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The first thing to do is to break the mystery of habit formation. In the eyes of some people, without perseverance and hard work, they will not develop good habits. They are afraid of hardship, fear of frustration, and cannot persevere in perseverance, so they do not develop good habits.
Over time, there is an illusion that only successful people have good habits, and ordinary people are not worthy of talking about good habits. Recently, I read an article written by a Korean, to the effect that it is not difficult to succeed. The article says that when successful people introduce their experiences to teenagers who aspire to success, they often emphasize how tortuous and difficult their road to success is, which makes teenagers daunting.
In fact, in real life, everyone feels success every day, such as doing a math problem correctly and coming up with a good idea. If you bring these feelings of success together, everyone can succeed, and success is not as difficult as imagined. It is this ** that inspired the fighting spirit of Koreans to pursue success, and led to the economic take-off of South Korea in the sixties and seventies.
I think habit formation is the same as the pursuit of success. As long as we exercise consciously, each of us will develop good habits. Second, the formation of habits lies in repeated repetition.
Wei Shusheng, a famous education reformer, once said that repeating the same thing 72 times can form a fixed situation. Influenced by Wei Shusheng's writing style, a teacher began to write a self-proclaimed diary every day, and in less than a month, he felt that writing had become a spiritual need like eating and dressing. Occasionally, because I didn't write a diary when I went out, I felt empty in my heart, and I had to make up for it when I had time to pay off yesterday's debts.
Choose what kind of behavioral habits you want to develop, and then insist on regular repetition, stimulate interest in repetition, learn something, and do more and more want to do it, and finally it will come to the point of "can't stop", some people insist on keeping a diary for a lifetime, which is completely habitual. Third, the sooner good habits are formed, the better. It is precisely because habits have great inertia that the earlier good habits are cultivated, the better.
Because inadvertently, each of us may form some bad habits, and some bad habits are not harmful, just pay a little attention. However, some bad habits are fatal and may affect some people's future and even lifelong happiness. If someone has the habit of discussing the rights and wrongs of others, they are often approached by others, causing confusion and family discord.
Once a bad habit is formed, it becomes extremely difficult to correct it, and it will manifest itself without even noticing, causing headaches and annoying people. For example, some comrades have a strong local accent, and although they learn to speak Mandarin, sometimes if they are not careful, the local accent will "slip out". Therefore, it is necessary to develop a plan for the formation of good habits at a young age.
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I think you should start with your child, and you should discuss it with your child, and if your child thinks it's okay, of course you can bargain, and don't force your child to come up with a plan that everyone is happy with.
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First of all, you should be friends with your children and chat with them to understand their inner thoughts.
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Cultivating good study habits in your child is a long-term process, and here are some suggestions to help you develop good study habits in your child:
Establish a stable learning environment
Create a quiet, tidy, and orderly learning environment for your child, away from distractions and entertainment devices. Make sure they have enough space to concentrate on their studies.
2.Make a clear study plan
Help your child develop a daily study plan and schedule, including study and rest periods. Get your child into the habit of learning according to a plan and try to keep them going.
3.Establish a regular study schedule: Kiricha.
Set a daily study time for your child and make sure they have enough time to complete homework and review. This will help them develop the habit of self-discipline and continuous learning.
4.Encourage a proactive attitude towards learning
Cultivate children's interest and curiosity in learning, and let them take the initiative to explore and learn new knowledge. Praise and reward your child's efforts and achievements to motivate them to learn.
5.Create effective learning methods:
Instruct your child to learn how to organize and summarize knowledge, how to plan learning tasks, and how to use different learning resources and tools. Teach them learning skills and methods to improve learning efficiency.
6.Develop good time management skills
Help your child manage his or her time and learn to organize tasks and activities to avoid procrastination and wasted time. This will help improve their learning effectiveness and self-organization skills.
7.Give the necessary support and assistance
As a parent, you can be your child's learning buddy and mentor, encouraging them to solve problems, ask questions, and provide necessary learning support and assistance.
The most important thing is to set an example for your children, and to show good study habits and attitudes. Through patience, encouragement and support, children will gradually develop their learning habits and build up their ability to learn independently and make continuous progress.
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Today, let's answer a topic that has attracted much attention - whether there is a correlation between children's academic performance and genes. There has been a lot of debate in the academic community about this issue, and we would like to provide some useful information for parents and students.
First of all, we need to understand a basic concept, which is heritability. Heritability refers to the degree to which genetic factors affect individual differences in a trait. For the trait intelligence, the heritability is relatively high, which means that genes have a greater influence on the level of intelligence.
However, this does not mean that genes completely determine a child's academic performance. Environmental factors, educational resources, nutritional status, family background, etc., will all have an impact on a child's intellectual development.
Second, let's look at some scientific research. According to domestic and foreign studies, there is a certain correlation between children's academic performance and genes. However, this correlation is not absolute.
Every child is unique, and factors such as their genetic mix, living environment, and educational conditions can all affect their academic performance. Therefore, we cannot simply use genes as the only criterion for measuring a child's learning ability.
So, do genes have a decisive impact on academic performance? The answer is no. Although genes play a certain role in the development of intelligence, they do not completely determine a person's ability to learn.
We can improve our learning ability through acquired efforts, good study habits, effective learning methods, etc. In addition, the correlation between genes and academic performance does not mean that we can ignore the equitable distribution of educational resources and the equity of education. We should actively improve the educational environment so that every child can enjoy high-quality educational resources.
Here, we also want to emphasize the idea that genes are not the chains of fate. Everyone has their own potential to explore, and the key lies in how to find the right method and path for you. Parents and students should focus on their own progress and growth, rather than worrying too much about the influence of genes.
Through hard work and continuous learning, every child can achieve excellent results.
Finally, let's face this with a positive mindset. Regardless of a child's genes, as parents and educators, we should pay attention to their interests, encourage their exploration, and provide them with a good learning environment and necessary support. In this process, we should guide children to discover their potential and develop their self-confidence and independent problem-solving skills.
In this way, every child has the opportunity to play to their strengths and achieve their dreams and goals.
In this era of challenges and opportunities, we should encourage children to pursue knowledge bravely and continuously improve their abilities. Regardless of their academic performance, we should see the shining points in them and give them trust and support. I believe that with the joint efforts of everyone, the children will thrive and grow up and show their talents and values.
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First of all, parents should create a good learning environment for their children. This includes the creation of a family atmosphere, parents' attitudes towards their children's learning, and their requirements for their children's learning. For example, in terms of the home environment, parents should set up a suitable space for their children's study, such as a study room or study room, and keep this environment clean and quiet.
In terms of parents' attitudes towards their children's learning, parents should encourage their children's learning as much as possible and not be too demanding of their children's academic performance. In terms of the requirements for children's learning, parents should make a reasonable study plan for their children and urge their children to study according to the plan.
Secondly, parents should guide their children to establish a correct attitude towards learning. The right attitude towards learning includes active learning, positive thinking, and not being afraid of mistakes. For example, parents can let their children learn actively, give them more opportunities to learn independently, and let them experience the joy of learning.
At the same time, parents should also guide their children to think positively and encourage them to ask questions and look for answers. In addition, parents should guide their children not to be afraid of mistakes, let them know that mistakes are an inevitable part of the learning process, and help them learn from their mistakes.
Finally, parents should develop good study skills in their children. This includes making study plans, taking notes in class, reviewing after class, and more. For example, parents can help their children make a reasonable study plan so that they know what to do and when.
At the same time, parents also pointed out that they should help their children take good class notes so that they understand the importance of class notes. In addition, parents should also help their children revise after class so that they understand the importance of revision for learning.
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Here's how to get your child into study habits:
1. Children's learning habits should start with parent-child reading, and this time is of course the earlier the better. Don't think that children don't know how to read at a young age, in fact, children have the ability to listen from the fetus, and they have the ability to explore listening from birth. Therefore, starting parent-child reading from an early age can not only make children's relationship with their parents more harmonious, but also correct some bad habits through reading-related knowledge.
2. A good study habit must have a good time habit, do fixed things at a fixed time, focus on eating when it is time to eat, play seriously when it is time to play, and read well when it is time to study, which not only allows children to have a good work and rest routine, but also allows children to know the importance of time and be responsible for their own time arrangement, which is also a good help for children's learning habits.
3. Through the cultivation of reading and time in the early stage, when children have independent ability, parents must learn to let go appropriately, so that children can become the leader of learning habits. When children have the initiative to learn, they will have a steady stream of internal motivation for learning, which is also a crucial part of habit formation. At the same time, the importance of learning should be emphasized again, and good study habits should be carried out no matter how old the child is.
Because continuous learning input is also the key to cultivating children's learning habits.
All in all, cultivating children's study habits is a long-term thing. Don't think it's a difficult and complicated thing, as long as you maintain continuous focus on effective learning every day, I believe that through the accumulation of time is to cultivate good learning habits for children.
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First of all, it is necessary to let children do things without procrastination, and cultivate children's concept of time from an early age.
For example, when we are in the third grade, we teach children to make time plans, parents can estimate how long it will take their children to write homework before they write their homework, and if it can be done in an hour, parents can help their children set a time and ask him to complete it within the specified time. In this way, children can develop the habit of not procrastinating, complete school homework as soon as possible, and have the spare energy to expand extracurricular knowledge.
If the child procrastinates, parents will have a hard time, and a procrastinating child will definitely not only procrastinate in learning, but also in life. For example, when I get up in the morning, my mother can't get up many times, and I can't get dressed or eat for half a day. Lifestyle habits will definitely affect study habits.
This is a concept of time, starting from the third grade, or even the first and second grades, you can start to cultivate, first grasp the child's living habits, such as getting up in the morning, must not be delayed, when to get up when to get up, and then slowly expand from the living habits to the child's learning habits. Second, be sure to train your child to concentrate.
When the teacher is in class, he will find that 99% of the students who are not very good at learning must be distracted in class, they will not listen to the main points of the teacher, and when the teacher tells some lighthearted, jokes and other content to introduce, they just listen to the jokes. It is very important for children to pay attention, and it is recommended that parents empty the toys and other things that are not related to homework on the child's desk when he is doing his homework, and only put what he needs for this subject.
Also, before your child does his homework, let him finish eating snacks and going to the toilet.
When the child is writing homework, parents should not disturb him, and must not watch TV outside, parents should also be in a state of learning on the side, such as reading books and newspapers in another room, or they can accompany their children to do homework while reading books next to them.
The scope of the issue is too broad. The main principle is not to turn care into a fetter for children's growth.
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