Broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years 50

Updated on psychology 2024-05-24
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If we know that we will be separated from our loved ones forever the next day, will we still quarrel over trivial things today?

    Regardless of whether you get married or not, always treat him as your lover, because when we get married, all the embellishments and cover-ups are gone, willfulness, laziness, ego, etc., and slowly there will be estrangement and disagreement. Always be in love with him, maintain a sense of mystery and distance, give each other space, be glamorous, and be family-oriented, so that he will become more and more infatuated with you.

    It is important to always appreciate your lover and respect him! Friends and colleagues respect him, even if he has nothing. , give him responsibilities and obligations, but also need your care and encouragement.

    Trust him fully, remember, don't interfere with his private life, such as stalking him, rummaging through his bag, checking his phone, notebook or chat history, this is a practice that all women despise, people are like a kite, the more you desperately pull the line, the more he wants to break free, and finally the line breaks. But it's not conniving and not caring, but really going into his heart, treating him as a friend, no matter what is good or bad, I am willing to share it with you, good things, you have to be happy with him, proud of him, bad things, don't blame and nag, if so, what are we afraid of?

    Finally, when it comes to tolerance, each of us is created by God, unique, with shortcomings and advantages, this is the complete human being, so since you love Him, you must love everything about Him, including His shortcomings! In this way, you can grow old and slowly change yourself first, he will feel your changes, and at the same time, he will be like looking in the mirror, you laugh, he will laugh, you will stare at you, he will be angry!

    I don't know what I mean, do you understand? Hope it helps! I wish you all happiness.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think what you said is very right, in a lifetime, the time is not long, and if it is not suitable, you can't be forced to be together, that is to be kind to others and to yourself. When you get married, you must find someone you really love and are suitable, and you will not regret it in your later life if you have no regrets. 3 years of relationship is a long time, there will be a lot of reluctance, the breakup must be very painful, but after this period of time, it will be fine, and in the future, you will meet the right one for you, and she will also meet the right one for her.

    Wishing you all happiness!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hesitation is what you decide to do before, and since you have decided to break up, then wish each other well. There are still many three years of life waiting for you, and the memories of being together will become blurry and beautiful in the future, and you may not remember the specifics, only that feeling is still there.

    Cherish the days to come, and only then will you know who you are looking for?

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You are right to do this, if you are not happy together, it is better not to be together, and you can find your own happiness by making yourself reconcile 1

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Actually, what do you say about universities?

    I think you can think about it a little bit.

    There are not a few people who say they broke up after graduating from college.

    It should be possible to break up peacefully.

    In fact, everyone has a certain amount of psychological preparation for graduation and breakup.

    After all, the question of where to stay after university is very realistic.

    Good luck.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The relationship you had must not be forgotten, you just broke up, and the pain is inevitable.

    Since you think you're still not going to get together in the end.

    Then let's let it go and find someone who can marry you.

    People always have to go through some hardships before they can see the rainbow.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Aren't you thinking very openly, then it's going to be easy, and it won't be long before you're fine.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    When two people are together, of course there will be friction. All you can say is that you don't love her enough.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    The landlord is too infatuated.

    If you can't do even the most basic trust, there's no need to continue.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Grinding... I still make excuses when I divide it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I don't know what exactly you want us to do? What to analyze? It's still just comforting you, but it doesn't seem like you're very sad either! Forget it, find the next girl sleeping in the coffin.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    What is the purpose of all this?

    Comforting you or giving you a psychological balance?

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