After being dumped, will a girl want to take revenge on her ex?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-05
33 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    How could it be that I miss him so much The girl cries in addition to crying.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I don't think that's necessarily the case? In fact, I think that many girls go on a diet after being dumped, but they will secretly feel uncomfortable by themselves, and will not go to their ex for revenge or anything, maybe they will have a little idea about him.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    After being dumped, the best revenge for your ex is to live a better and better life, become better and better!

    I once heard a male friend say that the moment he misses his ex-girlfriend the most is to see the other party live more and more wonderful and beautiful after leaving him!

    So, dear sisters, don't think about hurting yourself or hurting each other, it's the stupidest thing to do!

    If you want to make the other person feel guilty by hurting yourself, then you are really stupid! If the other party dumps you, he will definitely be willing to abandon you if he doesn't love you, don't say that you hurt yourself, even if you beg him to get back together and humble himself to the dust, it will only cause the other party to be bored. And if you hurt yourself again, you will only become a crazy woman in the eyes of the other party, and you will be glad that you left you earlier.

    Don't hurt yourself, but cherish yourself!

    Two months ago, I ended my nine-year relationship with my ex, and his "let's break up" brought so many years of relationship to a successful end. Like all lovelorn people, I have closed my eyes and wished I wouldn't have to wake up again. However, even in the most painful times, I still eat and sleep well, because I know that no one loves me, I can only love myself!

    My body can't collapse, and I still have to live well. Even if I haven't completely walked out of the past yet, I know that I will get better day by day, I will get better again soon, I still have a vision for the future, and I still don't give up on myself!

    Also, if you want to hurt your ex, girl, don't be confused! Really, really, really unnecessary! There are many ways to relieve hatred and vent, and the worst outcome is that you hurt your ex, what if you are criminally responsible? And then put yourself in it for the rest of your life, is it worth it?

    As I said at the beginning, the best and best revenge is to make yourself better and better, and live a more and more wonderful life! Turn all the grief and pain into motivation to become a better version of yourself! Improve yourself in all aspects, exercise, make your figure better and better, keep learning, and make yourself better and better!

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Love is a particularly inscrutable thing, when in love, two people stick together all day long and give each other their best things. But after the breakup, the two of them were the most familiar strangers, and they forgot about each other and never saw each other again.

    Love is an extremely unstable thing, because feelings always follow feelings, and when you feel wrong, then the status of love may be crumbling. I don't know if everyone wants to take revenge on their ex after breaking up? <>

    In fact, I have seen a lot of "revenge" on my ex, although I don't know if these practices have an impact on my ex, but I personally think that at least the behavior they show is a helpless rebellion against their ex. After some girls are dumped by their boyfriends, they quickly enter a new relationship, and the object of this new relationship may be a friend of their ex. Even if I don't like this boy, but in order to take revenge on my ex-boyfriend and make my ex-boyfriend uncomfortable, I chose this method.

    Although they knew in their hearts that they were dumped by their boyfriends, in fact, after they broke up, they couldn't affect their exes by doing anything. But they also want moths to fight the fire, just to teach their predecessors a lesson.

    For me personally, after a breakup, there will be such a revenge mentality, but this mentality does not necessarily manifest itself in certain actions. I will make myself better and better, and I will make my life more colorful. When I was surrounded by the excellent opposite sex around me, this was my truest revenge on him.

    When hurt by my ex, I can't let myself be a moth to the fire and get bogged down in the mud anymore. Only when you have a clear head can you make a long-term revenge plan. Only by becoming a woman he can't get can he really regret it.

    Only by making yourself better and better can you get rid of the abandoned self in the past. So the best "revenge" for his predecessor is to make himself better and better, and when they meet again, he regrets it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Personally, I feel that since they have already broken up, then there is no need to choose revenge, because there is no meaning, this relationship, since it is over, then the fate of the two people has not arrived, and the emotional matter is not reluctant, if you retaliate, it will be too cautious, so I will definitely not choose revenge, which will only make you fall deeper and deeper, so I still look forward.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Breaking up with your ex will not choose to retaliate against him, because it is unnecessary, it will hurt both parties again and again, and this kind of thing is a waste of time, there is no need to spend too much energy on it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    After breaking up with his ex, he will not choose to retaliate against him, although he broke up with his ex, showing that his fate with him is over, no matter whether it is right or wrong, he will not choose to retaliate against him, but bless the other party's future love life.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I won't choose to take revenge on him, because you've broken up, just get together and disperse, just live your own life, there's no need to retaliate against him, and you won't get anything.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I won't take revenge on him, because we have become a thing of the past, his life, his influence will not stay until the future, I will start again, just when my world will not be like her, I will not be affected by it, and I can still choose my own happy life in the future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    No, there's nothing to retaliate against. Since everyone has been together, there have been good times, even if they are not together, don't be hateful, revenge is actually not beneficial, it is not beneficial to the facts.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I won't retaliate against him, since I've broken up, I won't waste my feelings on him, if it wasn't at the time, I will also redeem it in time, since it has become an established fact, I will pay more attention to the present and the future.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I will not choose to take revenge on him. Because the two of us broke up, there was no deep hatred, and there might be no intersection in the future, so there was really no need to waste time to retaliate against him.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After breaking up with your ex, of course, you won't choose to retaliate against him, because there is no need to retaliate against each other, since both parties are not suitable, breaking up is a relief for both parties, after all, both parties have had a relationship, so there is no need to retaliate against each other at all.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't choose to retaliate against my ex after breaking up with my ex, I can't force my feelings, it's good to get together and break up when I break up, as long as he doesn't do anything sorry for me or deliberately hurt me, I can let go.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, since we've broken up, we're a stranger, and he's not worth my time and energy on him, I don't think it's necessary.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I won't choose revenge, I can't be friends but I can't be enemies, everyone has the right to choose, breaking up means that the two people are not fateful, and they can't put the blame on her.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Whether it is a peaceful breakup or a breakup due to betrayal, there is no need to choose revenge on him. Since you broke up, the two have nothing to do with it, and no matter how much resentment you have, it will end with the breakup, not to mention that if you retaliate against him, he will retaliate against you, and if it goes on like this, it will be a lose-lose situation in the end. You live your life well, work hard, live your own wonderful life, and find someone who loves you, which is revenge on him, and the better you live, the greater the revenge on him.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    will not choose revenge, no matter how the person who treated him wholeheartedly at the beginning, he will not think about revenge for his past behavior because he is separated, and the two should be decent when they are separated.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I'm not going to retaliate. I think if you break up, leave with dignity and be okay, after all, we have loved each other so much, and we have given so much to each other, and we have gained so many good memories, and there are problems in the relationship, there must be problems on both sides, but one party is more seriously wrong, so it is good to bless each other after the breakup.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course not. No matter how much his ex hurts him, he doesn't want to take revenge on his ex. No matter how much love was once there, the past is gone. So as not to add so much trouble to yourself when you get rich, it is all self-deprecating.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, I can't talk about hate, after all, I once loved, although in that period of youth, we once paid, but we also loved. Some of the memories are still very good, and he will even retain some of his habits after the breakup. So there is no hate, no revenge, some may just no longer contact, no longer entangled, he takes his Yangguan Road, I take my single-plank bridge, it's as simple as that, there is no so-called love-hate entanglement, after all, it's a bloody plot only in TV dramas, isn't it?

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    After breaking up with my ex, of course I won't choose to take revenge on him, and I also hope that he can live happily, after all, two people are so sweet when they are together, why do they have to become enemies after breaking up?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I won't choose revenge because we're going to break up, showing that we're not a good fit, and what I should do is get out of the relationship as soon as possible.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No. Because it is yourself who takes revenge on others and suffers in the end. Since the two once fell in love.

    Let's leave some good memories for each other. Feelings are a matter of two people, no matter who is right or wrong. An acquaintance is also fate.

    Since they broke up, they all left some dignity for each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    No. Why retaliate. Your revenge is actually at the cost of hurting yourself, and the other party doesn't know or care at all. Your best revenge is actually to live better than him, rather than doing something that will make both parties miserable.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    I won't retaliate against him after breaking up with my ex, because revenge is a denial of this relationship, no matter what the reason for breaking up, I used to love each other, and if I broke up, I would get together and disperse, and if I retaliated against him, I would have to keep entanglement, and I would turn myself into a very bad person. It's better to be happy and live a life, after all, life is hard enough, so don't embarrass yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    No, after all, it's already broken up, and it has nothing to do with me, besides, I used to bite my pistachio when we were together, why should I take revenge on her when I broke up, it's really not necessary. Let's just say that he is not wrong, he doesn't love this kind of thing, he just doesn't love it.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There's no need, if life is only as first seen, after all, the heart of being together at the beginning was real, but it was found that they couldn't bear each other's shortcomings when they got along later, so they would break up, revenge may not be your sincerity, just unwilling, the important thing is that revenge will not save the other party's heart, and it will not be good for anyone. What we have to do now is to work hard to improve our abilities and make ourselves stronger.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Of course there will be no retaliation. If you choose to take revenge, it is actually a distrust of this relationship, and it is a manifestation of hatred for this relationship. But think about it, will the person you once loved so much bear to hurt him?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    If you break up with your ex, and I won't choose to take revenge on him, no matter who is right or wrong, when we were together, we all paid each other sincerely, in order to start the future life, we should work hard to enrich ourselves, start the future life, try to forget him, only forgetting can better start a new life, if you choose revenge, then it will only be more laborious and laborious, and it will be difficult to make yourself happy.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No. If it is he who is sorry for me, then I leave him in time to stop the loss and leave a bad choice for a better life. There is no need to disrupt the rhythm of my life for such a person, if I am sorry for him, then there is no revenge.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    No, it won't. If you still want to take revenge on the other party after breaking up, it must be hurt in the relationship (it is not excluded that the wrongdoer thinks that he has been hurt). But thinking about revenge on others will only hurt you twice, not to mention that you once loved each other, why bother to have no memories.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    How does a man usually retaliate after being dumped by his girlfriend?

    1.The boy wants to take revenge on the girl after he is fallen, and there is also a reason why he wants to retaliate, that is, because his girl deceived the boy's feelings, the boy invested most of his energy and property, and wanted to get these losses back, but the girl didn't give it, so the boy wanted to take revenge on him. Some people think that when a man completely lets go of a woman, there is inevitable hatred.

    This is not the case. In a sense, the so-called hatred comes from the love of the heart, which is a manifestation of not really letting go. The real letting go is not to love, not to hate, not to ask, not to like or sad, to be polite like a stranger, in fact, to keep a distance.

    No matter what a woman does, says, or thinks, she can't stir up ripples in her heart. As we all know, when you love someone, you really care about the other person more than yourself, and you will even worry about whether the other person is well fed and clothed for no reason.

    2.After a breakup, the other party will always mention you in front of friends and acquaintances, and will say a lot about you, the things you have experienced together, the bits and pieces you have together, and a lot of shared memories. I'll keep mentioning you, not because of anything else, but because I can't forget you.

    Although we broke up, I still keep everything about you in my heart, and I will always remember these things. That person wasn't for anything, just wanted you to come back and let you come back. The person who always talks about you hasn't really forgotten you, and he hasn't said that he will get back together with you, but he can also wait for the other party to say back together.

    These are all possible.

    3.Although it doesn't matter if you break up, you still have to go your separate ways and not bother each other. However, not all breakups are because they don't love each other, but because they have to break up because they don't love each other, or because they are carried away by something and make the other person angry.

    Such people often regret after a breakup and want to reconcile. They always find all sorts of reasons to chat with each other. Even if there is nothing to talk about, they will find various topics to talk to themselves.

    Sometimes, they will deliberately provoke you with something just hoping to be forgiven and win back your favor. If both of you are like this, you have a good chance of getting back together.

    4.If the breakup is nothing to him and he doesn't want to look back, men generally adopt a "stealth" strategy, they try to keep a low profile, hoping to avoid the limelight. If your ex-boyfriend is brushing up on his presence, you might as well let him know that he has managed to capture your attention.

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