Is there an analysis of the phenomenon of a father competing with his son for the love of his wife?

Some. Because a woman may have multiple roles in life, a woman who plays the role of a mother, a lover at the same time, a clerk, a daughter-in-law and many other ......

If this woman is well coordinated, she is often said to be a good wife and mother (not easy).

If the coordination of personal roles is not good (paying too much attention to a certain party and ignoring an important party), there will be a job and forgetting home, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, and there are sons and sons competing for favor, etc.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and honest and unfair communication can make each other more united. If each of them speculates, it is not just one person who suffers.

This is a primitive phenomenon of animals, and newborn animals will be separated when they grow up. As a human being, the reason for this phenomenon is ostensibly in the man, but in fact in the previous generation of the man, who caused the man to lack maternal love or be too doting and self-centered, and this phenomenon will occur. The solution is to find the cause first, and his wife cooperates**.

Takeaway: Love is balanced, and imbalances need to be corrected.

It's so serious, find a psychiatrist, and besides, it's good with my father.

Jealousy is associated with a bad character.

Dangerous!!! If you have psychological problems, hurry up and find a psychiatrist!

It's not about the father.

It has a lot to do with my mother, and the Lord is crying.

It depends on how the woman in the family balances the roles of wife and mother?

You must love your wife very much!

Forehead ......All I know is that love is addition, why subtraction?

I think my son gets along with his dad like friends. When my son makes mistakes, he is like a teacher. I think this state is the best.

Traditional Chinese father. It will be harsh on boys. So it leads to a very intimateness between the son and the father.

But I think the younger generation is okay. It's all a more comfortable way of being friends. But in the grandparents' generation, the relationship between the real son and the father was that kind of awkward.

You won't find anything to talk about between your dad and grandpa. They are the closest strangers.

So I thinkIt's still a father-son relationship like a friend. It's the most relaxing. When I was a child, I watched Xia Donghai in the family and had children.

Xia Donghai and Liu Xing get along, I think it's very good。Usually I chat with Liu Xing. They will also play together.

But if Meteor makes a mistake, he will also patiently reason. Give some criticism. I think the most important thing is that Xia Donghai understands Liu Xing.

Understanding is especially important. It's not that he rudely thinks that Liu Xing is wrong, but he has to explain some reason to him every timeAnd Xia Donghai will also admit his mistakes.

Some fathers may not admit their mistakes for the sake of their own face. You may think that your child is too young to be fine. But I think there's a big difference.

If I can admit my mistakes to my child, I think he will become a very secure person. He will have a reasonable view of right and wrong. If you feel wrong, you will be held responsible.

Won't run away from something. So my father really taught by word and deed.

I think it's best between my son and my father. Don't take it so seriously. Sons and fathers should talk a lot.

It's important to understand each other.

There is no father in the world who does not love his children. In order to teach their children to become successful, some fathers do not hesitate to send their children to aristocratic schools, and even sacrifice all the holidays to accompany the sparring team, during which compulsory education is indispensable, and sticks and fists are inevitable, but the results are often unsatisfactory, and there are many children who have resistance and rebellion because of this, which makes parents very distressed. What's the problem?

After careful investigation, I realized that it was the fathers' education methods that were problematic. In the face of this situation in primary and secondary school parent education, it is particularly necessary to master some teaching skills.

Respect your child's wishes and choices.

Interest is the first teacher of success, and the most important factor for success is the child's intrinsic interest. However, the education system of our families and schools today stifles the interests and motivations that prevail in children's hearts and forces children to do something, regardless of what they think in their hearts, not to let children follow their beauty, but to design a blueprint and impose their own hopes on children.

Be a good partner for your child.

The father took his daughter's hand, broke off a willow branch, gently peeled off the skin, made a small willow flute, and then played a beautiful nursery rhyme ......"It's a scene we often see in the spring, where the father is no longer a strict parent, but a happy playmate for his daughter. In fact, it is not difficult to become a child's playmate, just squeeze out a few moments, put down the parents' shelves, and actively participate in the child's activities: hide and seek, skipping rope, shuttlecock kicking, playing backgammon, ......Fathers are often involved in children's activities, and listening to children's voices is a good way to nurture children.

In order to let the child grow up healthily, it is necessary for the father to provide the child with good conditions for the development of the mind, in addition to buying some books and reading materials suitable for the child's mind, so that the child grows up in a rich and comfortable environment, the most important thing is that the father should attach great importance to the child with great love, spend more time and mind to play with the child, and meet the child's hope in terms of emotion and intellectual curiosity. Because from the age of 2, children need playmates of the same age, and through play with children of their own age or slightly older, as well as adults, children can learn to retreat, empathize and cooperate, and develop new skills, interests and responsibilities.

Praise is a good lubricant.

Baby, you're awesome! "Son, you can do it! ”…Timely and appropriate praise will encourage children, improve self-confidence, and be conducive to the exercise of will, so that children can grow up healthily.

However, don't think that there is no problem with blindly approving, but praise your child according to the scene. When a parent sees a child drawing a picture, they say, "Wow, you're so good at drawing, if you take it to a competition, you'll win the championship!" "In fact, parents don't know what their children are drawing.

And when praise becomes a habit, these praises have either become a kind of cold evaluation for children, making children scoff and losing their real effect, or making children complacent, unable to see their own real level, and preventing learning progress. Therefore, parents should be cautious, timely and moderate when praising their children, so as to achieve the expected effect.

Getting along with my father is actually quite simple. Thanks for the invitation, based on my own experience, I offer a limited solution and hope to help those in need.

My father is the same, so thrifty that I don't understand, if you eat a fried dough stick, you have to eat this steamed bun (fried dough sticks are more expensive than steamed buns), and my father has a bad temper, so it can be said that he is very irritable. A year ago, I rarely spoke to my father, and we both had a short temper and different habits, and we didn't have a common language even under the same roof.

When it comes to the change in relationship, it was after I went to college a year ago, my father wouldn't call me at first, and being in a foreign country made me feel more and more important about my family. Sometimes I wonder what happens if my living habits are different, what if my father has a bad temper, and what if I haven't communicated for a few years, it's a big deal that I open my mouth first to express my thoughts.

I started learning to talk to my father, to tell him what I thought, I started to say "Dad, I love you", I was changing, and my father was changing. In fact, it doesn't have to be said that the rhythm of life between family members must be the same (although this is important), I would like to say a few things that need to be paid attention to when getting along with each other:

1.Learn to accept. Family members need to be tolerant of each other, and it is not a loss to be tolerant of family members. If you really can't bear it, you can follow the second article.

2.Learn to respect. Especially when dealing with your parents, respect is very important, they have experienced your age, they have a wealth of experience, even if what he says is outdated, or you think it is fundamentally wrong, my advice is that you might as well listen carefully to what your family members say, this is respect.

3.Learn to speak. Some people think that you don't have to pay much attention to anything when talking to your family, and this is a big mistake! Acknowledgment, encouragement, and then euphemism about your thoughts. This will avoid a lot of contradictions. It works in person.

Friend: Your relationship with your father is thicker than water, which is the fundamental reason why you and your father are always incompatible when you are together, and you miss each other when you are not together. You and your father lived in different eras, and their ideas and ways of dealing with people must also be different, and if both sides have their own opinions, there will be contradictions, and the confrontation between them will deepen this contradiction; In the process of going into society, you have your own opinions and ideas, and these ideas and behavioral habits are often very different from your father's ideas and ways of dealing with people.

When you are young and vigorous, you often think that your father is outdated and can't keep up with the pace of the times... If there is a lack of good communication between the two generations, there will be a gap, the so-called generation gap. Young people think that they are quick to accept new things and have a unique vision, so they often disagree with their father's suggestions and opinions, and the contradictions accumulate over time.

In fact, as a person who has come from the past, my father can sometimes see the essence of things through phenomena, and sometimes listening to my father's words will indeed benefit him a lot. I believe that you love your father very much, and you must know that it is not easy for parents to raise us to grow up, "who can repay Sanchunhui with a careless heart", your father is now old, please use our gratitude to your father, try to gain time to chat with your father calmly, and gradually close the relationship with your father... If the two generations can tolerate and understand each other, they can effectively eliminate the estrangement and get along harmoniously, and you will be able to re-establish your own image and status in the heart of your father.

I wish you a harmonious family!

Father-son affection! Fight tiger brothers, father and son soldiers! The communication between father and son needs to be honest and honest the most!

As a son, you should listen to your father more, be more humble, and face it seriously with the mentality of a friend. If you are busy with study and work or often go out, you should contact your family more, at least always say hello. As a son, when you encounter communication barriers, think more about it from your father's point of view, and learn to tolerate it with patience!

Communication requires mutual respect and not the mindset of one of the parties. It is also the norm for any communication and interpersonal relationship. Listen to your father's point of view, think from more angles, look for the right and most needed, and exchange feelings for your father's love on the premise of preserving your dignity and individuality.

True great love is positive concern for the Father's life and maturity of the mind, appreciation, respect, care, understanding, humility, courage, sincerity, self-control, and responsibility. Know how to appreciate and praise your father's strengths and qualities. Avoid complaining and blaming each other, and slandering each other is also slandering yourself!

Fathers can't ignore their children's inner needs, and a too big generation gap is very detrimental to their children's growth, and sometimes even affects their children's success and failure in their lives. Respect the son's ideas, communicate actively, only by respecting a person and respecting all his ideas, the views on things, values between the father and the son can be consistent. The father's rich experience in life for many years is naturally stronger than the son's, and the father's respect for the son makes the son feel that the father is willing to teach him, and the son is willing to listen to the father's ideas, so that there will be no barriers in communication between each other!

The attitude must be sincere, modest, and able to get along with patience!

The father makes his son aware of the inner world.

Dr. Ross Parke of the University of California found that dads, like moms, are good at observing their babies' emotional performance, but their reactions are completely different from their mothers. Fathers' positive practices and encouragement to their children can help children better understand their inner world and be more generous in dealing with others.

Studies have shown that fathers can help their sons develop emotional and physical health, and they are an integral part of their son's cognitive growth. Having a father who loves him and can show his love with attention and care will make him less likely to have problems with his peers in the future and in the process of learning.

In a 26-year study to understand the role of parents in nurturing children's emotional well-being and empathy, researchers found that while the role of mothers is important, it is fathers' involvement in parenting that plays the most critical role in children's emotional well-being.

In fact, if fathers are actively involved in the rearing of infants and young children, the benefits for children can continue through their adolescence.

1.I have to admit that there are indeed differences when getting along with sons and daughters, sons will be naughty a lot, and they are easily irritable, at this time the father needs to be more patient, rather than treating his son in a violent way, boys are most afraid of developing a violent character, when they grow up enough strength to hurt people, parents will regret the beginning, so when getting along with boys, you need to be patient and teach.

2.When a boy grows up, he will one day know how to be responsible, and the best education is to teach by word and deed.

3.In the process of getting along with the son, the mode of calling the brother is the best, the father can not always put on a high look, over time, the son will not like to get along with the father, but as a friend mode to get along, so that the relationship between the two will be much more harmonious.

As long as he knows how to get along with his son, his son will become a good brother to his father, although he is not a lover in his previous life, he can also share pressure and responsibilities for his father in his later life.