Does a blind date marriage last longer than a free love marriage?

In my current thoughts, I think that marriage on a blind date should last longer than marriage in free love. Many of the long-term marriages I have seen are blind dates, and free love is to quarrel every day, and sometimes fight, which is really scary, so it is better to go on a blind date.

Generally, those who marry on a blind date are older leftover men and women, they have no choice, they have reached the age of starting a family, they are sensible, and they know what they want to do and what they should do. They had no choice, and under the persecution of their parents, they had no choice but to get married.

Find a suitable person to marry, as long as there will not be much gap between the two people, it should last a long time. I don't think it will take long to fall in love and get married, although I think I will marry for love, but love really can't last long. Love is only temporary, marriage is for life.

This sentence has always been firmly in my heart.

These thoughts may have been influenced by my parents. My mom and dad got married on a blind date, and that's what I heard my grandfather say.

I would go to my grandfather's house, and my grandfather would make small talk with me about the past. He talked about my father, who said that they had kissed many times at that time, and once even brought the woman to live at home for a few days, but in the end it was unsuccessful. At that time, the family conditions were not very good, but they were not bad.

At that time, my father was so angry, but my grandfather told him not to worry, and finally fell in love with my mother, and now I have a child my age.

My dad got married at the age of 26, which should be a very old age at the time, and he usually got married very early, and he was an older youth. I feel that my family is very good now, although my parents have no love, but they are really a good couple, they have not quarreled once, I have not seen or heard once in my memory.

I think I will be in love in the future, and I will be with the person I want to love, but I may not marry the person I love, I should be cautious in marriage, and I will also look forward to the future, but the future is always vague. I hope that the person I marry has love with me, but also for a long time.

The biggest thing in maintaining a marriage is the relationship rather than how to get married, and I am more inclined to love and marry than to marry on a blind date. Generally speaking, people always unconsciously want to be close to a person they like, and want to understand each other, fall in love with each other, and cultivate feelings, in my opinion, this is love. But what is the end of love?

Marriage, but a person in love is not necessarily able to come to an end, some endings often end in a breakup, once, twice, after a long time, you are older, but there is no one who can get married? Then skip the process of falling in love and find a partner for the purpose of marriage, which is a blind date.

In my eyes, the biggest feature of blind date is different from love is that the purpose is different, love is the natural marriage of two people's feelings, and blind date is to go to this purpose from the beginning, more realistic, everyone knows, what do blind dates look at? What is the annual income? How much deposit do you have now?

Is there a car? At what price? What is your job title?

Do you have a house? How big? It's like a piece of goods, which is labeled with various labels, and some people think it's appropriate to ask for this goods, and the two people are together, even if the relationship between the two people is not in place, they will still choose to get married, because this is to get married for the sake of getting married.

So the long-term way lies in feelings, and in my heart I reject this kind of blind date, and I feel that the feelings cultivated by free love are more real.

Because if you are in free love, both parties will come together because of their feelings, and they will slowly enjoy the feeling of being in love, and if you go on a blind date, most of them will go with the purpose of getting married, so you will get married quickly.

Why do you fall in love for many years in free love, blind dates get married soon, generally only love is ten years, know each other better, and there is a lot of flexibility between each other, I don't feel anything abnormal, slowly and slowly between each other, this way of love, so his kind of free love love situation, generally has a relatively long time There are fewer conflicts between each other, and blind dates are not all blind dates, they are rushing to get married, So many blind dates are at a certain age, and they are about to get married, so she is more eager to send them to get married, so he understands each other, and it won't drag on for a long time like that free love society.

**Falling in love for many years, because when you are in free love, you may not be in love for the sake of marriage, so you may fall in love at a relatively young age, and the object of the blind date should be at the age of talking about marriage before going on a blind date, so it is faster to get married in this way.

Because two people who are in free love are because they like to be together, and they are completely together because of love. This kind of love, without thinking too much, is not necessarily for the purpose of marriage, may be in love for many years, and finally leave and break up because there is no love, not because of something else. Blind date is different, its purpose is very clear, both parties meet and date for the purpose of marriage.

Even if you have not experienced falling in love, as long as the conditions of both parties are very suitable, it will not take a long time to enter the marriage hall.

The longer you are in love, the more difficult it is to get married, generally it is best to talk about marriage for two or three years, and after talking for more than four years, it is generally more difficult, everyone is annoyed and feels used to it. I don't want to get married, the purpose of a blind date is to get married, so the possibility of a blind date marriage is very high, and the blind date is generally requested by the parents, and the parents are Zhangluo, so it is easier to get married.

Hello, I think free love takes many years, free love is more reliable than love at first sight, free love is love first and then marriage. It takes many years to fall in love freely, love at first sight is to get married first and then fall in love, in the vast sea of people, as long as you meet the right person, it is a kind of fate. The blind date will soon get married, and as for what will happen later, no one can predict.

When he falls in love with his dear, he will test for a long time, and he is young, and he has been in love for many years, because he is not in a hurry to get married and goes on a blind date, often he is older, or he is rushing to get married, so he wants to get married soon.

Because falling in love is first of all because it is not for the purpose of getting married, and the blind date is for the purpose of getting married, so the two ways are different, so generally people who fall in love have been talking for many years and then discuss marriage.

Because of free love, everyone is slowly contacting, slowly getting to know him, this process is relatively long, but if you go on a blind date, everyone is very direct to get married for the purpose, if it is suitable, get married, if it is not suitable, don't talk about it.

Free love is a relationship that is slowly established in two people getting along, maybe after a long time, they know a lot about each other, and then there is no urge to get married, and blind date is a blind date on the premise of marriage, so if both parties feel quite satisfied, it may be easier to get married.

Because free love is about feelings, and the goal of going on a blind date is very clear. If you believe him, he thinks it's right, and you can get married, and free love generally feels like it comes naturally, slowly. But generally the things that sleep until they get together will be cut off.

When the blind date is in a hurry, because it's time, and it's all point-to-point matching for the girl to find the conditions are pretty good, which one of the bad ones you have ever seen can still say about the daughter-in-law, the matchmaker is equivalent to a big data screening and then introduced to the girl, so generally it doesn't matter if the girl is not disabled or not, the quality of life is their goal.

Why have you been in love for many years? The blind date will soon get married, because of free love, he needs a process, blind date, he is a matter of time, because after all, the blind date is the reason for being here and the reason for age, you must choose to get married soon to complete, your next thing.

Because free love is generally not old, I generally think that I will fall in love first and get married and then talk about it, and the general blind date is relatively old, and I usually go to get married, and I usually don't pick it much, so I look at it and almost get married.

Because those who are in free love, they may be still very young and are not in a hurry to get married at all, and those who go on blind dates are different, the reason why they go on a blind date is mainly because they want to find someone to marry as soon as possible, and basically feel that the other party is almost enough.

Free love has been practiced for many years, and they get married soon after a blind date because they like each other in free love, and they are not in a hurry to get married and live, but the blind date is basically going to go on a blind date after wanting to start a family.

Why have you been in love for many years in free love, and you will get married quickly on a blind date, because the relationship between the two people in free love is very deep, and they are both relatively old, and they know each other on a blind date, and at the same time, they can mention the position of marriage.

Why has free love been talked about for many years but has not been married, and the blind date is soon married, it is because the blind date is under the supervision of both parents, and after a long time in love, the shortcomings of both parties may be exposed, and they slowly do not want to get married.

Free love is based on the premise of love, blind date is based on the premise of marriage, and love is not the same as marriage. Love is a matter of two people, marriage is a matter of three families, and many elders think that children belong to adults after marriage. Getting married means taking on the responsibilities of your own small family.

Many people don't think about getting married at the beginning of their relationship.

Free love to talk about this relationship, and free love briefly married, there will be all kinds of problems, talk about weddings, talk about bride price, talk about houses and blind dates, from the beginning to put these things on the bright side, these things meet the marriage, these things do not meet the marriage, these things do not meet the marriage.

It's hard to explain the emotional things clearly, free love and love for many years, but the blind date will get married soon, probably because of the age, and the blind date will get married immediately when you meet a suitable one.

Because like the dormitory has its own purpose, because the purpose of your blind date is to get married, but free love, you will find that many times it is not for marriage, but for a relationship. Therefore, we should be cautious when choosing marriage.

That's because when they fall in love, they think that talking about it is the same as getting married, and the kind of blind date that is very harmonious is different, they all have a lot of beliefs, and they will get married as soon as they agree with it.

Hello, because people who are in free love are very young, and people who go on blind dates are generally older young people, and they are all rushing to get married and go on blind dates.

Free love. After marriage, it will be relatively more fierce and stable. Free love, after all, is that two people have been in contact with each other for a long time, and they both know each other.

It's not like the blind date kind. The two sides probably don't know a lot. Therefore, it is easy to have conflicts after marriage.

It's a choice that can't be compared. Because the stability of marriage is more free, love and blind date are irrelevant. Free love and blind date are just steps into the door of marriage.

And the stability of marriage is determined by the feelings of two people after entering the marriage. The relationship between two people after entering the marriage is indeed closely related to the social environment at that time. People change.

The changes before and after marriage will be greater. So let's try to analyze what kind of changes these two processes will cause after marriage?

Blind date, the difference between free love and free love, is that before marriage, you know each other much less. Because after a long period of free love, we have learned quite a lot about each other. However, you will notice that in free love, in order to enter into marriage, both parties show each other their best side, which is to give each other a good impression.

Usually suppresses themselves. Try to change yourself to fit the other person. However, we all know that the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change.

So once we get married, the relationship is over, we enter the marriage, and our goal is achieved. There is no motivation to continue to suppress yourself. So the true nature was slowly revealed.

Once upon a time, there was a saying that it was a man, who went from a slave to a general before and after marriage, and this is the case. It directly brings great uncertainty to the marriage.

In the same way, if a person is married because of their proximity, they will pay attention to their words and deeds after marriage because they know very little, and this is a life for the purpose of marriage. Oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, a little bit of trivial, each other will be considerate of each other and adapt to each other. It's a honeymoon period in a real-world environment.

In this honeymoon period, both parties will try to adapt to each other. Instead of trying to please the other person. It's a realistic way of life, and it's easier for both parties to agree on family life.

This is the ideological basis of living together. It's a real life for the purpose of marriage. It's easier to stabilize.

Because of the influence of the environment, the change of people, that is, because of the change of this specific life. During the relationship, they swore an alliance, but they did not have a common foundation for life. At that time, some of my own repression of myself, and the exposure after marriage, would cause estrangement between the two parties.

And these estrangements are the beginning of the cracks in the marriage.