I haven t seen my father in 16 years, will I still have a chance to see him?

There is no endless road, of course.

Although I can't really yearn for it.

Should I see my biological father if I have never met him? It's up to you in your own heart. Everyone's understanding is different, and from my point of view, I can give him a chance and also make an understanding of what he was abandoned in the first place. Even if you don't forgive him in the end, it doesn't matter if you don't recognize him.

I don't mean moral kidnapping, first of all, he abandoned you, it was indeed his wrongness, his ruthlessness deeply hurt your heart. But when he wants to meet you again, your heart must be excited at the moment, but it is actually accompanied by the excitement of fear. Because the original abandonment has left you scarred inside, you are afraid of losing love, but at the same time you long for love.

If your father took the initiative to find you, then maybe he wanted to make up for the wrong things he had done. Maybe he's been duly punished for abandoning you for the time he deserves. The older a person gets, the softer his heart becomes, when he abandons your own life and sees this other person's family reunited, he gradually wants this warmth and affection, and at the same time, his guilt for you is increasing day by day.

The original intention of him to find you again is not necessarily to let you provide for him in old age, but to make up for the harm he has done to you. He takes the initiative to find you, you need a lot of courage and you are ready to disown him, you can not forgive him and not see him, but if you abandon him at this moment, you are angry but you don't know why. Then you can meet him and solve the doubts in your heart why he abandoned you for so many years.

If your biological father's abandonment of you has caused you an irreparable psychological shadow, then I think you can go and meet him. Learn the truth of the year, face your own demons, uncover it and defeat it. This will be good for your future and your future, including that you will have children in the future, and you will not be scared and overwhelmed by the shadows of the past.

From a psychological point of view, you should choose to meet, from a moral point of view, it is your freedom not to see, and maybe you will never forgive him for the rest of your life. And since your biological father has the courage to see you, you can also muster up the courage to meet you, maybe it is not as difficult as you think, and the truth you desire may be revealed the moment you meet. What I want to tell you is that in order to overcome difficulties in the face of difficulties, follow your inner thoughts, and I believe you can.

It should see. In this way, you will have a very good understanding and you can also know who your biological father is. There will be no regrets for the rest of your life.

I don't think you should see it, after all, you haven't met your biological father all along, and if you do, it may affect your mood.

In the face of such a situation, if his father wants to meet him, he can meet him.