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It's not that there can't be results, two people who love each other and have a common goal will come together. There are several couples of my college classmates who got married, and of course there are also those like me, who broke up after graduation. Whether we can be together depends on fate.
Like you and his situation, I think it's better for you to be separated, you work and the environment will change, you will slowly change, you may meet your fate? I don't know what he thinks about you, but if he loves you and wants to be with you, I think he should start working now. It's better if it's still like you wrote.
Although the breakup is a bit painful, but for the sake of the future, the long pain is better than the short pain. Divide it.
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What about your equation? You must grasp your own opportunities, even you doubt what you will do in the future, treat yourself as a free man before you get married, don't consider his factors, because in the end you may not be able to get together at all, your sacrifice may be worthless at all, love yourself more, the world cannot move forward according to the track we have designed ourselves, and after a year, who knows? Who knows what will happen?
All you can do is be yourself! Take control of yourself!
1 Don't try to change him, women are superstitious about their abilities in this area before they get married.
2 There's nothing wrong with being realistic
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You're pretty realistic. That's up to you. If you don't think it's a big loss to wait, then you can wait.
If you feel that waiting for him will be a waste of your time. If you don't get any results, then don't wait.
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If you like him, take care of him. Tell him not to go on like this, to put pressure on him, otherwise I am afraid that if you indulge him, maybe one day you will not like him, as you feared. I hope you can be together. Bless you all.
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You've already decided, you just don't have the courage to speak. You think about the problem so realistically, what do you ask?
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Since you name so many of his shortcomings, you should seriously think about whether you really like him or not!
But emotional things are hard to say, if you think you can overcome difficulties, then a year is also a very short time, isn't it?
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The environment plays a big role, and after work, people's outlook on life will change, including love.
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It's up to you, you can be together if you want to be together, and you can divide if you want.
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Your happiness is up to you, isn't it?
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I think college students are usually fruitless when they fall in love, although it is very beautiful and sweet to fall in love with students and young people, and it is also very pure, but, one day, it will be defeated by society, society is not as beautiful as the campus imagines, innocent, and when you get to society, you will worry about life and want more things, not like in school, you will be happy for a long time if you buy a candy, and now there are many examples around me, love will basically be defeated by life, and you don't have what you want, I don't have the company I want, every day is busy for life, and I don't have a little time for myself, then you will be tired, annoyed, and the sweetness on campus at that time has been out of the sea of suffering, and the face is just the constant oppression of life, and the communication between the two people will become less and less, and there will be more and more quarrels because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, there will be more and more contradictions, and there will be more and more quarrels, and in the end, it will cause the result of dividing the year.
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I think college students are usually fruitless when they fall in love, although college students are very beautiful and sweet when they fall in love, and they are also pure, but, one day, they will be defeated by society, society is not as beautiful as the campus imagines, innocent, and when they get to society, they will worry about life and want more things, instead of being like in school, you will be happy for a long time when you buy a candy, and now there are many examples around me, love will basically be defeated by life, and you don't have what you want, The company you want is not, every day is Yuyu is busy for life, there is no time for yourself, then you will be tired, will be annoyed, and the sweetness on campus at that time has been out of the sea of suffering, facing only the constant oppression of life, the communication between the two people will become less and less, Cong Duan will also quarrel because of the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, there will be more and more contradictions, more and more quarrels, and in the end, it will cause the result of breaking up.
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Whether there will be a result of falling in love in college depends on many factors, such as the personality of both parties, the way they get along, their life philosophy, life goals, etc. Here are some of the factors that can affect the outcome of a college relationship:
1.Maturity of both parties: College is a critical time for personal growth and development, and both parties need to be emotionally and psychologically mature to cope with the various challenges and pressures of college life.
2.How to get along: Both parties need to understand and respect each other's living habits, hobbies and personality characteristics, and establish a good way to get along in order to make the relationship last.
3.Life goals: Both parties need to think about their future life plans and goals, and make sure they are in line with or compatible with each other's goals.
4.External environment: The university environment can have an impact on romantic relationships, such as moving, graduating, employment, etc.
In short, falling in love in college may have results, but it also requires both parties to make an effort to communicate and understand each other in order to establish a healthy and stable relationship.
It's hard to say, but most love really has nothing to do with money, think about it, people all over the world go to find rich people, are there so many rich people looking for them, even if you find a rich person, you have to find a suitable one that looks pleasing to the eye. Now many young people in love are struggling, struggle, such a love is practical. Although the society is very realistic, it is not yet realistic.
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Yes, maybe you will encounter some difficulties on the way, but after the difficulties, you will know what a true friend is, and I hope you can find your true friendship.
Yes, there is no one right or wrong in love, what is wrong is time, not place. Sometimes it doesn't mean that you can get it if you are sincere, don't care about what you get. Be sincere in every relationship, and although you will be hurt, you will never miss out on your best.
When the other party finds that you are not around when you are needed, you can't help him solve some small things, and you can't share his joys, sorrows and sorrows with him in a timely manner every time, after a long time, he will find that he doesn't need to tell you a lot of things, because you are not around, you can't help him, and you can't solve the problem by telling him. After a long time, he thinks that he can live well without you, and at this time, the relationship becomes no longer necessary, and often in this case, one party will propose to end the relationship.