My boyfriend doesn t like work and knows how to play

A man's dedication is very important, he can be poor, but he must have the spirit of struggle.

Perhaps he felt that his family was very wealthy, and he had never tried the taste of running for life. You also take care of yourself, don't be fooled by the picture in front of you, everyone has to look forward, even if you have money, you can't help but squander it for a long time.

Judgment is not bound to suffer! For such men can not dividends. A woman's youth is very short, and there is no time to waste on him, otherwise you will be the victim in the end.

Two words. Dump someone.

This kind of man is not suitable for life.

To put it mildly. It's okay to play. If you want to get married and have children. Why don't you bother yourself!

Are you sure that your whole life is delivered to this person?

He is very good, but does he coax you when he makes you angry? It is a bit far-fetched to define a person's good or bad in this way, the person who can be with you for a lifetime should be a person whose ideals and goals are the same as yours, who has common interests, common hobbies, and a man who often makes you cry, are you willing to follow him for a lifetime? Can he give you the life you want?

I hope you understand your life.

is not mature, and there will be no sense of security with him, you have to let him endure hardships and let him understand that life is not easy.

Your boyfriend is still not sensible!

When I am with my boyfriend, I find that my boyfriend only knows how to play regardless of his career all day long, and in such a situation, the girl should slowly urge her boyfriend to put his mind on his career. Let boys know that only by working hard for their careers can they have a good living environment for each other. In life, most girls will want to go on with their boyfriends for a long time, but they can feel that most men will always want to have enough fun due to the relatively young age of men's psychological maturity.

Only when they have had enough can men turn their minds back to the family. <>

When men and women fall in love together, even though the boys are four or five years older than the girls, they still feel that the men are not mature at all. When doing things, they often only care about what they like, and men do not take their own responsibilities, when they are in love, if they really want to go on with their girlfriends for a long time, they should give their girlfriends a stable home. Work hard in your career, have a stable career, and then buy a house of your own through each other's efforts, so that girls can see the future and hope in boys.

If the boy is a person who only knows how to play, and falls in love with such a person for a long time, the girl will also lose confidence in her boyfriend, and will slowly want to break up with her boyfriend. As a girl, you can use words to motivate your boyfriend and let the boy slowly make changes. Because for a man who loves to play, it is impossible to put away the mind of playing in a short period of time to work hard, only let the boy really experience something, the boy will know that he should focus on making money.

Girls should also ask for a bride price in front of their boyfriend from time to time.

If the boyfriend has enough pressure, it will make the boy more and more motivated and want to earn money. It is precisely because there is no pressure on the boyfriend, so there is no motivation, and the girl can urge the two to want to get married earlier. Or when it comes to the family, there will be a high bride price, see if the boyfriend will change, and then consider whether to give the boy a chance.

At this time, Ying Shanlun should communicate well with her boyfriend, ask how her boyfriend went out to find a job, and should urge him to go out to work.

Tell the other party that as long as you work hard to earn money in life, the life of the two people will be particularly good, and it will also make the two people buy what they want in life, if the other party does not work hard, the two people will have a lot of financial pressure.

You should find a suitable time to communicate with your boyfriend in a calm tone and take a look at your boyfriend's plans for the future.

Such a man is a moth.

Because a person in society has to gnaw at the old and rely on him to live if he doesn't work, he is not mature at all now, and all mature men go to work.

Presumably Lou Lou must understand the truth that love is very realistic. Although money is not everything, it is indispensable. If he is his girlfriend now, I will leave him immediately, and see that he is still willing to degenerate.

For such a man, it is not possible to come soft, and persuasion is not good, but only to be hard.

That is to snub him and make him pay attention to you, because people have the nature to cherish when they lose, so you have to stimulate his motivation.

If, after leaving him for a period of time, he still does not want to make progress, or even gets drunk and is content with the status quo, congratulations on leaving such a man, because you can't get any external assurance with him except for saying love to you, so that you can feel safe.

It is recommended to communicate with him well, tell him the idea of needing money, if you really love you, you will work for you, if you are still in the same situation, it is recommended to break up, don't miss your life.

This kind of person is not motivated, and the conditions are not good, you should think about it carefully, otherwise you may regret it later.

1. As a man who is almost 40 years old, it can be said that he is relatively mature in thought, and many men are already married at this age. Before doing anything, you should think clearly about whether it is worth doing, how long it will take to do it, whether it can be done, and what will it bring to you after you do it? It's not about doing everything without a purpose, and then giving up halfway, so how much time can be wasted.

So you should calm down and talk to him and point out this point out to him and see what he thinks.

2. You said that he can't participate in sales due to gender restrictions, but many sales are men, so try to involve him if you can.

I think you're a cute girl.

There is no need to be like this for a man.

A man who truly loves you with all his heart, he won't let you bear so much.

And you're still so young, he's so old.