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I think he may live endlessly in the past with his first love, and he will never be able to get out of it for the rest of his life. And if you want him to come out, the only way to let him go is to let him go by himself, not to turn forgetting into forgetting, but even if he can't forget that person, he can live his life well.
Recently, I watched a movie called "A Hundred Times in Love with You", which is about this type of story, where the male protagonist discovered a magical record when he was a child, and that record allows him to easily travel to a certain point in time in the past and do what he wants to do. Then he used this magical record to pursue the girl he liked.
The male protagonist and this girl,A lot of things happen between friends and lovers.。 But unexpectedly, just after the graduation performance, the heroine was killed by a car accident. This male protagonist belongs to a person who will never forget his first love for a lifetime, and he keeps trying to save the heroine's life with a record ......
However, he tried 98 times, but he couldn't change the ending of his first love who died in a car accident. In the end, it was discovered by the girl, and the last 2 actions were also declared failures, and the girl even broke the magical record.
This time, the male protagonist did not be able to repeat the torture of love and the departure of his first love a hundred times. And he finally understood that he was repeating constantly, although his body was only 20 years old, but many years had passed, and this kind of life was too tiring, and he needed to continue to look forward and stop drowning in the death of his first love. And this, too, is the girl's wish.
Indeed, first love is very memorable. But most people's first love is young and ends without a problem. Didn't make it to the end.
If a person never forgets his first love, he will always try to try to recover his lost lover, just like the male protagonist in the movie. But in the relationship, not all hard work and dedication will be rewarded......
Even if you can't forget it, even if you have suffered a lot for your first love, the other party's life has nothing to do with you......Your efforts can only move your own ......
So, stop living with your past lovers and let go of each other. You don't need to deliberately forget, as long as you don't work so hard, stop closing your heart, and slowly adapt to life in a world without each other, everything will gradually fade ...... with the passage of time
Of course, love is a very subjective thing, and if you have to insist on it, then just continue to like each other. But don't let yourself live too hard and tired, even if you decide that you will live this life alone, there is no need to pester each other and disturb each other's life ......
May we all be free from being trapped in love, not being confused, and being at peace with what happens.
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What can I do How can I break up two families and be selfish together If I can't forget it, I will hide a corner of my heart and slowly cherish it When I miss him, take it out and take a look.
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I can't forget it, so it's rooted in my heart, I haven't figured it out, do I have a first love? Regardless of my willfulness, I decided that it was whether it was or not. Let's do it.
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Love is only about the present, it has nothing to do with the past, now love is love, if you don't love, you don't love it's as simple as that, now I love it. The outcome is up to him.
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If a person can't forget his first love for the rest of his life, put him in the bottom of his heart and hide it in his heart. Because first love is the most beautiful and hard to forget. It's the same for everyone.
What we have to do now is to cherish the happiness in front of you, so that you don't think about your first love, it must have become a thing of the past. Don't deliberately reminisce. It can't be anymore.
It can only be kept as a good memory. Keep yourself busy, don't be half-hearted, and cherish the people around you in front of you, which is the most important thing. The key to adjusting your own mentality is your own psychological problem.
Try to put it down.
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First love is generally unforgettable, but not all, some people are just a cloud of the past.
1. What most people miss is not their first love, but the pure mood of their first love. First love is unforgettable, not because he is handsome or beautiful, nor because what he can't get is the best, but because the person who falls in love for the first time is extremely innocent, has no selfish thoughts, and just wants to love each other without reservation. And the love in the future will not be so pure and flawless.
Innocence is in the world.
The most precious thing. Therefore, even if a long time has passed, the first love is still the most beautiful scenery in the heart.
2. All this comes from your past dedication, from your emotional investment, if you want to forget unless your soul can be cut, so don't forget it, you are a lovely girl, there should be someone who understands you to help you heal the trauma and dilute everything unpleasant.
3. I often miss my first love, not the person who misses my first love, but simply misses the time of my first love.
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