How do you make a person who likes himself not like himself?

Actually, there is no need to do that. This hurts himself and hurts others even more, he likes you, it's his fault. You have that charm.

If you want to make him like you, you can find an opportunity to talk to him clearly and say everything that needs to be said. In that case, maybe he will choose to love you silently, and maybe he will continue to like you. It's his business.

If you want him to like it, first of all, you must do what you like to do, so that he hates you, but at the same time, we are also a hurt, landlord, I personally suggest, you think about it carefully, and then talk about it, if you make it clear I believe that people will understand. I believe you, come on, landlord!!

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In fact, let a person who likes himself not like himself. It's just resisting fate. This can also be said to make him She hates you, it's not over, people are strange, and thoughts are always unclear.

It's a strange question, if you want people to hate you, it proves that you may be too loved in life. Human nature is the strangest, we can't make others hate you more, and we can't make people love you more, only in the passage of time you will find that each of us is happy, because there is someone who hates you more and feels that there is someone who loves you more, because there is someone who loves you more and will not feel unlucky because of someone who hates you Life is like this, friendship is like this.

I think people with high emotional intelligence will avoid conflicts with people they hate, but if they need to refute the other person in reason, they can take the following methods:

1.Don't use aggressive language or attitudes, stay calm and express your opinions and opinions.

2.Use facts and logic to refute the other person, not just the other person's personality or appearance.

3.Give the other person respect and patience to listen to the other person's words so that they feel heard and understood.

4.Identify and highlight common ground to reduce disagreements and disputes.

5.Turn conflicts into cooperation, seek ways to solve problems together, and make the other party agree with their own views.

In short, people with high emotional intelligence will respond to the person they hate with reason and calmness, avoiding over-the-top or even out-of-control emotional reactions. When interacting with others, we should establish good and friendly relations with an attitude of equality and cooperation. When you particularly dislike someone, your heart will be very disgusted, and seeing him do anything will first bring disgust, and under such feelings, you will do something that makes you feel irrational.

Of course, if you continue to entangle with him, it won't end well. Recently, I saw a little story that made me feel deeply. There was a little boy who had been carefree every day, but one day he suddenly came home in a huff.

When his mother saw it, she asked him what was wrong, and the boy said that when he was in school, he was teased by a classmate, so that he made a fool of himself in front of the class, and now he hates that classmate very much, and hopes that the other party can also be teased by others, or encounter some unlucky things.

If you really have a crush on him, keep liking him for a while until he likes you or lets you die.

In real life, in fact, this situation is still very common, after all, there are still very few people who can fall in love at first sight, so don't be discouraged, if you really like it, then stick to it. But you also need to understand in advance what people don't like about you, and why they don't like you. Only knowing what the problem is can help you better pursue the person you like.

There is also a situation that although you like him, although he doesn't like you, he doesn't hate you, but he just feels that the two of you don't have that kind of spark of love, so he maintains a distant attitude towards you, maybe he feels that this is the way to be responsible for others, he doesn't want to delay you, since you don't like it, don't consume others, this may be his simplest idea, if that's the case, then why don't you insist on insisting.

Don't think about her anymore, and work hard to improve yourself is the most important thing.

No one should be too humble emotionally.

Let me tell you, everyone has someone who can't be loved. I once met someone I really liked, I knew her for two years, and we were good friends, but she was explicitly rejected. After being rejected, those days were all gray, and I hated myself for being too weak.

But then I figured it out, life is too long, I'm only 21 years old, and I'm in such a hurry to find someone to do. Being single is the perfect period of value-added, so when you are single, you have to work hard to meet better people and things, and meet the right person.

Yes, I just want to tell her that if you miss the best me at this time, you will miss the better me in the future. I'm going to give my love to another girl.

So, don't think about her anymore, and work hard to improve yourself is the most important thing.

I always say to myself, you're great, you're really great.

If you want to live a happy life, then you have to change your life at this time, no one can control this matter, no one can decide this matter for you, and you are really the only one who can decide this matter.

Because you are the gatekeeper of your emotions.

Tell yourself that you are unique, you are worthy of love, and those who understand you must understand you.

Improving yourself is to have better choices in the future, and most importantly, to improve yourself, the circle you are in and the people you meet in the circle are better.

I wish we all meet better people.

2. Think about bad memories. If you can't restrain yourself from thinking about each other, just think about the bad memories between the two.

Question, but I see her every day, and I'm in the same class as her.

It's normal for people you like to like not like you.

First, make yourself better, strive to be positive, be a confident and capable person, and let the other party know that you are good;

Clause. Second, don't compromise in order to please the other party, don't want such feelings, no matter who chases whom, everyone is equal in the relationship, there are some things in life that need to be run-in, but you can't lose your original self.

First of all, you have to know the ideal type of the person you like, and then let yourself try to lean towards his ideal type, if he still doesn't like you, then give up in time, because there is no point in insisting on it.

You either let go of him and never bother him again, or you can change yourself and change to what he likes, I don't mind changing myself, once you change yourself, it's not yourself, even if you let him like it, the two of you won't be happy together.

Many things are always understood after experiencing them. In this case, how good it would be to just give up!

Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; After being stupid, we will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner, and we will slowly understand ourselves in the process of gaining and losing. Since it has lost its meaning to stay silent, it is better to give up is a kind of courage, but giving up is by no means a betrayal of yourself, giving up selfishness, giving up hypocrisy, you will become noble, and the sky you live in will be clear. Give up an ethereal relationship, and you will become solid, relieved, and lightly refreshed.

Try to make yourself better, and then look far, don't just look at him, when you are good enough, you will find that in fact, in addition to him, there are many people worthy of your love.

You can twist your impression in his mind, do something he likes, say something he likes, understand him, and care about him. If he still doesn't like you, stay away from him and forget about him.

If you're not his type, like he likes to be quiet and you're the sunny and lively type, then give up as soon as possible.

If you really like it, contact him more, buy him some small gifts to express your heart, and over time he will notice you, if there is really fate, they will be together. If he doesn't already have the intention to do so, let it go.

You should decisively give up this relationship, people don't like you anymore, what are you still amorous about? Unrequited love can only be said to be harmful to others and yourself, immediately cut off the love thread and find someone you love and love you.

When faced with the person you like who doesn't like you, the best things to do are the following:

1. Cut off contact, if you still like him, cut off contact. This kind of interaction is unfair in itself, and you give each other different feelings. He will make you suffer from gains and losses, happy and sad, with unrealistic fantasies and hopes in your head all day long.

For him, every communication with you is so commonplace, which in itself is unfair.

2. Do something that can improve yourself, or devote yourself to activities that you are more interested in. Such as reading more books, watching movies, traveling, learning something, writing something, etc. Distract yourself from thinking too much.

Improve yourself, enrich yourself, and let yourself grow. When you see the wider world, you may find that it is not so sad to fall in love with someone who doesn't like you.

4. Meet more people who are worthy of fellowship, on the one hand, it broadens your horizons and allows you to see that there are more and better people in this world, and there will always be better people who like you. On the other hand, it's about meeting someone who you like and who also likes you. You have to try your luck, you can't just wait stupidly.

I also have someone who I like and he doesn't like me, and I can't even tell him because he fell in love with someone else. Then I chose to give up, but I was really reluctant. I think every day how I can not like him so much.

Finally, I thought of a way to become a better person. Not to regret that he missed me, but to tell myself that I can live well and fulfilled without his liking. Someday, I will not like him so much, and I will meet the person who likes each other until the white head.

Since others don't like you, why embarrass others and yourself. If you really have to reluctantly say this kind of feeling, you may not even be able to do it as a friend.

Either give up, or work hard to improve yourself and make yourself better, of course, the most important thing is to figure out what type the other person likes, in order to prescribe the right medicine.

Then try to make him like yourself as much as possible, do your best, and if this doesn't work, then you have to give up.

Make yourself better and more powerful, so that the other party can pay attention to yourself and discover your strengths. But if you haven't tried too hard, give up.

Don't force it. Love is the joy of two feelings, knowing this truth, I wish him happiness from afar, and then turn around to meet the person who likes him, and live a beautiful life.

silently guards him in his heart, and when he sees him doing well, he is happy with him, and he will not disturb his life.

Then like him silently, don't bother him, and at the same time work hard to improve yourself and strive to make yourself better.

Then work hard to make yourself excellent, improve your temperament, and let the other party discover your strengths and discover your goodness.

You should cut off all contact and forget about him, after all, you don't like yourself. Sticking to it is also fruitless, so why bother yourself.