The troubles at the end of the 80 s are in a daze

In fact, I sometimes feel that I am useless! If you don't read well, the mentality of your family that you want your son to become a Chan surrounds your ears all day long! People say that home is a safe haven, and you can get solace for the soul!!

But I don't feel this way, sometimes I feel more pressure at home than at school! Now, it's better! Barely got into a university!

I wanted to study hard, but my dormitory classmates were really crazy about playing online games all day, and they didn't go out for a week! I can't stand it, I don't want to be like them, I run out every day, go to the library, go to exercise, but I don't seem to be like them! Busy in vain!

Later, due to the school's policy, after the power and internet were cut off at 12 o'clock at night, my opinion of them changed from then on!! That time we talked all night about our past, and I realized that they had been through so much! And I'm so blank!

In their eyes, it's a child! He said something very classic! "We are just experiencing life, from elementary school to high school, we all thought that we would study hard in order to go to college, and give up how much time to play in exchange for score rankings, and then I wanted to go to college to play crazy and get back the time from childhood to adulthood!

I know I'm like a pile of mud now, but I've at least experienced this muddy life, and I have felt, do you have it, do you think you will be able to experience this kind of life like this without burden in the future! This sentence really gave me a lot of feelings, even though he said it a bit nonsensical! But it's not unreasonable, what kind of life is not what others say is good or bad, but you want to feel it and experience it!

Why live on other people's opinions!! The most important thing in life is to be happy and feel the twists that life brings us!

Hehe!! It doesn't seem to have anything to do with your problem!

The days will pass, and everything will pass! No one can ** your future, no one can decide your future, since this is the case, you have no reason to say that you can't! That's my motto! Hope it helps! Hee-hee!

The first thing you should understand is that there are really too few people who are living well, so we will feel envious when we occasionally meet someone who is living a little better. Most people want to live an ordinary life. To put it simply, there are so many people who learn mechanics that everyone may think that as long as they enter this industry, they will definitely be guaranteed, but the fact is that there is no shortage of one or a few ordinary mechanics in this world.

So, if you want to change the status quo, it's to really work hard, at least in the little world around you, you have to be the best mechanic. When you want your boss to talk about your name, even if he doesn't know you, he knows that you have skills.

You have to think that being alive is happiness. Most of the ordinary people like you in this world are not born with a golden spoon in their mouths. There's no need to think too much.

There are more people in this world than you, at least you are healthy, at least you have no worries about food and clothing, and there are many people who do not have enough food and clothing.

Take your time, things will not get better because of your troubles, only rely on your own hard work, not to mention that you are young now, it is time to struggle.

People's success has little to do with whether they take the undergraduate exam or not, not necessarily the richest man who has achieved how much school he has attended, leave home and work independently, he can't do anything big without that kind of pressure at home, people are inert. When the time comes, when you have a car, a house and money, you must be happy to go home, it must make your parents happy, but there may be various results of going out to struggle, and you should be prepared to endure hardships and failures and succeed, there is no secret, only - good luck.

It's normal for people to have troubles, but don't fall too deep, there is such a saying: There are three narrow worlds of dust in the eyes, and there is nothing in the heart that is a bed wide. You need to relax your mood now, you don't need to do much in your life, but as long as you are worthy of yourself.

Suck it up! Reality is always the cruelest, but don't give up. To make the final struggle, the future is still bright. Spend every day happily.

You have to find a goal in life first, so that you can have the motivation to live and not be confused! Thank you.

First of all, you are a very filial and self-motivated person.

Take it easy, you've done a good job.

There must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and let go of your heart

It's not too good to mix, so I'm sad and crying.

Anyway, it's just a matter of working on your own

Everyone has a dead end, they can't get out of it, and others can't get in.

Don't worry, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and one step at a time is one step.

Life is a cup, but there's also comedy

Let's take a closer look

Don't let you regret it when you're old.

It's inevitable to have troubles in life, I'm a post-80s generation, hehe, just be yourself, there's no pressure at all, what's there to be confused, just do what you want to do and say what you want to say, it's good that the pressure is gone, in fact, the pressure is given to yourself.

Everyone has their own troubles! Whether it is the post-80s or the post-90s, all the troubles are essentially the same.

Hehe!! Me too, but I firmly believe that I am a post-80s generation.

I feel the same way, and suddenly I feel that I am no longer a child, but I refuse to grow up to some extent.

1. No car, no house, no money, no wife.

2. There are dreams, but they can't be realized, there is justice, and they dare not do it.

3. If you have parents, you can't afford to support them, and you can't give you protection if you have children.

4. I have a job, I can't support myself, I want to work alone, and I have no conditions.

5. Looking at life, it is a bit gloomy, to struggle, there is no answer.

The contrast between the ideal and the reality.

Chinese English can be put down. There is not as much room for improvement as science. Be sure to do more. Summarize in time, and you can summarize a set of problem-solving strategies in 80 days.

Now is the transition stage from quantitative change to qualitative change, we must correct our mentality, let go of pressure, and conduct targeted training for the college entrance examination question type in accordance with the mode of special topic plus comprehensive, and then "playback" after 50 days

Work hard to memorize formulas and theorems, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and you will find out later that the college entrance examination is actually not a big deal.

Focus on math, math is important in any region. Chinese, this subject is more difficult to get, you need your usual accumulation, it's almost the college entrance examination, it is recommended that you quickly memorize a few more essays, not more, in the classics. It will be useful in the exam room, it will definitely be useful, trust me.

As for English, the best thing to do now is to memorize words. Memorize some high-frequency vocabulary, useful.

Mathematics and physics memorize formulas and answer routines! Chemical biology memorizes some common answers!

Forget about English, it's too late.

The language is very good, you can put it aside, and English makes good use of the scattered time.

On the road, in the car, during dinner, memorizing words and listening to English, there are more than ten or twenty minutes of writing and writing.

Spend a lot of time on science, read books well, and practice basic question types. Focus on the basics.

The basic score of the college entrance examination still accounts for a large proportion.

Mindset it!

I just didn't have a good mentality at that time, and I did poorly in the exam!

And then about learning, in fact, there are less than 100 days, and there is basically no special breakthrough in the study of science, mainly to make sure that the questions you will do will not lose points, so you mainly look at the notes, and then do some questions every day to practice your hands, so that you will not be too handy. Then, you can start the quasi-language, English, biology and other things that need to be memorized! It's the stuff that scores points when you remember it, but it has nothing to do with other knowledge, and it's especially easy to get stunted!

In short, what big breakthrough you have now is to keep the points you have mastered so far, so that they don't lose back!

That's what I suggest!

English mainly depends on doing questions, and in the last period of time, I insist on doing it every day, and it is best to have a cloze every day, two reading comprehension, and then I can listen to English properly in the morning and when I go to bed. I only scored about 75 points before the college entrance examination, but after three months, I scored 114 points in the college entrance examination, and I still made a mistake. As for physics, read more books, be familiar with formulas, understand some basic usage, read books while using weapons, in order to do problems, don't think about eating a fat man, this is impossible, physics from the simplest little by little, just get the foundation right, the general foundation has a score of 60%.

As for creatures, as long as you memorize more, you should be able to increase your score. The study of chemistry is still to grasp the key points of each book, not to understand everything, but to understand important formulas and basic common sense. In addition, it is best to insist on doing a set of comprehensive questions every day, so that you can quickly investigate and deal with your own shortcomings.

Hehehe, family words, this is my experience, you can take it appropriately.

Control your mindset and study hard.

My dad used to tell me. Don't be lazy with your girlfriend, and don't want to be vain! Don't compare your boyfriend with others!

Because it means that your girlfriend doesn't love you at all. She fights with you a lot, and that's okay. When the time comes, when you get married, you will soon have a problem!

First of all, you don't have to think about anything, you need to know more about your girlfriend. I think your dad was right. Business experience is to be accumulated!

There are firsts in life. Everything has to be practiced, and everything cannot be smooth sailing! Right, no.

If that's the case, life isn't perfect. Because too perfect is not perfect! Off topic.

I suggest you find out more about whether your girlfriend should continue to walk with her. It would be nice if she was willing to change for you. If you don't eat and be lazy, you won't have money to raise!

Brother, I don't know what to say, I hope it can help you a little!

If it's a man, you have the courage to face life again, think about your parents, they may be under more pressure than the judges. Do a good job in your life positioning, starting from the most basic. What are our parents training us for, they have to worry if you don't have a job, they have to worry about you if you don't work well, you have to worry about things at work, think about how your parents treat you when you don't have a job, there is nothing more motivating than the support and understanding of your family, so you have to continue to struggle, young, don't press the pressure of the ear, convert the pressure into motivation, motivation!!

The pressures of life are often given by oneself.

Everybody is working You're an outlier if you don't work, so you're confused But have you ever thought that this is your responsibility as a trapped person to the society and your family Don't say that the job is not easy to hold, see if you want to do it, let yourself be busy If you are so fulfilling, you won't be able to think of depression.

Men are the most attractive at work.

The law of the times determines people's way of life, the 80s and 90s are all only children, the things they come into contact with are more avant-garde, they are always attracted by some superficial phenomena, it is difficult to see the essence of things, coupled with the openness of modern society and the internationalization of the economy, this generation of young people is required to have better adaptability, unlike the previous assignment to a place after graduating from school for a lifetime, and the only child is different from the previous multiple children in a family, many things are more demanding, so there are so many problems.

The pace of history has never stopped, the development of society has never stopped, every era has the troubles of people in each era, the feelings in life, troubles, pressure, etc. belong to the trivial things in life from a certain point of view, trivial things are things that have not disappeared since the birth of people, because of this, from the ancient Peking Opera, to singing, to TV series, to movies There are endless topics to talk about, and the major events in life should be those turning points that can change the trajectory of your life, such as you start from scratch, to successful people in business, from an ordinary student to a famous professor, from a soldier to a writer, generally only after the experience of life, looking back on this life can find that his life is ups and downs or plain, and now it is difficult for us to find when is the turning point of our life, but he has a characteristic, that is, it is often accompanied by choices, or trade-offs, it is called a turning point because there are different ways to choose, at this time you can not be confused by the trivial things in life I just said, You should listen to the choices of your own consciousness in your heart so that you will not regret it later, because it is the path you have chosen. Even if he is not flat, but after all, it is your choice, and it will not go against your will, whether it is successful or not, at least you will not blame yourself or others in the future.

I'm much worse than you now, you're still sad, I'm a post-90s generation, I didn't go to school, I still have to earn money for my family, I just quit my job, I want culture, I don't have culture, I want technology, you don't have technology, you are much happier than me.

It's up to you to do this!