What is it like to not communicate with people for a long time?

People are social animals, and not communicating with people for a long time will cause a withdrawn personality, which will cause some psychological changes, which will easily lead to autism, language barriers, and so on. They are afraid of crowds, of strangers, of just wanting to hide in their own little world, feeling that it is unsafe outside, not wanting to go out, and not wanting to talk to people.

If you don't communicate with people for a long time, you will get yourself into an embarrassment, and I am used to not communicating with others.

The occasional communication with someone makes me very uncomfortable, and I want to get away from such a situation immediately.

I was able to feel happy and free when I was alone, and I was afraid to communicate, I was afraid to communicate, and I even avoided communication.

Which is not good for yourself, a person's happiness is based on others and you share, if you do not communicate with people which you are prone to depression for a long time, to come out from now on, and friends and relatives to go out on a trip once, so that your mood will also be helped, maybe you will be willing to communicate with people after you come back from the trip.

Being away from people for long periods of time is a particularly lonely experience. Because people are social creatures, they need to communicate and exchange ideas with others frequently, and if they are always alone, they are easy to think crankily and even suffer from some diseases.

If you don't communicate with others for a long time, you will not want to communicate with others more and more, so you will fall into a dead loop, which will also have a certain impact on our personality, and finally you will find that you have fewer and fewer friends. We must open our hearts and communicate more with others to make ourselves better.

I think that not communicating with people for a long time is an experience of going back to ancient times. Because the most important thing in our society is communication between people, and if you don't communicate, you will gradually become less talkative, and you will not know how to communicate with others, so I think not communicating with people for a long time is like going back to ancient times, only you don't need to communicate with others.

Being alone for a long time, not communicating with others, or a closed experience. If you get used to this closed state, then you don't want to communicate with people anymore in the future. There is even a chance that you will enjoy this closed experience.

It is still necessary to communicate more with others and vent the dissatisfaction in your heart, so that people can live happily.

I think a person, if you don't communicate for a long time, your personality will definitely change, and the relationship between people is based on the most basic communication, if you don't communicate with a person, you will definitely become a stranger, and if you don't communicate for a long time, you will become silent.

If you don't give people a communication group for a long time, you will often miss the meaning in your expression. For a while, for more than a month, I hid at home, had only a little conversation with my family, and cut off contact with the outside world. Later, with the encouragement of my family, I went to interview for a job again, and the interviewer said a brief introduction of yourself, but I actually said it intermittently and aimlessly.

I actually talked about my former company work.

Lili, will you go out to dinner with us? ”

I didn't say anything, just shook my head.

Lili, I'm running out of laundry detergent, can you lend me yours? ”

I still didn't say anything and nodded.

Over time, a month passed, and I didn't say a word, and slowly and slowly they didn't bother to pay attention to me, they just regarded me as air.

At this time, I really felt very lonely and regretful.

First of all, everyone's knowledge reserve and ability to process information are different, due to different professional backgrounds, different positions, and different growth environments, so everyone's understanding of the same thing is different, and it is difficult to reach an agreement.

The second is expression, the meaning that can be expressed is only a small part of cognition, and cognition may only be a small part of objective things, so what can really be expressed through words and language is very limited. This process is also affected by one's own knowledge reserves, and if one's own reserves are insufficient, the expression will be discounted. Sometimes they will tacitly assume that the other party should understand this point, and directly ignore it, maybe because of the difference in knowledge reserves.

Why is it so hard to communicate with others?

Because it's not difficult, as long as you do the following, you will feel that it is not difficult to communicate with people. 1.Learn to empathize.

Imagine what I want others to do to me, and how you should do to others. Remember, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." ”2.

Learn to respect others. Everyone wants to be respected, respected and understood by each other, which is a prerequisite for good communication. 3.

Learn to be genuine. No one can refuse someone who is honest, sincere, and sincere. 4.

Cultivating your observation and verbal skills, as well as adopting individualized communication skills, will allow you to be comfortable in a variety of social situations. Hope it helps.

Because everyone thinks differently, otherwise how could there be thousands of readers, thousands of Hamlets? As long as you are sincere with people, you should look down on people or things that are not worthy...

Because the gap between people is huge, there is a good saying that the gap between people is greater than the gap between people and pigs.

1.The strength is not enough.

If you were his boss who was 20 years his senior, would he still be like that?

2.The positioning is incorrect.

To be honest, in the workplace, old employees ridicule new employees, and leaders count employees, which is more or less unfair. Objectively speaking, this is the embodiment of the sense of ritual in the workplace.

Do you find it difficult to accept criticism from others because you feel like you're very good?

3.Lack of communication.

You don't know each other's abilities and experiences, and your understanding and judgment of each other only stays at the level of having a first impression and imagining a character from a first impression.

He thinks you're average, or you think he's ordinary, which leads to an imbalance in normal workplace relationships.

4.People have problems.

It may be that the other party is paranoid and impatient. It could also be that you are confident and do not listen to opinions.

It should be that your emotional intelligence and speaking skills are not enough, it is very important to learn philology well and communicate orally, it is very bad for a person to have no communication skills.

The main reasons: first, the other party is too personal and does not care about others;

Second, the gap between the interests of the two sides is too large to reconcile;

Third, the other party is too closed, does not interact with others, and holds the incomplete;

Fourth, because their own or the other party's taste and grade are not enough, there is no common language.

In fact, it is not difficult to master certain skills at all. Just put yourself in the other person's shoes and work out a solution.

If you feel that communication is difficult, you don't communicate with him, and people who are good at beating around the bush are not worth making friends with! Truth is truth!

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3.The second is that the starting capacitance of the water pump is attenuated very badly and cannot achieve the effect of starting. 4.

The first reason is to find a way to get rid of the rust inside and it can rotate normally.

1. The individual is too personal and does not care about others.

2. The gap between the interests of the two sides is too great to reconcile.

3. The individual is too closed, does not interact with others, and holds the incomplete.

4. Because you or the other party does not have enough taste and grade, you have no common language.

The main reasons why it is difficult to communicate:

1. The individual is too personal and does not care about others.

2. The gap between the interests of the two sides is too great to reconcile.

3. The individual is too closed, does not interact with others, and holds the incomplete.

4. Because you or the other party does not have enough taste and grade, you have no common language.

I had the same experience. But in fact, it is not difficult to communicate with people, adjust your mentality, and be confident in yourself Self-confidence is the most basic.

First try to be open to others, to be receptive and to have a desire to fit in. This desire can make you less concerned about the frustrations you may encounter during the integration process (such as the fact that others don't treat you as you expect). You will become proactive.

Let yourself be sincere and friendly from the heart, and be eager to help, then others will sooner or later feel that you are a person. (Of course, be careful, don't be overly enthusiastic and filial, but also pay attention to staying vigilant and protecting yourself) Smile is the same, its original intention is to make others feel our friendliness, willingness to accept others, and politeness. Then from the perspective of others, I will reduce the sense of distance with you, feel that I will not be frustrated in communicating with you, and will naturally be willing to communicate with you.

Being polite can increase the goodwill of others. Realizing this, a smile is not a mechanical giggle. You are sincere and open to others in your own heart, how can you care about what others say and laugh at?

Find your interests and cultivate areas that interest everyone so that you have something to speak about in the group discussion. This way you have something to say, an idea, and a desire to fit into the group, and you will naturally join the discussion without thinking about what other people will prejudice you or something. You said that you like to study a lot, and that's good, whether you like it or not, at least you can say something, because there's so much knowledge and information.

Sometimes communicating with people doesn't have to be done in the book. Sometimes it's just a matter of naturally speaking your mind and exchanging opinions with others, which is communication. Don't overcomplicate it. Then think about the skills in the communication process.

Don't let it bother you anymore, start from now on with confidence and positivity, take the initiative to communicate with others, and be sincere to everyone. No matter what difficulties may arise at the beginning, believe in the right mindset, and eventually your change will be seen and accepted by others.

The above is my feelings, it may be a bit verbose, but I hope it can help your situation. Finally, I wish you to live in harmony with your colleagues and integrate into the group as soon as possible. Have a happy and fulfilling day, whether it's your work performance or interpersonal interactions.

It may be the influence of personality factors, or it is that you have too little communication with the outside world, have an inferiority complex, and do not know how to communicate with others, which brings troubles to your life.

Guidance: I hope you cultivate self-confidence, pay more attention to your own advantages and specialties in life, often contact and socialize with confident and cheerful friends, learn their positive and optimistic attitude, boldly show your strengths, constantly exercise your courage, learn some methods and skills of communicating with others, try to communicate with others, and learn to grow yourself.

I hope you are full of confidence in yourself, give yourself positive psychological hymns and hints every day, strive to grow yourself psychologically, and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude. Psychological counselling can also be adjunct**.

In our daily lives, whether in the workplace or in school, there are opportunities to communicate with others. But in today's society, many people are afraid to communicate with others. I think I can't express my ideas and ideas with others in a particularly smooth and confident way.

This kind of people are also buried next to the rock, which is called the social phobia crowd now. As the name suggests, it means that they have a fear of socializing and are afraid to communicate and communicate with others.

Socially phobic people. But in our daily life, we can't avoid the opportunity to communicate with others. Not only in the handover of work, but also in the daily purchase of things, there will be communication with others.

So in our daily life, how should those socially phobic people learn to communicate with others correctly? In fact, most people with this kind of psychology are due to their timidity, they dare not talk to others in public, for fear that others will always pay attention to themselves.

Misunderstandings arise. But what we need to know is that in fact, in fact, few people in public will pay attention and notice themselves. Only by communicating with others correctly can you express your thoughts well.

If you can't communicate and communicate with people correctly, it is easy to have some misunderstandings or quarrels. It will also make others misunderstand you, which will make you even more sad.

Exercise more. So when this happens, we have to try to slowly learn to communicate and communicate with people correctly. When we are at home, we can often look in the mirror and do something like talking to others.

Exercise regularly at home, and then relax your mind when you go out, take that step boldly and purely, and communicate with others. We may be very timid to talk to others at first, but we will gradually get better with more exercise. Letting others know their thoughts correctly, and discovering that they can communicate with others correctly, will give you a special sense of pride and pleasure.

In this case, we will think that normal communication is not that difficult.

1. There are many reasons such as different views, different beliefs, different political positions, etc., when there is no effective evidence to convince the other party, both sides will hold a point of view, and they cannot be persuaded to say, resulting in inability to communicate.

2. Because I don't know how to think about others, I don't know how to empathize and 2113. I only think about myself when I do things, I only care about the pleasure of what I say from 5261, and I only think about my own truth, so there is no way for people to communicate about this kind of thing. Therefore, no matter what you do with others or 4102, you must 1653 learn to think more, think more, and think more from the perspective of others.

3. When talking to people, you not only have the skills of speaking, but also the skills of listening. It's impossible to just talk and not listen. To achieve harmony between speaking and listening.