Marriage and relationships, be sincere, don t come in if you re not sincere, thank you

Updated on psychology 2024-05-09
31 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    ··· At this time, you should take on the responsibility of a man, your wife is 6 months pregnant, and you still don't marry her? You know, it's not good for a woman to have a child out of wedlock. After all, everyone has your child, it's still 6 months, you have to give birth if you don't want to give birth, you have to talk to her mother and try to communicate more, don't be sad when you go, be confident, don't keep your head down, be very solemn, and talk to her mother to a certain extent when she tells her mother that you have a baby.

    Note: Be mentally prepared first. Bring your wife with you) I believe you can succeed buddy!

    Oh! That's right! Your parents should be able to help you raise a child together, on the surface they do, but what old couple doesn't want to hold a grandchild?

    Of course, it's okay to hit **, but don't say it too lightly, otherwise others will think that you are cheating others into marrying you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Big brother, is the relationship between you and your wife not as enthusiastic as it was at the beginning? Love needs to be impulsive, it needs sweet words, the key is that after you and him are familiar with each other, can you live until you are old, there will be all kinds of quarrels, there are all kinds of pressure, whether two people can communicate well or tolerate each other, can get married without pressure, pressure is defeated by happiness! I didn't think it through, or I was afraid, or I didn't discuss it with my girlfriend, the feelings are like water, people are not as calm as uncles in their 40s, talk more about my girlfriend, get married and take on the responsibilities of a man and father, external factors will always be solved, communicate with my girlfriend and mother-in-law!

    Panic is inevitable, don't lose your temper! Big brother, kneel and beg for extra points, the mobile phone party can't afford to hurt!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's better to talk to your mother's side as soon as possible. Say it well. Don't be too impulsive. Pull his wife to the old man shouldn't be embarrassed.

    True love belongs to you, be brave. Go and make it clear to the other person's parents. The child is innocent, and the old man will not mutilate a living life.

    Forehead.. Try it first, if you can't, you can go to the other party's parents to make it clear.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    The children are six months old, if it is a man, it must be responsible to the end, no matter what difficulties you encounter, it is up to you, the man, to shoulder and solve them, to shelter your girlfriend from the wind and rain. A woman is pregnant for you before marriage, which is not easy, and the psychological pressure is only known to the woman herself, and you can't let her down.

    As for what to tell her mother, I think you should tell her mother right away and tell your girlfriend's parents with sincerity that you will be good to her and responsible for her. And get married right away. That's what a man does.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Although love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter of two families, it is ultimately the life of two people. Modern parents are still very open-minded, you should first tell her mother about this, first, it is a kind of respect for the elderly, and second, you can also take this opportunity to contact the parents of both parties to do the wedding smoothly. LET ALL RELATIVES AND FRIENDS BLESS YOU ...

    It's a must, it's good for both parties.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You shouldn't do this, and it's recommended that you confess as soon as possible, otherwise there will be endless trouble.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, I'm six months pregnant, so I shouldn't be hiding it, find a time to enter the wedding hall, and give your wife an official identity.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There's nothing wrong with hitting **.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    The difference in family conditions is always that marriage is not so beautiful, but it makes people a little tired. Although parents have always asked for this, it is also very reasonable! But those who really don't have a house or something like that are not still married, and people may not be happy.

    I think it's a matter of time before a house is available, but for young people, without the help of their parents, it will be relatively late. But it doesn't matter if you don't have a house, you must have a job, stable or unstable, as long as you have an income, you can achieve anything. When two people are together, girls can also work and be independent, and they don't necessarily have to rely on your men.

    If the husband and wife may not have a house at the beginning, but they both have a job, then it is terrible, with savings, whether it is to open a small shop on their own, to do a business, or to make an investment, this day is not a thriving forward.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm also in love now.

    My mom also told my boyfriend that she wanted a house.

    In fact, when a girl gets married, the parents of course want their daughter to be happy.

    A house is a safe haven, after all, a house is a lifelong must.

    And ** is not very cheap either.

    Parents do this because they don't want their daughters to marry each other, and they have to work hard to earn money to buy a house, and they don't want their daughters to live a hard life.

    You also need to understand that.

    All girls want to have their own home with the boy they love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although it is very helpless, the minimum marriage requirement for the parents of girls now is to have a house" "But it is also understandable, who wants the child who has worked hard for more than 20 years to suffer with another person, right, so I can only say that I pity the parents of the world

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    There is a lot of water around your house, especially in the east and southwest, and there are many boys among the sisters, and you are in the middle. You have a good relationship with your parents, don't make any mistakes, you yourself are 23 years old, 06 years and last year have emotional experience, last year you suspected that the family was insincere and broke up. You can still meet next month, the future boyfriend is in the east of your house, with wooden characters in his name, flexible mind, lively and active, good at driving, not too tall, a little fat, you are suitable for marriage in June next year...

    Conducive to the development of due north, west, and south, not conducive to the east or northeast, the next two years are the year of fire, is the year of your fortune, firmly grasp it. . .

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Eight characters: 甲 丁 壬 甲.

    Zi Chou Chen.

    Fate analysis: The natal rat is a golden life in the sea. Officialdom. Zhidege.

    The sun is dry and ugly, the land is declining, the residual air of the water is obtained, and the soil is frozen and the water is cold. The heavenly stem food god is revealed, and the earth branch has no strong roots and is weak. The heavenly stem is full of positive wealth, and it cannot be ordered, and the earthly branch has no strong roots, and the positive wealth is weak.

    There are seven killings in the earthly branch, the sky is not dry, and the ugly moon is not very prosperous. The earthly branch robs the wealth, the sky is not dry, and the ugly moon is powerful.

    The ugly moon is water, and the gold is the god of use, and the water is the god of joy.

    The peach blossom is located in the unitary.

    The intention of marriage is to tune the piano and self-spare, and add a good depression to the scenery, plant more peach and plum branches and leaves, and there are different seedlings in front of the Dangui Hall.

    Empty death, nobles, and canopies appear together, and their people have great wisdom, quiet temperament, and high morality, and are extraordinary saints who have the pursuit of truth and wisdom, and are easy to be admired by the world.

    The sun pillar fell into vain, and one of the spouses or myself was more infatuated, but the fate was weak halfway.

    The official killing star is too heavy, and the owner marries late, and he can generally get married after the age of 36.

    The earthly branch rushes and closes, and there are many rights and wrongs in a lifetime.

    On the day of the yin and yang mistakes, the Lord's marriage is not going well.

    He may not be tall, his spouse is steady, or he is honest and honest rather than a fool.

    Judging from the year, your most unfavorable marriage match is: Wu Wu (1978) and sheep.

    It is advisable to study and engage in business, finance, finance, **, or technical business.

    If the official falls into vain, the power is damaged, and there are many ups and downs and twists and turns in the general career, or education, official position, position, etc., which are easy to be hurt or jealous, discriminatory, depressed, lost, etc.

    The killing is not obvious, and it is easy to steal.

    If the gold water is withered, the kidneys will be weak.

    Nian Zhu was a wounded officer, robbed money, and was born in a poor family.

    These four pillars need to be supplemented with "gold" and "water" the day after tomorrow

    Dress up more, have a calmer personality, be virtuous, what man doesn't like it?

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Feelings can't be calculated, as long as the heart is good. Don't worrySometimes it's good to get married later, you can only follow fate. It is best to be the same age as you, a dragon, a monkey, you can;

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    This beauty, if according to your fate, you are a very strong woman, respected, in fact, you have also met some men, maybe you are too strong, they are afraid of you,,, if you talk about marriage, not ideal, if you want to overcome fate, you have to rely on yourself, I hope that your character can really change, the real son of heaven will appear in front of you at any time, remember, the character must think of a woman, ok

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Happiness is all around you, believe in yourself to be happy and happy.

    Use your eyes to find a man who you love less and he loves you more.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I'm lucky; If you lose it, my life, with the attitude of fate, there will always be someone who will come back to you.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Forehead.. I'm a post-80s generation and I'm single, so it's better to dating.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If you really love him and be with him, if it doesn't get to the point where you don't have him, you still choose other people, mature people, let you love you a little, I suggest you still choose a more mature one, and you will regret it when you get married in the future.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Wait another two years and it will automatically break up, we used to be in a similar situation to you, and after four years of talking, we finally broke up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Only after doing anything can you know what is most appropriate, and children learn to walk only when they stumble.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    This is because they care about each other, but it's not good to be noisy all the time, two people must talk a lot, and a little talk is the best, if you want to get married, you still have to be cautious.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    In fact, in the process of falling in love, you should understand each other's outlook on life, values, etc.

    As for now, if it were me, I would start small and let myself have a common hobby with him.

    The most important point is that if you don't want to give up this marriage, you should communicate well with your husband and change some of your views, of course, it is not for you to enter the financial industry, so that you can completely change yourself for him, then it is not yourself. Communicate well, be optimistic, and everything will be fine.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I agree with the words of Petite PHS!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you love, you will be separated for a while, and if you don't love, you will be separated for a lifetime.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You see, you yourself feel like you're "idle", try to be a little more fulfilled and busy, and you will feel that this is not a problem at all.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your problem is not only a question of values and outlook on life, but also a question of the ability to love.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Actually, I don't think you can't get along, it's just that you don't want to communicate more, understand more, and communicate more. Life is not as difficult as you imagined, take a step back, you are both very suitable for each other!

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    No, it's still the same sentence, let it be.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    The way people get along with each other is based on the relationship between two people, and the relationship between husband and wife is the most complex, difficult, and tangled of all relationships.

    It is normal for husband and wife to quarrel from time to time, after all, the growth environment, personal preferences, psychological quality, and acceptance of two people with different bottom lines actually want to be harmonious, it is very simple, there must be one party who knows how to understand and deal with conflicts with a conniving and pampering mentality, and after a long time, a pattern will be formed, the calm party can enjoy himself, and the connived party will also sometimes feel guilty and compensate for the other party, so that in the case that both parties have not reached the bottom line or touched the bottom line of the other party, it will be very warm and happy, and what you want to do depends on the degree of your love If both people are very rational, have not relied on each other, or have a very lenient attitude towards marriage, then it is not impossible to be friends again, ask your heart, weigh the pros and cons, make a choice, and bless you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    In fact, seeing your description of your current situation, I think you happen to be complementary, of course, life after marriage and love are completely incomparable.

    Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, because small trivial quarrels are what every family has to face, I think the most critical question is whether the love between you is still there, if there is no problem with the relationship, then there is still a way to solve these small things. Based on the fact that you are studying psychology, I think there are some things that you will see very thoroughly, such as your husband's psychological changes, of course, in the process of coordination between two people, it is best not to change any person, because human nature is the most difficult to change, you can't change it for a year, and you can't change it for a lifetime, so what I'm talking about is using your feelings, that is, playing the emotional card, saying that the use may be a little inappropriate, in short, it is easy to do anything with feelings.

    First of all, you can talk to your husband, I think he will also be annoyed about the problems that are always arguing, so use your little woman advantage to talk about it in a relaxed atmosphere, such as coquettish and other advantages, I think you will understand :)

    Some problems in the process of conversation should be developed according to the solutions you have thought of, for example, financial problems, he wants to open source, you want to open source and reduce expenditure, this is not an irreconcilable problem, in the process of open source occasional throttling, of course, the necessary quality of life is also to be guaranteed, if you feel that there is no need or luxury, you can negotiate to solve, for example, you think that there are two can be changed, then you can put forward three or four items when talking, and then back down a little, In the end, the two things you want to solve are solved, and your husband will think that you have left him some rights, isn't it good? As for leisure life, it is better to coordinate, your husband likes to read, then in the afternoon of the weekend he reads in the study, you watch TV in the living room, have a warm dinner in the evening, take a walk after dinner, talk about the day, arrange a movie or romantic dining out once a month, because your husband is busy with work, so don't arrange more, of course, when doing this, if you don't remind him of your generosity, such as telling him to read a book, I watch TV by myself, so that he feels sorry for your thoughtfulness.

    The last thing to say is that you should have your own social circle, because your husband is busy with work, so you will feel bored, so you have a few good sisters of your own, nothing to sing, clubbing, shopping, so that you will not feel bored in life.

    Having said so much, I hope you can use it, and I wish you more and more smooth feelings and a happy life.

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