Why can t I be happy when I hate myself?

This is a very common lovelorn, everyone has experienced it, not only you have experienced it so badly, you know, everyone can survive, you are the same, I believe that you really look back at the age of 30, and now you will feel how stupid and pessimistic you are.

Moreover, I want to tell you that hatred and revenge will not bring you happiness, on the contrary, it will bring you more pain and confusion, and only forgiveness can bring you relief.

I've also come over like this, I've been out of love several times, and each time I feel different, and I've hated it, and I'll tell you the truth, I can't let go of it now, for my first love, when I went to college, my boyfriend found other girls. I've hurt people too, I've hurt a guy who loves me deeply.

After all this, I can now say with a smile that I am grateful to the people and things that have brought me pain, who have made me mature, made me grow, and allowed me to experience the ups and downs of life.

I really hope that you can come out of the shadow of broken love soon, time is the best medicine, and it has been tried and tested. I'm sure you'll come out of it!

After reading your supplement and understanding your feelings, anyone who is treated unfairly will feel discouraged, and it will be even more heartbreaking if they are hurt by a loved one. However, you know that sooner or later the wicked will have to pay for their actions, and you, don't pay for the mistakes of others, and it doesn't make sense to end your own life to make up for their mistakes, you say? What you have to do is to be yourself, live your own wonderful life, and there will be someone more suitable for you in the future!

I also want to say that there are many chickens where there are many poo, and where there are many women, there are many rights and wrongs, you are involved in an incident with so many women (among them and love rivals), it is really difficult for you, and when you encounter this situation in the future, flash quickly, no matter how you can't figure it out, don't go-for-tat with them, just tell your boyfriend about this matter, and the two of you will solve the matter yourself.

Happiness is also part of happiness

There is a saying that happiness is not more than you get, but less care, and I hope you live well

Don't be so pessimistic

The woman shot your boyfriend, and you're still like this?

Then she'll laugh at you

If that's the case for you

Then you lost so completely.

Are you willing? The man's change of heart means that he is not loyal to you

If you meet such a man, you can be serious

But after falling out of love, the investment in it is deeper than when you are in love

Is it worth it? There are so many things in life that deserve our attention

What's the big deal about just being in love?

If you can't get over your own heart, then you won't be happy.

Can hatred be avoided in this world?

Why does hatred arise? Does our hatred come from others? Or does it come from yourself?

Is the world we hate real? Or is it a fantasy in your own eyes?

If we can't get out of hate, should we blame the person who hated you? Or should you blame yourself?

Why is the feeling of hatred so strong? Why is the feeling of loss so depressing? Why can they so easily cover up or even erase the love in their hearts?

What is the most precious memory? What is the most memorable memory?

Is shame like a tattoo that can't be washed off?

Is shame something someone else can give? Or is it just that you are angry with yourself?

What can we have? What will we lose? What do we care about?

Is there anything in the world that lasts forever? Is it a diamond? Is it money? Is it love? Is it hate? Is it the flesh? Is it a shame?

I am very sad after reading your words, because when there are many people, your boyfriend is just an item for you, because only objects can be snatched away, you see him as your love, others can never take it away, love or not, it is up to you.

In fact, to be realistic, what you really feel that you can't get rid of is your face, and the "shame" that others give you, what you care about is not that you lose your love, what you care about is the way you lose your love, being looked down upon, the feeling of being despised by others, I can understand, and this is the reason for hatred.

You say that you want to let go of hatred and concentrate on experiencing happiness, which means that you are a very kind person, and you don't want to let hatred fill your heart, but you can't let go.

In fact, what you can't let go of is not hate, but you can't let go of yourself, when, you no longer see your feelings more than the sky, you forget yourself, integrated into life, at that time, no one can give you hate, because hate or not, it's all up to you.

Finally, I would like to give you a few suggestions.

1 Let go of your face, let go of your feelings, and focus on the details of life.

2 If you can't let go, think more about what you are wrong, because if you blame others for your mistakes, you will never escape hatred.

Time will dilute everything, live well and live a little bit, do you have to give up the whole forest for the sake of a tree? There is still a long way to go, you will find your own happiness, of course it is sad to lose a person you love, but there is no need to be so pessimistic. Get a good night's sleep and wake up tomorrow with still a sunny day.

What happiness is, it is impossible to say at once, you have to experience it slowly, and the happiness in a person's heart is different. In fact, it is also a kind of happiness to be able to live well!

Let's go out and relax. Losing a tree doesn't mean the forest is gone.

Don't torture yourself with other people's things, hatred can't solve problems, and you can't curse others to death, just add trouble.

Don't think about it so much, sort out your mood, enjoy life, and calm down and you will find that there are many scenery around. After a while you will find your own happiness.

Think about how many people love you and care about you For a man who abandons you It's not worth your time We met Even we care about you and encourage you There are so many beautiful things in the world You haven't seen your child born You haven't heard him call you mom You haven't seen him start a family Just for such a man who abandoned you? Emotional matters can't be forced, and fate is over, so let it go calmly.

What's the use of you hating him, your boyfriend won't come back, your hatred like this can only make more people see the ugly side! It's just that someone has fallen in love with you and then fell in love with someone else, what would you do if you were your boyfriend's character? When you see someone scolding your beloved in a very vicious tone, and that person was the person you once thought was good and worthy of your love, but now it is ......like this

To be happy is to be happy, to forget about something unhappy. Because there are many, many more people who care about you! I am one of those ......

You can give up your life, why can't you let go of a man who has changed his mind?

He can change his mind once, why don't you live to watch him change his mind a second time? Time will run away from everything.

Hello, I've also been broken up for a month, and I'm sure time will dilute everything. Good luck.

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), when you see you will be excited, your heart will beat faster, when you are together, you will feel very warm and safe, and he (her) will be in love, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, And you get another kind of happiness in the process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, and I have happiness with him (her).

Believe in yourself As long as there is love, happiness will definitely exist