How can you forget the boyfriend you once loved?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I'm also a person who has been hurt emotionally, and I know how you feel, and what I want to say is: it's your others who can't force it to go, and you can't force it if it's not yours.

    The twisted melon isn't sweet, is it? How can we forget him,,? I want to say don't force yourself to forget.,It's only going to be more painful.,Really,Just let it be.,It's good to go with the flow.,After a long time.,Slowly it will be forgotten.,At the beginning, I poured all my feelings into my boyfriend.,Even after knowing that he betrayed me.,I still chose to believe him.,But he actually sent a message that he had a girlfriend.。。

    What a blow. But I didn't hold back at the time, but let go in a chic way, to be honest, the first period of time was really painful, although the pain still survived. Thinking about it afterwards, it's nothing.,It's just that I lost someone who doesn't love me.,Maybe he's not destined for someone.,Just a passerby.,When you remember.,Occasionally.,It's just a slight smile.,There's no previous pain.,There's no previous care.。。

    The most familiar stranger.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since they are no longer together, why torture yourself like this?

    Heartache is inevitable, but you can't go on like this forever, you still have your own life, your own pursuits, don't delay a lot of things for him.

    Take a good look at your mood, give more opportunities for a better life tomorrow, I hope you can come out of this shadow soon, to find your true own happiness, bless you!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Don't be sad, dear.

    What's yours is yours, you can't run away.

    It's not yours, no matter how much you catch it, it's in vain.

    You know what? Like you, I love olive green. I also believe that we will be together, and I also believe in eternity. I also know that there will always be a me in his heart ...

    But. Time, distance, misunderstandings, and contradictions can overwhelm everything and catch you off guard.

    I like Faye Wong's lyrics: I don't want it if it's not mine. I don't love me if I don't love me.

    Love in the past, everything can only be chosen lightly.

    Whether it is pain or despair, it will become a thing of the past.

    But, dear girl: the only thing you have to do is to forget about the pain. Live a happy and happy life, and live a more wonderful and excellent life. Believe in yourself, you can do it.

    Others say that the best way to forget old wounds is to start a new relationship all over again. To quote a sentence from a certain movie, "I'd rather be proud and moldy than humble love." Rather lack than abuse.

    I wish you a happy and happy ...... all the way ahead

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Prove that he doesn't love you deeply enough, and he may also fall in love with someone else, and often mentioning that breaking up is of course not easy to pull, which is equivalent to often reminding him that one day you are going to leave him For a long time, he is psychologically prepared.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I haven't experienced it though.

    But you can find another person to accompany you.

    Don't be sad.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No matter how sad you are, time will not go back, men are like this, they won't cherish it anymore when they get it, is it useful to be sad, you don't want to think about how worried your parents are when you're hungry! You still say that his mother doesn't like you, so what's the point of you barely being together!

    Now start to be kind to yourself, go shopping, buy new clothes, eat good food, dress up beautifully, no matter what happens in a year, at least don't let yourself regret it! Don't spend all your days trying to prepare for a year from now, he's just a passerby in your life, that's all.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find someone who can talk, cry if you want to, it's better not to be with this kind of person.

    After a while, it will be calm, although I said it simply, my first love, I cried for a week. It's not a big deal. When the next relationship comes, you will find that everything is still so beautiful.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Hello friend, are you free now, if you are free, let's talk about it, I am willing to open your heart for you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Don't force yourself to forget, that will only make you remember more.

    Time is the best medicine.

    He's not all you're about.

    Why torture yourself for him?

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, I want to tell you that it is not easy to forget someone, or to forget a relationship. It takes a lot of effort from us. Someone once said that it is impossible for a person to forget the person he loves, because once he forgets, it is not love.

    If you think about it, it still makes sense. So you don't have to blame yourself and be distressed that you can't forget someone. But we can't forget what we don't want to remember, and it will be very uncomfortable, so we still have to try to forget or look down on it.

    1.It is not easy to forget a person who has a weight in his heart. It's not impossible.

    You can use the distraction method to distract yourself, such as: play more with friends, find more fun things to do, read more humorous books, and relax. Watch some comedy and relax.

    Listen**, and remember not to be sad. Go out and socialize!

    2.Time will make you forget her (him), it is better to keep yourself very busy every day, it is better to stop living in a city with her (him), it is better for you to make some new friends, maybe which one is your favorite in the future. In fact, you don't have to forget her (him), because the more you want to forget, the more you want to forget, you will subconsciously think of her (him) again.

    You can go and remember every bit of her (him), when you recall, you will feel that you are very happy, but if you recall a little bit every day, every day a little bit, you will find that your memory is slowly unable to remember, just like we eat three meals a day, sometimes even what you eat in the morning, you will forget. Don't go out of your way to forget someone, because then you will love her (him) more than before, it's easy to love someone, it's hard to forget someone, and it's even harder to really hate someone. You just need to leave the forgetting you want to treat her (him) to time to solve, and it's okay, after a long time, you will forget if you don't forget.

    3..In fact, sometimes you can think differently: you love her (him)!

    But sometimes, giving up is for a better option. On the one hand, you can find your own true love and get someone better than her (him). On the other hand, you love her (him), but you want her (him) to live better, maybe she (he) left you and lived better than now, you should actually be happy.

    Friend, I can tell you a thing about me: to be honest, I have always liked someone, but that person doesn't like me now, but I also want you to be the same, every time I think about it, I have a feeling of regret, but I tell myself that I still have a long way to go, and that person doesn't accept me, no matter how hard I try, it will be useless. So bury this feeling in the bottom of your heart and treasure it.

    Let me tell you another word: my current girlfriend (boyfriend) or wife (husband) around me is not the person I love the most, in fact, it makes sense to taste it carefully.

    The above is my summary, although it is not comprehensive, but I hope it will be helpful to you.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's not hard to forget about a man. It's simple, but it's not easy. The best way to forget about a man in the shortest amount of time is to find a new relationship.

    Let another man settle in your heart. Replace the scumbag you will never forget. If you don't want to start a new relationship right now.

    Then there are also good ways to travel alone, and go to the mountains and rivers alone. Always do something. These things can make you forget about the man you shouldn't love.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I made a lot of mistakes when I asked questions, I always lied to him, and then he got angry, and now he is cold to me, but I have been apologizing, and I have been making amends, and he said that he was light, but it was very uncomfortable that he ignored me, and the answer was uh-huh, and you can see that you regret it.

    Are you sure he's really not leaving you?

    Ignore you.

    Asking questions, he spoke very hurtly, I sent a lot of messages, but he ignored me, and replied um, whether men or women, they don't want their friends or lovers to lie to themselves. Trust is our only bridge. If you find out, you can give the other person a little time to calm down.

    Why do you want to forget about him.

    I asked me a lot of questions, but he just didn't like me.

    Question: No. How can I forget about him.

    Answer: Well, you calm down with each other for two days, you can tell him that you care about his feelings, and if you haven't been contacted after two days of calming! Maybe you can think that he may have a new friend.

    I'm sure you're good and there are a lot of boys around you, and we can try to develop a new relationship to make up for the gap.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    The more I think about how I can forget this man, the more I remember this man. So it's not about learning how to forget her, it's about learning how to let her go. Live in your own moment and create your own future.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Since it is a loved one, why should you forget

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Forget slowly with time. I forgot about it when I had too many things to do.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Looking for Lu Hong gradually disappeared (monk Jiaoran).

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