What should a girl do when she refuses to beg for the elderly on the street and is abused, and she e

Since ancient times, our country has had the virtue of respecting the old and loving the young. Parents taught us to respect the elderly, and I think the most fundamental reason is to respect their social contributions, and their character, not their age. But in recent years, there has always been a situation on the news that some old people rely on the old and sell the old, feeling that they are old and that no matter what they do, they are right.

Faced with these situations , we can do so.

The first point is that if you are in a public place, such as a train seat, and you encounter this situation, we can turn to the staff and let the staff solve the problem, and we must remember that we cannot clash with the elderly head-on.

The second point, which is related to the absence of staff. If there is no staff, then take the method of ignoring it, and ignore it no matter how much trouble he makes. After making trouble for a long time, he probably will feel bored and will calm down.

The third point. If you meet an elderly person who says particularly ugly things, insults your relatives, friends, personality, and touches your bottom line, then at this time you can fight back verbally. When necessary, we can secretly record with our mobile phones.

But we all have to remember that we must not do it first, if the other party does it first, we can protect ourselves and call the police on 110 so that the police can intervene to deal with the matter.

Fourth point. If the situation is very urgent and there is no time to call the police, you must find a place with security and monitoring, so that the monitoring can record the cause of the incident, so that there is evidence and protect your legitimate rights.

I think everyone is equal, and respect is also mutual, you respect me, I respect you, if you trample on my dignity, then I will also use the law to protect myself, no matter who you are. So when we encounter this situation, we must outwit and try to avoid face-to-face conflicts. We must do it in the right way to protect our interests, we don't hurt others, but we also have the ability not to be hurt by others.

Calm down and reason with him first. Giving is affection, not duty. If you don't listen to the unreasonable words, you can only stay away from him. Avoid physical contact, otherwise you will be seen by passers-by and you will not be able to explain it reasonably.

Don't bother with this kind of person, because they are unreasonable, just ignore the people who rely on the old and sell the old, they are old, and if they are entangled with heart disease and high blood pressure, they will be responsible for them, no matter what they scold, just leave, don't worry about them.

I think that when you encounter this kind of person who relies on the old and sells the old, you must not have too much theory with them, and you must stay away from them.

Of course, there is no sin in not giving money, no one's money is blown by the wind, and it does not mean that if you want me, I have to give it. Those who are willing to give will naturally give, and there is nothing wrong with those who are not willing to give, there is a saying called "not helping is duty, helping is love." ”

The refusal of "I am weak and I am reasonable" happened in Zhengzhou, Henan, begging the old man to beg the girl, after the girl refused, the old man actually scolded, scolding the girl for not being a good person, and she could not make a fortune in this life. And this old man does not look like a disabled person, his body also looks healthy, and he does not speak like a vulnerable group at all. The old man probably thought that the girl looked glamorous and that he should give him a few dollars, and did not feel that it was undignified to ask for money.

The old man's appearance of being weak and reasonable makes people speechless, others are not related to him, and they are not his family, so they have no obligation to get used to him. There is nothing wrong with what the girl did, and such an old man should not be connived at to continue to swagger and deceive. If you are healthy, have hands and feet, why should you be a beggar?

You can also support yourself by doing some work, in the final analysis, such a person is lazy, and he feels that society owes him.

There is another begging old man who directly takes the collection code and asks the girl to transfer a dollar. There is a saying that the elderly rarely know how to get the collection code, and it is very likely that the old man's family instigated the old man to come out and beg. In this case, it is even more impossible to scan the code, so as not to make the family of the old man feel that this can be profitable, and then continue to let the old man come out to beg.

Help people who really need helpIf it was someone who was really in difficulty, I believe the girl would try her best to help, but it was obvious that these two old men were not. The old man who scolded him was really disrespectful to the old, which really confirmed the saying "bad people have become old". He positioned himself as a weakling, betraying his dignity, and in fact he was a spiritual weakling, already inferior.

The girl didn't hurt anyone, she was just defending her interests, and she wasn't guilty.

There is no sin in not giving money. I don't think the girls on the streets refuse to beg the elderly, because it is our duty to give subsidies and help, but it is not a duty that we have to fulfill.

No sin, an old man who abuses for not giving money is certainly not a real poor person, such a person is not worth helping.

Of course, there is no sin in not giving money, there is nothing wrong at all, I can't be justified because I am poor, this girl does not owe the old man, why should she give money because the old man is begging.

There is no sin in not giving money. The girl is not the child of the old man, and she is not obliged to give money to the old man. The old man's abuse of the girl was too much.

Give 10 bucks and leave. Don't ask why....

Tell him to take him to the aid station, or tell him to help call the police. If he turns around and leaves, hehe, you know how to ......

Among the begging crowd, the elderly are very conspicuous, they are in their old age, trembling and begging in the streets and alleys, sleeping in the open air, and having no fixed place, which makes people feel very sad to see, and can not help but make us sigh that life is not easy. What should we do when we are confronted with an elderly man begging?

First of all, it is necessary to judge accurately. Many people have been deceived by fake beggars, and thus have a bad impression of them, and accordingly a lack of empathy, which is understandable. But we can't think that all beggars are **, especially when we meet the old people who are begging, we must carefully observe their words and deeds, and make an accurate judgment on whether the old man in front of us is a fake beggar; Generally speaking, most of the old beggars in their last years will not be fake beggars.

If we judge that the old man begging in front of us is not a fake beggar, then we should give them a certain amount of money and goods within the scope of our ability to help them; If the old man begging in front of him belongs to the kind of fake beggar who takes advantage of people's sympathy to defraud money, not only should he not give money, but he should also remind others not to be fooled.

Some elderly people are indeed widowed, lost children, natural and man-made disasters and other reasons, life is in a difficult situation, have to come out to beg, for these elderly people, in addition to giving a certain amount of money and goods, we should also actively contact social assistance agencies, so that they have a relatively stable place to live.

Some people are afraid of trouble and deceived, and as soon as they encounter a beggar, whether it is true or not, they immediately stay away, which is not right.

For the elderly who run away from home and beg, it is necessary to find a way to communicate with them, contact their families, and let the elderly go home as soon as possible.

For the elderly who have mental disorders or are sick or disabled, they should contact medical institutions and social assistance agencies at the same time, so that their lives can be rescued and they can also get sick in time.

When the old begging is hurt by bad people, we should stop or call the police in time to protect the personal rights of the old begging.

In short, in the face of begging elderly, we should be more loving and patient, and less wary and indifferent; More enthusiasm and sympathy, less disgust and discrimination, let them feel the warmth of society.

If it looks like I really need help, I'll help, but if it's the kind of person who is strong and doesn't have any other disabilities, I won't help someone like that.

If there is change, I will give some, because I can't tell if she is real or fake, that change does not matter to me, if she is a real beggar, it can help her.

When I meet an old man who is begging, I will help, I think they are very pitiful, but as long as they have the ability and children to take care of, they will not come out to beg, so if they can help, they still have to help.