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Anonymous users2024-02-1025 years old... Neither too big nor too small. It's time to think about these kinds of questions.
First of all, look at the person you like first You love him deeply, and if it is deep, then don't give up. Because I'll always think about it in the future.。。 You won't be happy in the future.
If the depth of love is generally above. Then let's see if this man is a potential stock. If so, give him 1-2 years, and before the age of 26-27, you still have the capital to choose.
If it's not potential stocks, listen to your parents. They don't know what the desire for love is in today's children. But their experience can help you find a better fit for marriage.
Falling in love is not the same as marriage, in other words, what is suitable for love is not necessarily suitable for marriage, listen to your parents' opinions more. At the same time, I will re-evaluate myself. will find the one that really suits your significant other.
Money is not everything, but no money is everything, and you don't want your future love to be ruined in a marriage without money, right,。。 In that case, it is better to have a poignant love affair + a happy marriage than to have a perfect love withering in marriage.
The above is a personal opinion, I hope to help you solve some confusion. ）
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Fate can accompany you for a lifetime, it is difficult to say if you have money, and if you don't do it well, it will be a disaster. Fate is not common, there is no money that can be earned by people, and ambition will not be poor for a lifetime.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08Marriage is a lifelong thing, and it is very painful to live with a person who you don't fall in love with for a lifetime. Marriage is like shoes, only you know if it is suitable or not... Don't be fooled by appearances.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07A marriage arranged by parents will be happy.
I just want to say that Zhaosou is a little clear, that is, whether two people are missing a blind date or free love, they have to wait until they have feelings before getting married, otherwise you will definitely not be happy. The role of parents is only a medium, and there is absolutely nothing wrong with introducing people to each other. But if they force their children to marry strangers, it is wrong, they are burying the happiness of someone else's life.
Marriage can be big or small, to put it mildly, this is just a stage of life, it doesn't matter when you want to tie the knot, it doesn't matter who you want to tie the knot, anyway, in the end, the dust will return to dust, the earth will return to the earth, and no one will recognize the clan and know whom. But when it comes to getting older, it's different, marriage is a major life event, and it's very important to both your parents and yourself. That's why they will blindly arrange blind dates for you and urge you to get married.
But if you marry someone you don't love, this life will be over, so you still have to think carefully.
Parents are our first teachers, but also our guide on the road of life, there are some things we have to listen to, but some words we have to consider carefully, if it involves their own life events, the second half of their lives are happy, then we have to negotiate with them, not blindly let them decide. If you let them arrange your marriage, then you will not be happy.
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Anonymous users2024-02-06Marriage is a major event in life, and for many people, the opinions of parents are very important. Traditionally, obtaining parental consent is a sign of respect and filial piety. However, with the changes in society and the change of people's values, this issue has also caused some controversy.
Parents are our loved ones, and they have a profound impact on our lives. They have experienced more life experiences and have more considerations and experiences for our future. Therefore, it is very important to ask for the opinions of our parents, which can help us avoid some possible mistakes and difficulties.
After all, they are the people closest to us, and they care about our well-being and future.
However, we can't let that ignore our feelings and choices. Marriage is our own business, and we should have the right to make our own decisions. Marriage is a long-term commitment, and only we can truly understand our needs and dreams.
Sometimes, parents' expectations and our wishes may differ. In such a situation, we need to be brave enough to stand up for our choices and not let the opinions of others dictate our lives.
In addition, we need to understand that the role of parents is to want us to live better. Their concerns and suggestions are motivated by their care and protection. However, they are not our spokesmen, our lives are our own.
We need to learn to think independently and make decisions based on our own circumstances and values.
Of course, respecting the opinions of parents and asking for their consent is still a factor worth considering. Their experience and wisdom are invaluable assets from which we can benefit greatly. However, the final decision is still in our own hands.
Marriage is a journey of life and we are responsible for it. We should respect our parents' opinions, but also give ourselves enough space and freedom to make our own choices. Only when you think it is appropriate to open and search, can you move towards the palace of marriage and realize your own happiness.
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Anonymous users2024-02-05Marriage matters do not necessarily have to be decided by parents, but you must ask for their opinions, and really help you look forward to it.
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Anonymous users2024-02-04The first one is not in order. Nowadays, people are living longer, and they are often still in their parents' homes when they become adults. Many are still in school at the age of 30 and still dependent on their parents.
But this is completely different from relying on parents at home before. Now relying on parents is financial. In the past, relying on parents was all-round.
The ancients also became a family before and after adulthood, and they began to run to support their families. Most of them were not adults before they got married, and they were even just over 14 years old, and their minds were precocious but not fully mature. Because of longevity and employment, most of them are starting a family.
didn't wait to earn money, so I relied on my parents to become a family and left my parents' house. Before starting a family, you must rely on your parents in all aspects.
Nowadays, few people get married before the age of 18, and most of them start a business first and then start a family. Society is changing too fast, and the experience of parents is not necessarily useful, and at this time, children who have not started a family will also be the main force to tell the new era and new practices.
The second is always true, and it is not true. It is best for the father to call the mother to do the advice of the mother, and the child should listen to the opinions of the parents. Parents respect their children's decisions.
It is not the parents who make the decisions. Parents can provide reference, and parents choose according to their children's circumstances, but they can't help but listen to their children's opinions. In ancient times, parents would also discuss with their children.
After all, children have little social experience and have no skills to recognize people. Life is similar in any era, and the experience of parents is useful. Unless the institution of marriage is completely reformed.
It can be seen that you are the kind of person with a weaker character, you should have fought two years ago, your parents are indeed for your good, and your parents pay attention to the right people and there is indeed a certain truth, it is undeniable that the starting point of parents is for you, but this cannot be at the expense of the happiness of the child's life, parents force us to accept their will, according to all the lives they have arranged, live in a place where they can see, and eat the meals they prepare at any time, this is the love of parents, But sometimes it's also a cage. >>>More
Parents do not have the problem of respect and disrespect for their children, it may be that there is a problem with the way they get along, they always regard themselves as elders, they do not know how to empathize, they are not good at communication, they have a little patience as children, they think they are right, they listen to what they say, and don't do it if they are serious or not, learn to respect and understand their parents.
Your parents are not forcing you to choose the life you don't want but to give you advice, thinking that you have reached the age where you can get married, after all, if a woman does not marry herself out early, you will have a lot less choice after the age of marriage, no matter what you say, it is also for your happiness, after all, you are their hope Besides, you can also choose yourself, if you don't want to go on a blind date, don't go, so, is it possible that your parents will cry and make trouble because you don't want to go on a blind date You should clearly talk to your parents about your thoughts, If you have enough ability and ability, maybe they won't ask you so much And there are parents all over the world who are the same, and they have invested too much in their children, regardless of whether the children need it or not, we still have to be considerate of our parents Whether it is for ourselves or for our parents, we must choose happiness.
There is no reward point, no wonder no one replied, let me tell you, spend the same amount of money, mainly depends on your family environment, as well as family harmony, if you are very independent at home, the situation is like some European countries, what is very clear, if that, then only spend your own money, if it is a traditional Chinese family, then needless to say, of course, spend your parents', parents worry about a lifetime, busy for a lifetime, isn't it just for you to find a job in the future, buy a house, get married, so, Even if you don't want to spend it, but it also depends on the family environment, if you are very rich, the family conditions are quite good, then spend some money at home, it should be nothing, at least I personally think so, if your family environment is not very good, you don't want your parents to have no pension in the future, adding some yourself is also a good choice, after all, Chinese should pay attention to a filial piety, if they have the ability, it is okay to pay a part, but you can't completely yourself, then what do parents think, you should ask them, Ask for advice, if you are relatively wealthy and have some funds now, you can tell them that I now have a little savings of my own, and I want to share some of them for you, it should be good to do so, and your parents will be proud of you and think you are very filial.
If you feel happy and secure with him or he is very self-motivated, you can consider, after all, it is you who lives with him, and no one can say what will happen in the future, you had better know more about him (himself, his family, and the people he comes into contact with)! I hope you can find the perfect Lang Jun!