What is love, and what can generally be seen whether the two are suitable

Communicate slowly, try slowly, first of all, be calm and sincere.

It's been almost 4 years, what do you say is love.

In a relationship, if you want to judge whether two people are suitable together, you need to judge it according to the way the two people get along, after all, only the parties can know whether the feet are suitable or not. In love, if you want to judge whether two people are suitable together, only you know. If two people get along for a long time and feel very happy, this is a complementary personality for two people.

In life, you will see some people who are chronic, no matter what they do, they are slow and leisurely, but the other half is definitely an acute child, so that the two people can complement each other. <>

Judging that two people are suitable to be together As a bystander, when you see a couple together, no matter how you look at the appearance of the two people, you feel that the two people are very suitable. But there is no discussion based on the personality of the two people, and there is no way for friends to get along with each other to truly understand each person's personality. Therefore, only after a couple has been together for a long time can they know what kind of person the other party is, and they can understand whether the other party is worthy of entrusting for life through falling in love.

When two people fall in love together, they must be suitable in character, so that two people can persist for a long time. Only people with complementary personalities can enter married life, and in married life, it is said that long is also a lifetime, a lifetime to love each other. If two people who are also quick-tempered are together in life, there will definitely be quarrels, so for people who are anxious, most people will find a chronic person when they are looking for love.

And people with chronic personality will get criticism when they do anything, but they will also enjoy it. <>

To love each other is to tolerate two people who are not completely suitable, only two people who are willing to change for each other. Therefore, when two people are together, they are willing to make changes for each other, which is the tolerance of love, because love will make two people want to overcome any difficulties and be with each other. There are no suitable two people in love, only two people who are willing to tolerate each other can go on hand in hand, a lifetime of marriage is very long, and you can't be too willful when you fall in love.

First of all, it depends on whether the three views of the two of you are the same, and whether the personalities of the two people are suitable, and whether the original families of the two people are the right people, whether they are particularly good to themselves, pay special attention to details, and will create some small surprises for you.

For those who want to judge whether it is appropriate for two people to be together in love, it is to see if each other's lives are comfortable. The three views are not the same.

You can observe each other's personalities, if there is not much contradiction in the personalities of two people, and the three views are also very suitable, then these two people are suitable for being together.

The incompatibility of two people is manifested in the difference in three views and the difference in the way of thinking. The family environment in which they grew up and the education they received were different will make it difficult for two people to run in in love and have a sense of discomfort.

Specifically, it is manifested in the following aspects:

1. The two people are relatively introverted, they can't complement each other, they don't like Schindler, and they don't want to show their inner thoughts. After having an opinion, he is reluctant to say it directly, and when there is a conflict, he will only fight a cold war, and after a long time, it will completely explode one day.

2. The face and heart are not in harmony, the so-called same bed and different dreams. Mutual suspicion of each other. If you turn a blind eye to an emotional crisis, emotional discord will expand indefinitely.

3. Not very concerned about the other party, emotionally indifferent, impatient to communicate with the other party, a little dispute and contradiction, misunderstanding and disagreement will be emotional and difficult to control.

4. The difference in family background is not the right household, although I know it, but I don't pay attention to it. As a result, they dare not face the reality when problems occur, and blindly blame each other, which leads to tension in the relationship.

5. There is a huge difference in academic qualifications and communication difficulties. There are great differences in values, and it is difficult to unify views on an issue, even to the point that there is no common language, and words are not speculative.

6. A person is unilaterally selfish, unwilling to empathize, think about each other, self-centered, and force others in his own heart, which is difficult to achieve mutual appreciation, mutual help, mutual understanding and mutual concession.

I think to be able to separate the word suitable, that is, to meet the standard and comfortable, in the case of choosing the other half, whether it is suitable or not needs to look at two points first, the first point is whether he is a passing lover, and the second point is also to see whether he has a comfortable daily life with him.

First of all, I think that the two people are actually suitable in terms of personality. Two people can be similar or opposite in personality, one movement and one stillness, one strong and one weak. But if the personalities of the two people are irritable, just think about it, how can such a family have a peaceful life.

Both of them have quiet personalities, so there's nothing interesting about this kind of life. There are some couples in life who are like this, and they have not quarreled for more than ten years together, doesn't it sound a little abnormal.

Originally, feelings should be a kind of irrational chemical molecules, from people's primitive DNA, but we don't know that daily life is in social development, we can't completely get rid of social development to daily life, so in the case of seeing whether a person is suitable for a person, we should consider it from the perspective of social cognition, such as what this person can bring you to provide, and whether the two of them can talk very happily with him in daily life, these elements may be a little utilitarian, but very practical, How to choose bread love, the best way to find a balance, I firmly believe that sometimes the fish and the bear's paw can be both.

For example, when a girl chooses a lover, she usually attaches more importance to some of the material life behind him, such as whether he has the ability to earn money to support his family, and what kind of quality of life he can give you in the future.

Therefore, one of the criteria for suitability is to meet the standard, to put it bluntly, the two suitable people must be all lovers who meet the standard, but they can't be suitable.

Choosing a lover is choosing a future way of life, so the process of dating must not be too tired, if you feel very tired with a person, then it means that the two of you are not suitable, and these people who are suitable together are often very comfortable in daily life together, so whether they are comfortable coexistence also affects whether the two are a pair of suitable lovers.

The one who understands you, has the same three views, and you have the same plan for the future, that is the right person. Because such a partner can accompany you further, stay by your side when you need it, and comfort you when you are sad.

There is no such thing as the right person, only two people who become the most suitable person for each other when they get along. Two people who are not suitable will definitely have a lot of contradictions and friction when getting along, and it is worth being together to make changes for each other.

I think that people who get along with you happily, people who let you not be depressed and unfettered, and people who can move you and care for you in a timely manner. The person who can make you dare to say anything and is willing to say anything, the person who allows you to show yourself completely without pretending, and the person who treats your bad as a lovely person. Being with the right person is the right marriage.

In love, the right person means that the family conditions match, the ability of the two people is basically the same, the appearance of the two people is not bad, except for each other does not have much feeling for each other, all other aspects are suitable.

The right person is first in the process of falling in love, and his three views must be consistent with you. In this way, you will have a smoother conversation. In addition, in love, your personalities, including all kinds of fun, are relatively similar, and this is the most suitable kind of person to get along with.

The right person in a love is that two people feel that it is quite suitable for two people to be together, that is, they feel that the other party is very suitable for themselves, and it also means that they are looking at the right eye, but the right person does not mean that it is love, and it does not mean that two people are in love.

That is, two people have a common topic, have a common goal, and then two people are willing to make changes for each other, two people are more clear about their future plans, and their family background is more suitable, and then they are also a good match.

The so-called person who is suitable for yourself is that you can do things to achieve a tacit state, and there will be no pressure to be with each other. Always being together in the most comfortable state is the most suitable person in love.

People who can put each other in their hearts, encourage each other, trust each other, and have similar views and ideas in life and in love, I think they are two suitable people.

The right person may be talking about your character, your personality is irritable and easy to get angry, and it happens that he is careful, delicate and gentle, which forms a complementary, which is the most suitable love.

The other party will willingly pay for you silently, without asking for anything in return, will tolerate and understand your various small shortcomings, even if there is a quarrel, it will not leave you, let alone have a cold war with you.

The two people have very suitable personalities, have many common interests in life, have many common hobbies, and have very similar views on some things.

I think that in a love, it will not make you angry, two people have the same temper, and the person with the same three views is the most suitable person.

The so-called right person is someone who is more comfortable with you in life, and you have no pressure to be with him.

In a relationship, the right person refers to someone with a similar personality, interests, hobbies, and family background.

Two people are very comfortable together, there is no need to deliberately disguise, and when they see the problem, they look at the problem from the same angle.

Hello, in a love, each other tolerates each other, thinks about each other in everything, and can understand each other.

Whether the two of them are suitable or not depends on these five performances. Whether you have the patience to understand the other person or not, communication and patience are the best ways to understand a person. When you are in contact, you must first understand each other before you can proceed to the next step of development.

So, whether two people are suitable depends on whether they are patient and willing to listen to each other and get to know each other better. For example, if you are talking about interesting things when you were a child, some unforgettable things, or some current opinions, or even some boring things in life, does the other party have the patience to listen, is he interested in understanding you, and is he willing to tell you about his own affairs?

Is it that when you don't know each other well, you appreciate each other more and more, and you feel that each other is excellent in all aspects. If you still feel that there are many things you like about each other after continuing to date, you appreciate each other more and more, and the relationship is getting better and better, then you are suitable for being together. On the contrary, if you go further with the other person and find that the other person is not as good as you imagined, nor does it meet your expectations, and even your opinion of him is getting worse and worse, and the previous good feelings are gone, then you are not suitable.

Whether two people are suitable or not depends on the performance of five people. Whether two people are suitable or not, it depends on what it is.

When quarreling, whether there is room in life for two people to quarrel is inevitable, and it is also the easiest to hurt feelings. Many couples or couples have to end the relationship because of a quarrel. In fact, sometimes it's not because the other party has no love in their hearts, but because they are too impulsive when they quarrel, which leads to an irreversible ending.

Therefore, if two people are suitable for each other, they should also look at each other's performance when they quarrel. If the other party can control their emotions, leave room when arguing, and not embarrass the other person too much, then it is suitable for the other party. If neither party wants the other to go, it is better to separate as soon as possible.

Can you tolerate each other's shortcomingsEveryone has shortcomings, and some are still difficult or impossible to get rid of.

It's better if someone is big and easy to make mistakes, or someone is not good at talking and doesn't know how to be romantic. These are difficult to change, so whether two people are suitable depends on whether they can tolerate each other's shortcomings. Because there are two sides to everything, you should appreciate the strengths of the other while accepting the weaknesses of the other person.

If two people can't tolerate each other's weaknesses or some bad aspects, they are not suitable to be together. Do you agree with each other's ideals? Everyone has different experiences, different ideas.

For example, some people don't want to spend too much time on their careers because their parents were busy with business when they were young. As long as you can maintain a normal life, the most important thing is to spend time with your family.

Looking at whether the three views of both parties are the same, you can see whether they are suitable for being together.

Because there is no way for two people with different views to be together, even if they are together now, then they will definitely quarrel and break up because of some things in life in the future.