Give up decisively. He avoids you, deletes your QQ, and makes you sad, which has already shown his attitude.

    He may have liked you before, but feelings are variable.

    Since he's already like this, you give up.

    Your next one may appear soon, so be patient with your smile.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is brave enough to say it! If he likes you, then bless you. If he rejects you, since you have tried, you have nothing to regret. Don't be too shy to prevent love from slipping away in hesitation. Good luck.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Give it up. Only when you lose do you know how to cherish. It's too late.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Before college, you were still young, and your self-control was not strong, and you can't guarantee that falling in love will not delay your studies, so it's better to be down-to-earth and study hard! Don't let your family and friends worry about you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You give too little, it's hard to analyze, one thing is certain, whether she likes you or not, as long as you like it, you should try, and life without regrets is the best.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    When the other party wants to give up your relationship, I am unwilling to try to redeem it.

    Because feelings have always been a matter of two people, not one person can recover it can have a good effect, and even when the other party wants to give up, your efforts to redeem may be a burden for him, it is an unacceptable way, it will only make him hate you more, so as to give up faster, so since the other party already wants to give up, it is better to give up. Feelings are always two-way, and the ability of one party has no meaning, so it is better to restore your self-esteem and dignity.

    Leaving arrogantly at the end of a relationship is the only way to be worthy of such an embarrassing ending of this relationship, so I will not recover, I will comply with the other party's ideas, give up as soon as possible, make him happy, and let myself be freed, there is never a humble existence in love, when you feel that your existence is already very humble, then it means that the relationship has begun to be unequal, the main possibility is that the other party has not cared too much and loved, then there is no need to fight for it.

    In general, when the other party wants to give up, he no longer loves you, and it is impossible for you to be as natural as before, even if you save this relationship, it may not be the same as before, this kind of relationship is not what you want, and the taste of reluctance is never pleasant, whether it is for yourself or others. When we face feelings, we must be rational and emotional at the same time, know what the other party wants, know what the other party wants to give up, when we become the object of abandonment, we naturally have to learn a lesson from the middle, and deal with ourselves successfully, so as not to be trampled on by greater harm and dignity.

    So, as long as he gives up, I will give up, and I will not do useless struggles and resistance.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't hold back when the other person wants to give up the relationship, because the decision to break up must have been deliberate and I respect the other person's idea.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, the twisted melon is not sweet, since the other party has already wanted to give up, there is no need to redeem it, even if they are stalked, they will not be happy, and they will make themselves embarrassed, so it is better to get together and disperse.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It must be willing to redeem, two people have feelings, they must want to redeem, and determine what caused the other party.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I don't want to try to make it back, if the other party is already disappointed in the relationship, I will choose to break up, I will not let myself be very humble.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you want to make yourself not regret it, you need to think through everything before doing it, that is, you need to understand your own mind, do you want to give up? Or want to redeem.

    What is the reason for wanting to give up, wanting to give up a relationship that you are trying to reveal, you have worked so hard to redeem it, why should you give up?

    Is it because you feel that two people are not suitable, or do you feel that it is too tiring to save a relationship, the other party can't give you a response, and you are working hard yourself, when your efforts are not rewarded, you will definitely be confused when you feel tired, and you may regret it when you are confused, whether you should do it.

    But I personally think that since you have worked very hard to redeem it, it means that you cherish this relationship very much, and two people who have been together need to redeem yourself should know in your heart, that is to say, you must love this person, and you still love him after you separated from him, so you want to play redemption.

    Personally, I think that you are afraid of regret not because you want to save this relationship, but because you work hard and can't get a reward, you will regret that you worked so hard, you may feel faceless, but is face important or your own happiness in love? Of course, happiness is more important.

    SoIf you are for the sake of face and are afraid that you will regret it, I personally think that you should still work hard, after all, it is the person you have loved deeply, after all, it is the person you can't let go, and after all, it is the person you are trying to recover.

    If you are afraid that you will regret it because you don't have such deep feelings for the other person, you are very hesitant, and personally think that you can give yourself a little more time, that is, don't be so anxious to save the relationship, you can try to let go and see.

    That is to say, don't contact him, let yourself calm down and think about where the relationship between the two people will go after you redeem him, or whether you can live well if you don't redeem him.

    When you don't contact him for a while, are you still thinking about him in your heart, if you really can't let go of this person, you won't regret it if you chase him again.

    If you feel that you can live well alone, and you don't necessarily have to redeem this person, then I still hope that you can calm down for a while and make a decision after thinking clearly, so that you will not regret it.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love is not a memory, a process, a result.

    Love requires both parties to be committed, tolerated with each other, and care for each other.

    Love is unspeakable, but it can be described in words.

    Love can't be opened, but it can make you regret it for a lifetime.

    Love has laughter and tears, bitterness and sweetness.

    Love, sweet and sour, all kinds of tastes.

    Love starts easily and breaks up painfully.

    The love process is beautiful, but the ending is not.

    Love needs to slow down.

    Love runs too fast and falls.

    Love is like a three-legged game for two.

    Love requires a little bit of tacit cooperation.

    Love is built in the hearts of both parties.

    Love is not the only thing in life, but it is the focus of life.

    Love transcends time and space and age has no distance.

    Love brings two hearts closer to each other.

    Love makes you desperate.

    Love is a nonsensical joke.

    Love can't be caught.

    Love can't feel its presence.

    Love can know its departure.

    Love is only for two people together.

    Love can't be perfect, but it's always something to look forward to.

    Love is a type of happiness.

    Love is a cup of coffee with milk sweet honey.

    Love makes people powerless.

    Love needs to be blessed.

    Love requires mutual trust.

    Love is not a game and there is no winning or losing.

    Love must be faced seriously every second.

    Love should be honest and don't run away.

    Love has too much to learn, but too little to understand.

    Love can't be repeated is not a game.

    Love takes many, many things to learn.

    Love is not difficult to say, it is easy to say, only people in love can understand.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Hello dear friends;

    The most difficult thing for people is how to learn to give up, giving up is not a simple abandonment and escape, but a rational choice, every choice means a pain, because the choice will be lost, people in their lives are always constantly choosing, keep giving up, only give up, we can find the real life opportunity that belongs to us, in order not to miss the people waiting for us at the next intersection, in order to get out of the past and no longer indulge, fate sometimes must have, life is always not forced, in order to be happy in life. Although every choice is accompanied by pain and regret, after experiencing these, we know how to cherish, know how to take responsibility, learn to make trade-offs, understand the true meaning of life, and make our lives more fulfilling.

    If we can't be happy or give him happiness, then we have to learn to give up, and giving up itself is a kind of happiness, a kind of love, a kind of beauty. Only by learning to give up can we find true happiness!

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    A poet once said: Memory is the only bag on the road of life. Some people are still crying because they have spilled milk, some people are still sighing because they have lost the sun, and some people are still restless because a leaf has fallen.

    Walking through yesterday's wind and rain, it is inevitable that there will be some dust and bad luck on the body, and some sour memories will be left in the heart, which cannot be completely erased. We need to summarize yesterday's mistakes, but we can't dwell on the mistakes and unhappiness of the past, we can recover what can be recovered, what cannot be recovered, the only thing we can do is to give up as soon as possible!

    Blindly dwelling in the grief of loss not only cannot be recovered, but makes oneself more sad; Blindly reminiscing about grief will only magnify grief and cause oneself to suffer even more grief. Yu Dan said, "When we encounter some kind of bad influence, the best we can do is to calm ourselves down, accept it, and then say forget."

    In this way, you will be able to come out of the shadows as soon as possible and live calmly with a better attitude.

    Former British Prime Minister Lloyd George had a habit of closing the door behind him casually ---. He was asked why. George said, "I've been closing the door behind me all my life.

    You know, it's a must-do. When you close the door, leave everything from the past behind, whether it's a good achievement or a frustrating mistake, and then you can start again. It was with this spirit that George stepped step by step to success and stepped into the position of Prime Minister of the United Kingdom.

    I've been shutting the door behind me all my life! What a classic phrase! If you always carry the heavy nostalgic burden of mistakes or mistakes, and feel sad about the passing years, it will only waste the good time in front of you, and it will be tantamount to giving up the present and the future.

    If you regret the past, you can only lose the present; If you lose the present, there will be no future!

    The cost of passively dwelling on annoyance and remorse in the face of mistakes is too great. Remorse and reflection are only a short summary of yesterday, and we exchange frozen time for long-term condemnation. As the saying goes, "Those who regret missing the first train will miss the next one."

    This is one of the most vicious squandering of life. Sadness can no longer make up for past mistakes, and pain can no longer erase that long-term loss. In the face of the irretrievable and incomplete "tank", what you can do is to give up and move forward bravely without looking back, just like the tank man.

    Let go of the irretrievable so that you can concentrate and continue to create tomorrow. No matter what we lose, no matter what kind of suffering we go through, let us slowly forget, those things are often just a small episode in life. We should look up to our future.

    The concept of fate is to move forward rather than retreat, whether it is good or bad, it must be light. We must learn to forget all the mistakes and mistakes of the past and keep moving forward. That's because we need to look to the future.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Such a woman, I advise you to give up, look at your description, she doesn't love you, otherwise she wouldn't beat you like that, a woman like this is not a man around her at all.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Come back late or give up, it's up to you, what you think in your heart, if there is still love. Then we should actively make amends, otherwise we should give up decisively.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Personally, I think it shouldn't be irreparable or choose to give up, there is no need for such a person to continue to be with him, it's not particularly good for you to be with yourself for a long time, and it should be better to choose to give up.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Generally speaking, if two relationships last to the point that you are very uncomfortable. I still think you should give up.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Give up, it's yours after all, it's yours, it's not yours, it won't be yours.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    To be honest, both of you have different points of view, and it's hard to come together. Unless you can change for her, tolerate each other, respect each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Give up, it's yours after all, it's yours after all, it's not yours, it's not yours, it's yours after all, it's yours, it's you

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