Why does a good girl have no boyfriend and want to talk, but she is not interested in the person who

Normal. If you are satisfied with it so easy to find, you can only say that your vision is too low. Hehe.

Believe that you will always encounter it. After encountering, as long as you give him courage, (that is, treat him with a pleasant face, don't always give people the feeling of rejection thousands of miles away) if he also likes you, he will not give up on you.

Then go after the person you like, there is always something you can see.

If you're not interested, ignore them.

Why do you have to wait for someone to chase after you and not go to the main branch to master it yourself?

What era is it now, and it's not a shame for women to chase men.

Oh, I'm the kind of person you call chasing someone who is not interested in me, I gave up, because I was teased several times, I was desperate, I gave up, and now life is easy.

The quality of people is not something that can be seen at a glance, and we need to understand it slowly, and I wish that there are lovers in the world who will eventually become married!

You are waiting for someone to love, don't take the initiative, or you will regret it, find someone who loves you instead of someone you love! Remember!

You're in the heights.

The --- girls who agree with the two of them must understand the minds of boys.

Friend, I have the same problem and tie-up as you. Hi! It's the same end of the world.

Good girl, I don't dare to be demanding.

Then you should silently bless her. At the same time, don't blame yourself, although you didn't have the courage to pursue this girl at the time, but you regret it now, you have learned a lesson, so the next time you meet the girl you like, you must be brave to confess.

If a girl lives with her boyfriend, she will inevitably have strong feelings, and ordinary people really have no way to "dig into the wall". Therefore, I advise you to give up the pursuit of her, there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower, let alone hang yourself on a tree, it's not worth it.

Hello, since the other party has found the other half of your heart, then you should bury this crush deep in your heart. You can't break up others, so it's better to bless them silently, sometimes you like to just watch each other happy, if you two don't have fate, I wish you a happy life.

The girl you like already has a boyfriend, but he is not married, and if you are not married, you have the right to choose, you pursue her now and give yourself a chance.

I didn't dare to pursue the girl I liked, and now that he has a boyfriend, I don't think you should bother him anymore from now on, because he already has a boyfriend, and if you pursue it at this time, she will be a troublesome thing for him, so from now on you can secretly observe that before you meet the girl who you think is still very good, you can observe for a while, and if the other party's relationship is in trouble, you are pursuing him.

It's a shame that you're missing out on the best time. You are already destined to be a stranger. Those who pass by, give up. Life is full of opportunities, missing the sunset, and the sky full of stars.

Since you don't pursue it, so that the other party already has a boyfriend, then bury your love in your heart, love her silently, and then meet a girl who likes you and likes her a lot, and then let yourself give all your love to this girl.

Let's just say that when some people pursue girls, they should be more proactive, decisive, and not indecisive, if others have a boyfriend, it will be more difficult. If that's not the case, at least if they're not married, you still have a chance to take the initiative to pursue it.

Dear, if the other party already has a boyfriend, then no matter how hard you try, maybe the girl will not have you in her eyes. So feelings are like this, if you meet something you like, you will strive for it, even if you don't catch it, you won't be so sorry.

Since the girl you like already has a boyfriend, you should choose to bless the other party, and next time you have this situation, you must be brave enough to say it, otherwise the girlfriend is someone else's.

She has a boyfriend, so don't bother her, you'd better keep this relationship in your heart and learn to let go.

I think that since she already has a boyfriend, there is no need to pursue the girl she likes again, and if you pursue it, she will also reject it, so why let yourself be hurt once.

I think she has a boyfriend, so don't bother, put love in your heart, maybe you will meet the girl you like around the next corner.

Then you should stay away from this girl, since this girl already has a boyfriend, she should not disturb the other person's life.

Why do many good girls not have boyfriends or even have no one to chase? What is the reason?

1. Because many good girls are low-key and will not take the initiative to introduce themselves to others.

Really good girls don't get too ostentatious, they usually dress comfortably, they don't waste too much time on makeup, and they concentrate on doing what they feel is right. No matter who you meet, you will not go to the test to sell yourself to others, which will lead to a very shallow impression on others, and only the real destined people will pay attention to the girl.

Second, many excellent girls look very ordinary, which makes many men give up their pursuits.

The excellence of girls is actually multifaceted, such as being sincere, empathetic, filial piety and respect for the elderly, and having a stable job, these are all advantages, and they will become a good girl in the eyes of many people. And these are also evaluations based on in-depth understanding, and many men pay special attention to appearance, when they see a girl, they don't have the same feeling in front of them, and they will feel that the girl is particularly simple, and there is nothing special about the appearance, so there is no urge to pursue. Most of such men will be relatively superficial, and girls will not feel sorry for missing such men.

3. Many boys think that they can't climb high, so they don't dare to pursue it.

If the girl is very good in the eyes of her relatives and friends, she will not be tired of introducing the boy around her, hoping that the girl will marry a man with good conditions. But many men are self-aware, knowing that their work is average, their appearance is not outstanding, and they have nothing to boast about. In this case, they will stay away from the girls and get to know those more ordinary girls, so that the two will not be too far apart, and life will be dull and happy.

Therefore, we will see that many girls are high and are the focus when they go to the **, but they are alone, and men should still be more confident in order to walk with good girls.

Because these so-called girls are also very demanding, they want to find a man who is better than themselves, tall, handsome, rich, educated, and well-off, the reason is that they are too picky and insatiable.

This is because everyone thinks that she is very good, must already have a boyfriend, or must be very demanding, so no one dares to chase her, which is the reason.

Because it is too good, others dare not pursue it easily. People who are too good, who say that they have a halo in the eyes of others, are worried that they are not worthy.

It's because they're a little better and sympathetic and unwilling to damage. In addition, the matching degree is too high, and many people are daunted. is only watching the excitement from the sidelines, and because they are too good, many people continue to maintain a normal heart.

It is very likely that everyone has different rules for falling in love, and it is still a bit difficult to implement the measures.

The personality is too introverted, not good at words, not good at communication, not very good at expressing what is in their hearts, people are also more shy, and being alone with the opposite sex will be nervous, embarrassed, panicked, shy, which will make the boy misunderstand, mistakenly think that the girl is not interested in himself, and lose the opportunity for further development. I don't like to dress up and it's not easy to dress up, I go out without makeup, I just wear clothes and pants when I go out, I don't have a few beautiful clothes in the wardrobe, and I rarely go to a fashion store to buy myself a few clothes and wear plain.

Can't chat, don't know how to get along with boys, more selfish and self-centered, not easy to consider other people's feelings, talking directly is very easy to hurt, not being reasonable, not understanding boys, not understanding the world, not understanding romance, life is boring. Pretty girls, no matter how good and arrogant they are in all aspects, no matter how good their personality is, there will be many self-confident and excellent boys who pursue perfection, and even if they fail, they will try their luck. And the good girl in people's mouth, who is not good-looking enough, is overconfident, has a not very likable personality, and does not have a distinctive temperament, so she will naturally drown in the crowd and not be noticed by boys.

There are some girls who are too lonely and have always liked to be alone and enjoy private space. There is no shortage of such girls around us, who have a very good family background and are very good at work. Will arrange everything for themselves, have high requirements for the quality of life, be alone and enjoy the fun.

You don't need friends of the opposite sex to change the way you live your life and consume your time and money in love. There are many such good girls in daily life, and some people appreciate and some people are hurt, even if people chase them, it is also a kind of shortcoming. No matter what the situation, in fact, I still haven't met someone who is destined.

Because most of the good girls do not take the initiative to pursue others, they are introverted, not good at expressing emotions, and feel that they are not good enough.

Some girls are slightly worse in appearance, so no one chases, or some girls have bad taste and low fashion, and there is no way to get the approval of men, so naturally no one chases.

Really in terms of conditions, it is not enough to meet the recognized standards of a good girl, there may be girls who are kind in their hearts and think they are good girls, but their hot personality is too straightforward and their emotional intelligence is not high, resulting in people around her, especially the opposite sex, not thinking that she is a good girl. It may also be that there are girls who seem to have a gentle personality and are indifferent, but they are indifferent to everything.

Most recognized good girls may have a relatively single social circle, basically only classmates at school, only contact with colleagues at work, get used to a safe and stable life at three points and one line, and get used to playing with girlfriends and friends of similar type around them, that is, they have not jumped out of this circle to contact more people of the opposite sex, and naturally there are few.

A good girl is not necessarily very attractive to the opposite sex on the outside. Some may look ordinary, or are used to not applying powder, and dress comfortably and naturally, if it is not the kind of beauty at a glance, the probability of being accosted in public is relatively low, that is, it is difficult to be noticed.

In modern society, there seem to be more and more single young men and women, and there are many beautiful girls among them, who complain every day that they don't have boyfriends.

However, once there are boys around them who take the initiative to contact them, they will not hesitate to reject those boys, and then continue to complain that they don't have a boyfriend and no one to chase. This situation has become a microcosm of the modern majority of single women.

Some visitors said that they have a friend, and the two of them have known each other since childhood, and the friendship has been 26 years old until this year.

We once liked the same boy when we were young and ignorant, and at that time, we both liked that boy, but because we knew each other too well, we found out from each other's eyes and behaviors that we both liked that boy, so, in the end, none of us was with that boy.

Later, when I grew up, I and my friends often joked about it, she said: "At that time, I should have abandoned you, fought for it, and had a relationship with that boy, so that I haven't talked about a relationship until now." ”

The visitor later added: "I didn't say it explicitly, but I thought so in my heart, and I thought she should go for it, because she really hadn't been in a relationship for so long." ”

It is no exaggeration to say that this friend is really beautiful, as a southern girl, she is 1.7 meters tall, and her external conditions are very good.

She has excellent academic performance since she was a child, and she has become even better when she grows up, and she has always belonged to the person of the year in school, and later, when she started working, she is also an outstanding type, and she is also very good at dancing, and she usually likes to exercise, so her figure is also extremely outstanding.

How can such an excellent person not fall in love since he was a child? has good popularity, has a lot of friends around her, and has a lot of people who like her, but it is true that no boy has officially pursued her.

Why does such an excellent girl not have a boyfriend?

Later, the two also had an all-night long talk on this matter, she said: "It's not that I don't want to fall in love, but I don't have to talk about it." ”

There are a lot of excellent boys around you, and some of them have a good impression of you, why don't you choose one to try first? ”

She sighed and said, "They don't dare to really pursue me, so I don't have the heart and energy to try a relationship." ”

Here, we can introduce a psychological concept called "false empathy bias", which refers to men who express a liking for women but do not actually act on them.