I broke up with my best friend! 20

Maybe he'll be your best friend for life Maybe he's a cloud in your life You're in your third year of high school and what society is like now You should know it, I think you should be mature It's okay if you're a friend or not Even if you break up, what if you break up your friendship Of course, you have to think about the good side of everything I think you shouldn't want to break off with him Ordinary friends can but don't get angry.

He has his thoughts, you have yours. If you feel that you still want to be a good friend with him, then be brave enough to tell him what you think, let go of the past, and say your true words sincerely, don't blame him, because you are not sensible yet, and you may not realize what you have done wrong. I think he might just say something like that for the sake of face, so go and tell him what you think, and don't let time dilute this precious friendship!!

It is normal for people to drift apart from their friends or even quarrel and break up after leaving school. Here are some of the possible reasons for this:

1.Changes in life environment: After graduation, people often face different living circumstances and jobs, which may lead to differences in their time and energy allocation, interests, and values, which can affect their relationships with each other.

2.Shift in social circles: After leaving school, people often form new social circles and meet new people. This can lead to a gradual estrangement from their former friends.

3.Reduced communication: After graduation, people may feel stressed and have less contact with friends due to work, family, etc. Lack of communication can lead to misunderstandings and conflicts.

4.Competition and jealousy: In the adult world, competition and jealousy can be a complex emotion. When you are competing in your career, life, etc., this emotion can lead to tension in the relationship, which can lead to a gradual estrangement of the friendship.

5.Conflicts and misunderstandings: People may face different values and lifestyles in different life environments and social circles. In this case, some minor misunderstandings and conflicts can lead to a deterioration in the relationship, or even a breakdown.

Faced with these problems, we can take the following measures:

1.Stay connected: Try to make time to keep in touch with friends and share each other's lives and feelings to maintain friendships.

2.Support each other: Give care and support to your friends when they are in trouble, and help them get through them.

3.Respect differences: Learn to accept and respect differences between friends, respect their choices and values.

4.Communication skills: Improve communication skills to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts.

5.Be tolerant: Be tolerant and understanding in the face of differences and conflicts, and seek solutions to problems rather than escalating them.

In short, it is normal to drift away from friends or even quarrel and break up after leaving school. To maintain and strengthen friendships, we need to put in the effort and time, stay connected, care for each other, and support each other when needed.

Hello I understand your feelings and helplessness, I can see that you care about this friendship very much, the first thing you have to find out is what caused her to break off with you, who is right and who is wrong, or is she really angry and emotionally impulsive to say it, in short, you have to lower your face first, and have a good attitude When she is angry, you go to her to talk about your thoughts and get her understanding! Hope it helps.

Because you moved into the dormitory first, although you think that you left a lot of space for your friend, but from her point of view, you may think that you took up space first, so there is less space left for her.

This situation is actually caused by the misunderstanding of the other party. However, if your friend abuses you, then I think it's okay if you don't make friends, after all, it's a misunderstanding, everyone should understand and help each other together, you have tried your best to help her, even if she has a misunderstanding and gets angry, she shouldn't scold.

You may not be able to get along like good friends in the future, but you'd better explain it and explain the situation and show that you're not a selfish person. In the future, it will be good to get along with ordinary colleagues.

In fact, this is a manifestation of personal selfishness. Everyone in the world is like that. You can't blame him, but he obviously has a princess illness in this matter.

Friends like this. It doesn't have to be a deep friendship. But as a friend.

It's good to say something thoroughly, he may have some misunderstandings. Maybe you didn't notice. For him, it was a very much.

Sad thing. So you have to talk about it openly. It's good that communication is so convenient now.

It doesn't matter if you make such friends or not? He still doesn't appreciate your consideration for him. It shows that he doesn't treat you as a friend at all.

After that. If he's still like this, if he doesn't want to teach you, you give up on him.

It only proves that you didn't know each other well enough, or as time passed, he felt that your friend was not as important as other small things. I think you should think about it now, did you do anything wrong? Think about it from his point of view, if you haven't done anything wrong, then I don't think there is any need to accommodate him, to be honest, people will have countless friends in this life?

All you need is one or two friends.

Your friend is too selfish, not worthy of deep friendship, this matter is not your fault, let her go, you have been friends for several years, for such a little thing, she can easily say that she broke off the relationship, and similar things will appear in the future work, you can't always accommodate her, calm down, everything is fate, maybe she will feel lonely, will reflect on her behavior and admit her mistakes with you, if she calms down and will not reflect on her mistakes, I don't think it's okay to be a friend.

Such a friend is too cautious, he wants to break off friendship with you, and there is no way to do it, but you and he are colleagues, and you may also have a handover with him at work. If you want to keep the relationship. You can buy him a storage box and see if he is willing to accept your gift.

If you accept it, it means that the relationship between the two of you will also ease. But you can also see his character problems.

If you regret it, go and redeem the other person. If you find that you are wrong after breaking off your relationship with the other person and want to make amends, try to make amends at this time to see if the other party is willing to forgive you and be friends with you again.

It is enough to redeem once, don't always dwell on it. Since it is the best friend who broke up, then both parties must have experienced a major change, so when you win back the other party, if the other party has no idea of wanting to be friends with you again, please don't continue to pester the other party.

My daughter has a good friend, and one time my daughter said something that might offend her, and then the two of them broke off their relationship, and they still had to go to class together every week, and they couldn't speak. A few months later, I had the opportunity to go out to learn acting, and I finally reconciled, and it seemed to be back to before. I want to say, you just have to be yourself, since you are a colleague, just treat her like a colleague, if you can still be friends if you are lucky, if she is already disgusting to you, then just keep your distance.

Are you hurting others, there is always a reason from you, find the deepest reason! Communicate if it's okay, otherwise you will break off your relationship.

Your good friend suddenly wants to break up with you, this must be one of the reasons, no matter what gap or misunderstanding between you, you must communicate with each other to understand each other, I hope to continue to be good friends.

Listening to what you say, you are good enough for your good friend, maybe your good friend does not understand you, and she does not take into account the feelings of others. Maybe your best friend doesn't put himself in someone else's shoes at all. In fact, what you do is worthy of her and yourself.

So there is no need to be sad. If she still cares about you and cares about you as a friend, she won't break up with you.

Your good friend broke off with you again, but because of who's fault with whom, if he blindly took advantage, in the end you didn't have any good requirements with him, just break off the relationship, there is nothing to be nostalgic about.

Good friends want to break up? I think since we are good friends, then we can explain it clearly, calm down, and the two of us have a good chat, and it would be good to talk about something.

It's okay if you don't pay for such people, you don't know how to be humble, everyone lives together to learn to be humble, not to mention being good friends, what's the matter? So let her go and ignore her.

I don't think you need to feel sad and regretful for such a friend to break up, because this kind of person is too selfish, don't bother with it, let him go.

If your friend really wants to break up with you, then break off the relationship.

Both parties stabilize their emotions at this time, and they need to vent their emotions during this time, and after a few days, they will recognize their mistakes and naturally reconcile.

I don't think I can see it.

Truth be told, you're here to make money, not to be a friend.

This sentence is indeed heartless, but it is also true.

As an adult, if she asks you about the so-called "no seats for me", why don't you say it? Do you want someone else to ask her before she says? Is it a child? Want others to look at her eyes and guess what she thinks?

If the other party has such an idea, there must have been a gap before, you can ask the other party to talk openly, or you can let the other party divide the space, and everyone will discuss it.

I don't think there's any need to continue to be friends when I meet someone like this.

Friends are not like you.

Don't hurt your feelings for small things, take a step back!

I don't understand why there is such a thing when I work, this kind of thing feels like there are a lot of things in college, I should rent a house for myself after work, independent living space, and how annoying it is to stay with colleagues after work?

Find the reason and make it clear, if you still break off your relationship, then you will break off your relationship, who can't do without whom.

In fact, no one is perfect, this friend, you can't accept this, the next one, she doesn't like to eat, it's a loudspeaker, what do you say to her, he will let the whole world know, do you like it?

Of course, there is no need to endure it anymore.

Break off friendship with him. Now, there are not many people, but there are many people.

Maybe it's a good thing to break up with him, maybe you two really don't fit to be friends. In fact, there are so many people around you who will surely be a true friend of you...

People will find each other's flaws after being together for a long time, and you must know that no one is perfect, and no one is perfect.

Well, we are almost the same people who have fallen from the end of the world. Do you want me to tell you my story about her and me?

My tablemate, she has always been very good with me, but I am not her best friend, I also know this, and I accept it. But one time I ignored me because of her and her best friend, and she broke me off for a week after I said a few words. And it's good that they only have 3 days to break up.

Soon after, I took a picture of her **, she broke up with me again, and I also sent her an apology text message of more than 500 words. She didn't reply. It's been almost 4 months now.

She still hasn't said a word to me. I despaired, thinking it was a friendship forever, but I was still abandoned.

I don't know why she broke up with me because of a **. Maybe it was because I didn't apologize to her that day. Or maybe that good friend of hers said something to her.

I don't know. I don't know why my friends around me don't want to be with me, I have a good friend in sixth grade, but I always feel like she doesn't treat me as a friend, but as a toy, a toy when I'm bored. It's not that I'm suspicious, it's that I really feel it.

Maybe I should try to be independent and don't have friends.

Listen to me, friend, don't be sad for someone who is not worthy of your sadness.

Forget it. A bit of character, don't be so sad.

You might want to think about what you're missing.

I'm in this state right now like your best friend, and her friend and I don't get along so much that I basically can't stay in the same space.

So from my point of view, the best way to deal with it is, first, to show your girlfriend that this new friend is just as important to you (provided that it is really equally important), and there is no way to break off the relationship easily.

Second, try not to let the two of them be in the same space as much as possible, such as don't make an appointment for dinner, don't go out to play together, if it is really not possible, at least inform them in advance, so that your girlfriend can choose whether to go or not.

Third, it's best to figure out why your girlfriend hates him so much, if it's a reconcilable contradiction, then you can try to adjust it after asking for consent, if you really can't adjust it, refer to the previous article. (Be sure to ask for consent, don't make an unauthorized conciliation, it will be embarrassing for both parties).

Basically, that's about it, because my little friend once tried to reconcile my relationship with him, and took the initiative to ask me out with him, and everyone ended up being very unhappy, and later it almost caused me to fall out with her.

If your girlfriend really, really hates him, and you think that your girlfriend is more important than your new friend, estrangement is actually the best, and all of the above is based on the relationship between the new friend and your heart.