The historical story of civilized etiquette is a little more urgent!!!!!!

Kong Rong let the pear. When Kong Rong was a child, he was smart and studious, quick-witted, and knew etiquette, and his parents loved him very much.

Tale.

1. The school has a working lunch at noon every day, and the teachers eat together. However, for the safety of the students, two teachers were arranged to send the students across the road every day, which made the two teachers have to eat later. One day at noon, many teachers started to eat lunch as usual, and Principal Chen was the only one sitting at the table without moving chopsticks.

We thought he was uncomfortable somewhere, but we didn't expect him to tell us a story. The story probably is that the people who talk about "Yimen Chen" paid great attention to "righteousness" and "etiquette", which shocked the emperor at that time. One of the details says:

The dogs here all know "righteousness" and "etiquette", and there is a legend that "one dog does not come, and a hundred dogs do not eat". After listening to this story, everyone remembered that there were two teachers who had not come to eat in order to send students across the street......From then on, they would wait until everyone had arrived before opening their chopsticks every time they ate.

Tale. Second, a few junior classmates, side by side talking and laughing, a teacher came in front of them, they didn't know each other, but when the teacher walked to these students, everyone else was still laughing, only one classmate, bowed respectfully, and said "Hello teacher". Of course, the teacher happily replied "hello", and the other students did not snort. After the teacher passed.

Some people said that the classmate was made of oil cakes, and the teacher he didn't know bowed to, and some people said that he was simply pretending to show others. The classmate didn't refute them, but just said: Being a polite person is the most basic requirement for being a student.

I was walking behind them, and I was very moved when I heard this sentence, and I was moved by the sincerity of that classmate, and it is really a rare quality for a person to know how to be polite.

Zhou Gong vomited and fed, and the world returned to the heart "Historical Records of Lu Zhou Gong's Family": "Zhou Gong precepted the bird and said: 'I am the son of King Wen, the brother of King Wu, and the uncle of King Cheng, and I am not cheap in the sky.

However, I bathe and catch hair, eat and spit and feed, and wait for the soldiers, for fear of losing the sages of the world. Zizhilu is cautious and proud of the country. Later, it was used as a classic for the incumbent Lixian corporal.

Chengmen Lixue used to refer to students being respectful and taught. Now it is a metaphor for respecting the teacher. It is a metaphor for the eagerness to learn and respect for the learned elderly.

The idiom comes from "History of the Song Dynasty: The Biography of Yang Shi": "As a result, Yang Shi saw Cheng Yi in Luo, and he was forty years old." One day, when I see Yi, I sit with my eyes and sit down, and I can't go to stand with You Xing (pronounced zuò).

When you feel the snow, the snow outside the door is a foot deep. ”

Kong Rong let pear Kong Rong, the word Wenju, the Eastern Han Dynasty Qufu people also. The twentieth grandson of Confucius, the second son of Kong Zhou, the commander of Taishan. When Rong was seven years old, on a certain day in a certain month, on the occasion of his grandfather's 60th birthday, there were many guests.

A plate of crisp pears is placed on the Shoutai, and the mother order is melted. Rong Sui is divided according to the order of the eldest and youngest, and each gets his own place, but he gets very little. Father Qizhi asked:

Others have pears and giants, but they are only small, why? Rong calmly said: The tree has a height and a low level, people have the old and the young, respect the old and respect the elders, and the way of being a man!

Father rejoices.

The story of civilized etiquette - sending goose feathers thousands of miles.

The story of "Sending Goose Feathers for a Thousand Miles" takes place in the Tang Dynasty. At that time, the leader of an ethnic minority in Yunnan sent a special envoy to contribute swans to Taizong in order to show his support for the Tang Dynasty.

While passing by the Weiyang River, the kind-hearted Myanmar Bogao released the swan from its cage and wanted to give it a bath. Unexpectedly, the swan spread its wings and flew high into the sky. He hurriedly reached out to catch it, but only pulled a few goose feathers.

He was so anxious that he beat his chest and cried. The attendants persuaded him: "I have flown away, and it is useless to cry, so let's think of a remedy."

When he thought about it, he could only do so.

When he arrived in Chang'an, he met with Tang Taizong and presented gifts. When Tang Taizong saw that it was a delicate satin bag, he opened it and saw a few goose feathers and a small poem. The poem says:

The swan tribute to the Tang Dynasty, the mountain is high and the road is far away. The Weiyang River lost its treasure and fell to the ground crying. The restoration of the Holy Son of Heaven can spare Burma.

The gift is light and affectionate, and goose feathers are sent thousands of miles. Tang Taizong was inexplicable, and Mian Bogao immediately told the truth of the matter. Tang Taizong said repeatedly:

Valuable! Valuable! Thousands of miles to send goose feathers, the gift is light and affectionate!

This story exemplifies the valuable virtue of honesty in the giver of gifts. Today, people use the metaphor of "sending goose feathers for a thousand miles" to give a thin gift, but the affection is unusually strong. The allusion of Chengmen Lixue.

Cheng Men Lixue" is a story about the Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Xing who sought advice from Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi.

Ercheng is a native of Yichuan in Luoyang, and he is also a famous Confucian scholar in the Song Dynasty. The second Cheng doctrine was later inherited and developed by Zhu Xi, and was known as the "Cheng Zhu School". Yang Shi and You Xing, seeking to learn from Ercheng, are very respectful.

Yang You and the others, originally took Cheng Hao as their teacher, after Cheng Hao's death, they were both forty years old, and they had been admitted to the Jinshi, but they still had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day they first came to Songyang Academy and came to meet Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Xing came to Songyang Academy to meet Cheng Yi, and met this old gentleman who closed his eyes and recuperated and sat and pretended to sleep. Cheng Yi knew that two guests were coming, but he wanted to say nothing and ignored them. Yang and You were afraid of disturbing Mr. Rest, so they had to stand respectfully and solemnly, waiting for him to open his eyes without saying a word.

After waiting like this for a long time, Cheng Yi woke up like Luo, saw Yang and You, pretended to be surprised, and said, "Ah! Yes!

The sages have been calling here for a long time! "That means you two are still here. It was a very cold day in winter, and at some point, it started to snow.

There was snow outside the door, more than a foot deep.

This story is called "Chengmen Lixue". It was widely circulated among scholars in the Song Dynasty, and later described as respecting teachers and sincerely seeking advice, people often quoted this allusion and this idiom I think you just want an idiom? 1 Kong Rong let the pear 2 Huangxiang hotbed 3 City Gate Lixue 4 Sima Guang smashed the cylinder 5 Honesty and etiquette - Yan Zhao Wang Qiu Xian these 5 thank you

Zhang Liang has nothing to do in his spare time. One day he went for a walk on the Xiapi Bridge and met an old man, wearing a coarse cloth short, who walked next to Zhang Liang and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned back to Zhang Liang and said:

Child! Go down the bridge and pick up my shoes! Zhang Liang was stunned for a moment and wanted to hit him, but when he saw that he was an old man, he held back his anger and went to the bridge to pick up his shoes.

The old man commanded, "Put your shoes on me!" Zhang Liang thought that since he had already picked up shoes for him, it would be better to put them on for him, so he knelt on the ground to put shoes on him.

The old man stretched out his feet, asked Zhang Liang to dress him, and then walked away with a smile. Zhang Liang had been watching his whereabouts with amazement. The old man walked the way, turned back again, and said to Zhang Liang

You are a child who can be trained to be talented. Five days later, in the morning, as soon as the morning dawned, I came here to meet me! Zhang Liang knelt down and said

Be. At dawn on the fifth day, Zhang Liang arrived at the Xiapi Bridge. Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there, and when he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily

Why are you late for a date with an old man? See you again on the fifth morning! With that, he left.

On the morning of the fifth day, as soon as the rooster crowed, Zhang Liang rushed there, but the old man waited there again, and when he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily, "Why did you fall behind me again?" Come early in five days!

After saying that, he walked away again. On the fifth day, Zhang Liang rushed to the bridge before midnight, and after waiting for a long time, the old man also came, and he said happily: "That's good."

Then he took out a book, pointed at it, and said, "If you study this book carefully, you will be able to become the emperor's teacher!" In ten years, the situation in the world will change, and you will make a fortune.

In the next 13 years, you will see me at the foot of Gucheng Mountain in Jibei County—there is a Yellowstone there that is me. The old man finished and left.

Kong Rong made pears When Kong Rong was four years old, he often ate pears with his brother. Each time, Kong Rong always takes the smallest pear. Once, Dad saw it and asked:

Why do you always take the small ones and not the big ones? Kong Rong said: "I am the younger brother, the youngest, I should eat the small one, and let the big one be eaten by my brother!"

At a young age, Kong Rong understood the principles of mutual courtesy, mutual help, unity and friendship between brothers and sisters, which surprised the whole family. Since then, the story of Kong Rong Rang Pear has been passed down for thousands of years and has become a model of unity and friendship.

Simple, everything starts small:

When you see an elder or colleague take the initiative to say hello, you can do this, right? Did you do it? I didn't do it, but I insisted on it.

It's normal to drive, if you don't rush those few minutes, go out more than ten minutes in advance, and take the initiative to avoid some dangerous traffic accidents, wouldn't it be leisurely?

Although the two people in the family are very familiar, how long can you last with at least respect and consideration? Take the initiative to pour a glass of water, cook, wash dishes, mop the floor, ......Others don't dare to hope, hehe.

If you can stick to the above points and make it seem simple, that's great.

As the saying goes, you should persevere, don't think that big things are things, and the success of big things is not the credit of one person, but a lot of small things are brought together.

Not to mention more, how long you can hold on, or become a habit, that is your cultivation

It's not too complicated, it's all about being concise and clear, so you don't have to look for such and such extreme challenges.

What are the immortal days of immortals? Can you persevere, becoming an immortal is not far away......Hehe. Pull it far enough

Once upon a time, there was a little mouse who always thought he was amazing and was very rude to others.

Once he went to school, a snail came up to him and blocked his way. The little mouse said fiercely: "Little one, get out of the way, don't get in my way!" The little mouse said and kicked it over, kicking the snail far away.

Once, when the little mouse went to the river to drink, he felt that a small fish in the river was in his way, so he picked up a stone and threw it at it. The little fish was attacked, startled, and hurriedly dodged. The little mouse laughed and said, "You know how good I am."

One night, on the way home, the little mouse saw a little pig lying on the side of the road, so he said proudly, "Who gave you such courage to stand in my way," and kicked it over. "Bang", the little mouse just kicked the pig's foot, the little pig was fine, but the little mouse screamed "sigh, sigh", it turned out that his foot was swollen with a big bag.

The little pig stood up and said to the little mouse, "You are arrogant and rude to others, and you don't know how to respect people, and you have tasted the bitterness today!" Only by respecting others can we gain the respect of others.

The little mouse looked at the injured foot and lowered his head in shame.

Three visits to the thatched house are the story of etiquette.