An adolescent boy faces life

Read more books, read more newspapers, eat less snacks and sleep more

All right. To be serious, you can first set yourself a few goals that you can implement in the short term according to your personal interests, and you have the desire to implement them. You can start with popularity.

If you are popular, you can find classmates to teach you football, basketball and other things, not necessarily sports, and you can also share problems in study and life. If you think that popularity is not good, and if you want to become popular, you can make some attempts first:

You have to learn to communicate with people, you may say, isn't communication just talking, who wouldn't? In fact, it is not only this, but also the communication between the heart and the heart. There are several ways to enhance your communication with your classmates.

1.You probably have a few classmates or table mates who have a good relationship, right? Even if you don't, don't be discouraged, observe the classmates in your class, there must be one or more people who are very popular, and have nothing to do to chat with classmates who are better communicative, and if you really have nothing to say, try to praise others, or ask more questions related to others, and you may be happy with your questions.

For example, "Your clothes are so white, did you wash them yourself?" And so on.

2.Listen carefully, listen to other people's ideas, try not to interject when others are talking, if you disagree, you can bring it up for discussion after others have finished speaking, pay attention not to be too loud, and control it within the range that you can both hear.

3.Try not to speak ill of others behind your back, and don't stop others from saying to you, because people always need to confide, this is a way to vent.

4.Always smile, not an awkward fake smile, a smile that expresses kindness from the heart, and don't giggle, you can smile when greeting others or when others ask questions. Smiling won't cost you anything, but it will often be hugely rewarding.

5.It doesn't matter if one or two people don't like you, people are not RMB, it is impossible to make everyone like them, just be yourself. Of course, if most of your classmates don't like you, you have to find your own reasons.

6.Smile and say hello to people you know (classmates, teachers, etc.), if someone doesn't see them first, you can call him, and if you ignore you, you may not hear them. Don't be discouraged, someone will accept your kindness.

Take your time and face life with an optimistic heart, and you will find things to be happy about in life. Learn to regulate your mood, happiness is also a day, and troubles are also a day, why make yourself so miserable?

7.Be confident and have self-esteem, others will believe in you and respect you, and think more about problems from the other person's point of view.

That's pretty much it, you try to change yourself first, maybe the first few days don't improve much, maybe even worse, don't be discouraged, insist on being kind to others, and slowly your life will become happy and full of hope.

I'm a girl, I'm not pretty, and my grades aren't good, but I have a lot of friends, and I have a good attitude to face everything and do my best to change myself, which is of course the good side.

I'm the same, it's not a big deal, it's just that they don't have a unique vision. Be yourself.

You should have a strong body, this is achievable, and then you must be a good person, you must have prestige, make friends, participate in more activities, and hope that you will succeed.

Eating well, sleeping well, and being in good health are the greatest happiness. Cultivate a normal mind.

Adolescent boys have a rebellious mentality.

Adolescence, also known as the rebellious period, may produce a certain amount of rebellious psychology, such as some boys are irritable, emotionally unstable, may have conflicts with others because of smaller things, and may also be shown as school boredom, unable to control their emotions well, etc.

The gradual increase in the sense of independence, do not want parents to exercise too much discipline, and do not want parents to force themselves to accept their so-called good ideas, which may be related to parents who are too doting on their children, or parents who are too strict, and who have wrong education methods.