BF is not careful enough, I feel sad, why do I feel even more sad after having BF

If he really loves you, you can be more considerate of these shortcomings, not everyone is careful, if he is careful, then he is not a man. He may be joking with you, if you are really in trouble, you have to talk to him face to face, if he doesn't help you, then you can do without such a bf. If he helps you, then you have to remember to communicate more in the future and don't talk about the problem from the side.

When two people are together, they have to help each other.

It shows that your relationship has just begun, and the stage of development is not yet stable. It is estimated that he is not necessarily careless, and there are three cases for this:

The first type: He thinks you are joking, you are testing him casually, so he will not offer to give you money, but if you ask him directly, he will give it.

Second: He may want to give you money, but he doesn't know if what you say is true, and he is afraid of hurting your self-esteem, so he doesn't know how to help you.

Third: He may be busy at work. After all, you weren't particularly serious when you said it at the time, so he didn't pay much attention to it.

Well, if you're really having trouble and think he's someone you can trust, just tell him. Even among ordinary friends, it is appropriate to help each other.

Not considerate enough. Not true love.

Because you care about him, but sometimes he does things that make you feel sad. That's because I care about her too much.

Remember to adopt it.

This kind of feeling is not something that can be controlled if you want to control it, many feelings are involuntarily, and this kind of letting men say like and love may not be realistic, after all, some men are still not used to liking and loving something.

For this situation is a frequent occurrence (uh, there are a lot of friends like this), it is generally recommended to divert attention, don't let yourself care too much about these, or lower your expectations, try to change the angle, etc., such as looking for more difficult examples of love, comparing with yourself will feel your own happiness and satisfaction, or doing something that is of interest to both people to mobilize emotional communication, do couple games or something.

In fact, the biggest ** of your thoughts should be the lack of confidence in your relationship, and it is necessary to strengthen the emotional communication with BF.

The above is a personal opinion, I hope it can bring you a little help, and finally I wish you all the way to eternity

There is no other way but not to love.

You are too concerned about gains and losses, love someone to the point that if your departure can fulfill his happiness, you will leave without hesitation; You're probably tired of you. Most of the women in love are humble, if they really have to lose because of this, it means that they are not good enough; Most of the women in love are also irrational, which makes people stay away; If you lose him because of this, you are too uneconomical. Cultivate diligently, cultivate until your heart has no distractions, just love for that person, and do happy things for him.

Don't force him to leave you because of love.

Don't use love as an excuse to rely on a certain person, the current society is really realistic, there are many changes in the human field, so afraid of being abandoned by others, why not learn to be independent? As long as people are independent, many things will not be so afraid.

In fact, no, it should be said that everyone has their own way of falling in love, and they also have their own personality, and there is a cold period when they are in love, it is not that they don't care about each other, there may be many reasons, they are busy with work and study, or they want to stay by themselves for a while, please give each other some time, love needs to be understood.

I don't want to ask you if you're good enough for him!

You snubbed him for a few days. See if he hits ** to you. Hitting ** to ask you what's wrong means that he values you. Don't overdo it. If it's too much, it's miserable. (Cellphone call.) I'm sorry if you don't give points)

You can cold him for a few days, and you have to be careful not to go too far.

Then break up, you have asked questions three times, good girl.

Don't do that, my dear

If you can truly feel that your boyfriend loves you, then the two of you should communicate well.

Today is Valentine's Day, give yourself a good mood, don't ruin your mood in such a festival. When 2 people are together, money is a small thing, whether you love you or not, honesty or not is the big thing.

In other words, your boyfriend may be such a person himself, don't change him, what you want to love is his original appearance, not what you want. The way people love is different, maybe his love for you is this way, and it is not measured by money. So, now close your eyes and feel with your heart if you can feel his love for you.

Think about it.

If this person is really not suitable for you, then don't be together, if this person is suitable for yourself, then, don't let go of fate and regret it.

In fact, the relationship is really not that big, without this person, there will be someone more suitable for you to love you and protect you.

Honey, I hope you are happy!! Also, I wish you a happy Tanabata Festival.

Laugh and be happy

Do you call that love? I had a couple when I was in high school, and the two of them were fine, but whenever I took a directing class, his girlfriend sat with him here, and there were two men sitting there, and then he had trouble with women, and his girlfriend had trouble with other men, which is still called love? 1l is right, they don't love each other, but loneliness, but want to show the same love, your boyfriend pulls and pulls with other girls in front of you, and also does things to you, and says that this is love for you, can't help it?

It's disgusting, have you ever experienced true love? That's right. You are simply a tool for him to vent!

I am very responsible to say to you, he doesn't love you at all!

He doesn't care about you, he's playing tricks on you, he's taking advantage of you, and when you're worthless, it's time to break up.

The third one is already there, alas, poor child

Let's look for it again, tomorrow will be better

If these are not problems that you feel yourself and that everyone around you can find, then you can leave. If you are not happy, what do you do if you are still around, and if you are all wronged, what else to endure. Isn't it too pitiful if there are couples who are unhappy on Tanabata?

It's all girls, I don't want you to pay so much to the end of nothing, if he cares about you, he won't pay attention to these problems, if you are good and don't want to separate, then you tell him what you think, if he wants to stay, you have to see a changed him, if it is not changed to stay, you can leave without regrets, if you don't love like this, there is nothing to be sad about, there is a better waiting for you, give up a man who doesn't love you, there will be more men who love you. Come on.

Is that love? Since you don't love it, don't be together, don't be together because of loneliness, sometimes that feeling will turn into dependence, and you may have become accustomed to the love you have been giving.

To be a man is to be responsible. Crying man. I don't know what a sense of responsibility is. A little bit of a man can. But be responsible. Crying doesn't solve things. It is a sign of weakness.

Why does a man cry at every turn, I don't think he loves you, but you love him very much, break up.

Constant contact is key to the progress of the relationship.

Spend more time with him.

But some of his actions look like he's trying to dump you.

Pick a time to talk to him.

If it really doesn't work, let's make a decision.

He doesn't seem to care about you.

Affection has been empty since ancient times, and this hatred is endless.

Break up with him Either you will be wronged in the future Do you want to marry such a person If you have money and refuse to spend it on you You raise your own children Maybe he is just a little white face waiting for you to support him If you are sensible, you will break up There is also a man who always cries What is it Hearing you say that he thinks he is disgusting He will play tricks If you are not stupid, break up.

It's not that he loves you, it's lonely, and it's not appropriate for you two to follow

Add me to enlighten you.

You can reply to him when you have time, don't want him to talk about you, you will reply, and then you will have time to ignore him, and then go back, just say that you are too busy to see just now.

Tell him you need to calm down.

I'm also easy to be like this, when there is such a person around me, I don't know how to cherish it, but when I lose it, I will know how wrong I am, you can occasionally do something that makes him ignore you for a few days, when you will know how good he is, so that you can make yourself care more about him...

All I can say is, cherish him.

It must have had some effect on your mood at the time.

There was a time when I was also annoyed, and scolded my bf with an idiom

Later, he was said to be uneducated. Scattered.

So you have to be careful.

Don't go my way.

Aesthetic fatigue is the same for everyone. Just pay attention to adjust your mentality. Think more about his strengths. Appropriately extend the time between meetings to add a bit of freshness.

Haha,Then you just find a way to ignore him.,He doesn't care about you.,It's just a suggestion from me.,But it's not entirely right.,I'm also a boy.,If he loves you, he'll care about you.。。

Find an excuse to ignore him for a day or two, and see if he's in a hurry. Hehe.

I'm a boy, and I'm sorry for girls!

You pretend to be seriously ill and see what he is like, and you will understand everything!